Thursday 27th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.89.
To go out with friends and have fun is one thing but to go out with friends gambling and loosing the bet is another.
I have a client who had a bet on the horses and lost. The forfeit is when he comes to see me to let me do whatever I want to him.
So when he messaged me to say his friend was going to contact me with the things he wanted done to him. I was think “oh what fun”.
Leaving a mistress in total control… is that wise and one that is not afraid to do anything, I mean anything.
So I received the message and the things that wee mentioned weren’t anything out of the normal as my client was a bit extreme anyway in our normal sessions.
So as the day drew closer I would get the odd nervous text to beg not to do anything outrageous because he had very important meetings the next day.
I wouldn’t reply to keep him guessing. As that’s what loosing a bet is all about. Its not supposed to be comfortable.
On the morning of the appointment (which was at 4:30pm) I had a very seriously worried man that was that nervous like he was about to do a buggee jump with a rope.
At that point I replied with “Don’t worry. Trust me”. I had only met him 2 times so saying that didn’t ease things but I found it hilarious.
When he turned up he approached my door like a sorry naughty dog with his tail between his legs. As he stepped into my hallway from the door way he didn’t say a word.
I put my hand out for him to place the tribute into it and then looked at the stairs for him to go up them to my entertinment floor.
As he stood at the top of the stairs waiting for me to join him he said in a very timid voice “what are you going to do to me?”
I looked into his eyes and said nothing and just ignored him. I walked straight pasted him as if he wasn’t there.
When I decided to speak I told him to get undressed apart from his under pants. Then i said “take them off and pass them to me”. This made him puzzled and a little confused.
As I held them in front of him. I got my scissors and cut them down the middle. “no” he said with a begging tone to his voice. “Why” I said “don’t you have another pair with you?”
He was booked into a hotel close by as he had a meeting for the next couple of days in the next town.
I walked to my widow, opened it and threw them out. “Now you don’t have any knickers, do you!!!”
From then on he knew what I said I meant in every way possible…
So if you fancy loosing our bet then contact me and see what happens…
Wednesday 26th February 2020
Daily Blog No.88.
When clients come to me they come to put their fantasies into reality but some have a massive shock when I turn out to be an action mistress than just a whatever mistress.
The difference between the two types of mistresses are that the whatever mistress takes on board what you say but does nothing about it and does what she wants in the session.
A action mistress is someone that listens and hears what you say and then at some point in your relationship with her she remembers what you have said and acts upon that fantasy.
I had a appointment today just like that. He had come to me for at least 5 sessions of 3 hours and I have got to know him very well.
He comes to me for his hairdressing fantasies. On the first time he came to me he mentioned about having a hand cuffed head shave. Now his hair was reasonably long for a gent of his age but this was so he could have a blow-dry and roller sets in a sissy fantasies.
After a few sessions he found he was very comfortable with giving me ides on what he would like but nothing to scripted. So I could guide the session how I wished.
So today he came in and we chatted as normal. He undress down to nothing and sat in the barbers chair. I turned into mistress as soon as he sat down looking at him straight in the eye into the mirror to make him feel uneasy.
I reached out to his am as I grabbed the handcuff that was already attached to the arm of the chair. I cuffed him on both wrists and went back around to the back of the chair and stood with both my hands on his shoulders for a few seconds to unease him a bit more.
Still in silence I then reached for my leatherette apron and proceeded to put that on. He didn’t know what I had in mind but he knew it was a haircut as he was looking a little wind swept and untidy.
I started this haircut like a normal haircut, trimming my way around what need to be tidied. All of this time it was in silence, no talking. Then out of the blue I stopped what I was doing and went to look in my big black naughty box.
I came back with a roll of PVC tape. I proceed to wrap it around his head and over his eyes so he could not see but could hear what I was doing.
An expression on his face, even if you cant see it all tells a lot and at this point he let out a big sigh as if to say “Holy shyte what is she going to do?”
I then went over to m trolley and opened up the drawer and got out my clippers and all 8 guards. I lined them on the counter so I could see them as I used them one by one. from 8 down to the shortest I think he should be.
Once he heard the buzz of the clippers he remembered what he had said to me on the first session. As I skimmed the no .8 over the top of his head he moved like he was startled.
As I went to take the no.7 and then the NO.6. and 5 he was getting more and more tense in his relaxed body. When I finally decided on what number guard to stop at I took off the blindfold to let him see what his haircut was like.
Now because he had a blind fold on I could only do the top and partial sides leaving the back of the neck and ears long.
He was horrified that I had the balls to go ahead with this erotic in his mind but not so erotic fantasy in real life. He sat there gob smacked not knowing what to say. That was good because I didn’t want to talk as it would of ruined the atmosphere.
We still had an hour to go of the end of the session but I said to him that he looked pathetic with a shaved head and that I cant stand looking at him. So I dismissed him and he went on his way.
When telling an action mistress what your fantasies are, just be careful what you ask for…As in my case you will get it at some point in our journey together…
If you are brave enough to contact me to tell me your darkest and deepest fantasies, go on…I dare you.
I will look forward to receiving you inquiries…
Tuesday 25th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.87.
Sorry I did not upload a Daily Blog last night as I had problems with my login details but luckily I only had to wait 24 hours till I was rectified.
Back in the day when I ran a barbers shop in town , if I had known about the fetish world back then like I do now the shop would of been so much more different than it was.
If i had a barbers shop myself i would call it ‘Fethair’. Sounds a little French but I like it.
I would call it that because ‘Fetish Hairdressing’ it wouldnt go down to well. So to abreivate is better on the eye.
I would have fetish days of outfits.
Me and my staff would wear PVC on day then Latex the next ect…
You would feel comfortable to wear your silky panties and stockings under your alpha male trousers without anyone batting an eyelid.
May be even your matching bra set you have always wanted to wera to a barbers but nervous that some one will out you by noticing.
Sissy sets would have a room out the back so you can bring out your inner sissy for all the other sissys to admire.
I would do a haircut and a foot rub in a package price. I would name the package the ‘foot lovers haircut’. A haircut for the client and the client would I’ve the hairdresser/barberette a foot massage.
Another package would be ‘Short hair package’. Haircut for the client and the client would give a head massage to the hairdresser/babarrette.
Everything goes in my salon but desretion is the name of the game.
As we ive in an unexcepting world unfortunately. The Vanilla public accept what they want to and anything that is different they think is nasty or weird.
Little to do they know that they are missing out on alot of fun.
I would decorate my kinky kingdom in a way that anyone that was in to the fetish world would so know where i was coming from from would be rgular barbers for the vanilla clients.
It would be fun to see how many vanilla clients i could get to tell me their hidden kinks lol
I wouldnt set up a place like this unless i had the right staff with the same like mind and obviously they have a very high standard of hairdressing and barbering skills .
In my eyes it would take along time to arrange my ‘Dream Salon’.
Every angle of the shop would be photogenic. I would love to be able to do sessions in there buy then on a high street or in the public eye (even with blinds down ) it would be far to risky.
What i have at the moment is very pleasurable for my appointments so thats all good…
Monday 24th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.86
Over my 10 year career in the adult industry I have been walking a journey to find the real me and who I’m happy being.
The only way of finding out is by living in the persona and customising it to your every need.
I can finally say that I am very happy with who I am now and feel confident enough to elaborate and move forward in the steps I have planed for me.
If you are a less confident person and want to change but don’t know how then do as I did if it pleases you.
I sat in front of a mirror one day and just looked at myself. I didn’t just look at what was looing back at me but I took a good hard look deep into my eyes to see what the true me looked like.
To do this you have to dig deep in to your sole and find out what makes you happy and what makes you sad. What your doing at this present time and what you want to happen in the near and far future.
It might sound deep but to make a foundation for your future you have to make a sturdy foundation for it to progress.
Just like if you want to grow a fruit tree that you want to grow strong and sturdy. You then have to plant it in compatible earth and feed it well otherwise it will have no hope of flushing over the coming years.
So whatever you look like, even if you feel that you don’t fit in to the community you want to be know in, there are ways and means and answers to every question.
MOTO TO THE BLOG: Be Happy In Your Own Skin, Accept You For Who You Are Then Everyone Else Will Warm To You And Business Will Flourish.
If you need help in anything that you are hoping to progress in or even if you are lost and need some guidance contact me and if I can help you I will.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries.
Sunday 23rd February 2020
Wow, what marvellous things Feet are. For one thing without them we wouldn’t be able to walk or stand and for another they are a valuable part of our bodies that we take advantage of on a daily basis.
The amount of mileage they do on a average day is amazing. We should all take care of our feet whether we like it or not.
Not saying pedicures regularly but moisturiser and a bit of T.L.C every now and again would be perfect for them.
You love them and they will love you back but working for longer.
For a foot kinkster they look at the feet as a sexually arousing object that they have thoughts about caressing and smelling them but to a vanilla fetishist their mind thinks completely differently.
When looking into any photography you have to think like the kinkster. In a way like they look at the object you are photographing you have to imagine how their mind works.
To stage the fetish in the right way is crucial, to get the ultimate response that will give them a perfect satisfaction of experience.
The observer has to imagine that they are actually there holding the item or in the room with it.
For example of the topic of this blog today, Feet. Paws, Trotters whatever we like to call them…
They can be as unkept and disgusting to one onlooker and yet to another the thought of caressing the hard skin on the heel or experiencing the aroma of the feet that have been in warm confined work shoes for a long amount of time can be very arousing and erotic to another.
To imagine having the feet on a certain body part, moving the toes around and caressing it with passion that only a feetster would understand.
We are all individual in the fetish world and we all have fetishes even if we don’t yet realise it…
If you have a foot fetish and wold like to purchase any images, whether it be regular or customised photography contact me and we can converse some more on the topic.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…