15 Feb 2020
February 15, 2020

Why Does Punishment Hurt So Much…

Saturday 15th February 2020

Daily Blog NO. 77.
Punishment hurts in so many different ways, you are having it performed on you because you have done something wrong.
Many like to have this one to them to give them pain because it’s their fetish, kink, turn on.

The punishment all depends on the wrongdoing they have done. We are not talking about crime but a milder version. Although if people that had done something drastically wrong came to a mistress and not wasted taxpayers’ money by going to court etc it would teach a lot of people not to do it again.

The punishment, in that case, would be bounded and gaged corporal punishment to the highest level on whatever part of the body that committed the crime.

Your Choice…

For example, rapists then 500 thrashes on their member of the hardest strokes, Stealing then (depending on the offense) 50 to 1000 strokes to the palms of both the hands. Injury by kicking, 200 or more thrashes to the soles of the feet.

You may think that the rapist should get more thrashes but if you have ever been thrashed or hit on the member then you know even 10 thrashes is painful enough.

The punishment is worse when the individual is tied up and restricted, which they should be as I can imagine that they wouldn’t want this to happen to them on this level even in a kinky session.

The choice is a prison sentence or a trashing of excruciating pain for 30 minutes plus on the body part that did the crime.

The person who will perform the punishment will be the person (or a close relative of the person if death or disablement takes place) who had the crime committed on or against them.

Brutal but justifyingly satisfying I think.

Pain, as I have mentioned before in a previous blog, can be satisfying if you come to a mistress for pleasurable BDSM etc…

I have asked many of my extreme clients why they like the pain to such an extreme level  They have replied, to bring back memories and to help them go deep into their subspace where extreme pain can only take them…

If you would like a role-play scenario then contact me and we can converse more on the subject.

I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…



14 Feb 2020
February 14, 2020

Body Hair…Why We Need It?

Friday 14th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.76.
We are all born with a certain amount of hair all over our bodies. Then as we get older it grows to what our bodies require it to.
A lot of the time women are battling their body hair as the media says females should be hair free and smooth…but who makes this ruling?

A few years ago Julia Roberts gave up shave, waxing or whatever she did to her armpits and wore a red sleeveless dress to the Notting Hill Premier opening in 1999.

She is mostly known for her acting career but also this moment in history. I typed into google, actress with hairy armpits and Julia Roberts was first on the list.

A hairy bottom on a sissy is not acceptable to the male eye

Why is society so against hairy females? It is a very natural thing that happens to us all so why do a good percentage of us dislike it on a woman and in general.

I’m a hairdresser (if you hadn’t realized already lol) I love controlling, styling and manipulating it on the head but I am not a fan of it on my body.

I will in the winter grow it a bit when it gets to a certain length it feels unclean (even though I shower 1-2 times a day) to be clear of it completely feels much more hygenic.

This is why I say to a good majority of my clients. Male grooming is a common thing these days. To be completely waxed/shaved or partially waxed/shaved is up to the individual.

Say example you drop something that you’re eating on your chest hair if you are sitting there shirtless or shirt open. To clean up a substance is much harder to do in a hairy area than a trimmed or hair-free area.

A hairy chest is acceptable if you like that sort of thing

Also the same in your manly area. Another reason also if you are looking to extend length (individual personal preference only) then trimming back the bush adds instant length.

Being that this is valentines day I should have mentioned this a couple of blogs ago so you be ready to woo your partner/date with a couple of extra inches (even though you had that hidden away in the bush that you were keeping for many years lol).

It is not down to me to say what you should and shouldn’t do but anyone that goes commando will understand that catching your pubic hair in a zipper can be very eye-watering painful (unlike the film ‘Something about Mary’, scrotum skin caught in the zipper) hilarious film but even I cringed at that moment and I don’t have a scrotum (well I didn’t the last time I looked lol)

So although hair is there for a reason (to keep germs out of orifices) personal preference is always a must to feel comfortable with yourself.

If you are requiring a body grooming session contact me and we can converse more on the topic.

I will look forward to hearing from all you neanderthal men or very hairy women lol



Wednesday 5th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.67.

When you decide to take a rule of celibacy to yourself, is it the same thing as chastity?

When you have been active for the past younger years it becomes a way of life that you know no different. Just like when you learn to speak.

If you are brought up in England then you are taught English or if you are brought up in Italy for example then your taught to speak Italian.

Until you are introduced into a different way of thinking you know no different.

Chastity can be performed in many ways to the individual needs

Sex is not the be-all and end-all to everything. Its what you choose to be the priority of your daily routine.

Chastity is something that can be physically as well as mentally controlling but can also be associated with celibacy.

It’s all in the mind for it to work. Train your mind to go without it. Just like going without chocolate, it’s possible.

If you give the control of your sexual ways to another person you must stay loyal to them for as long as they say.

If you break that rule you then you will feel that you have betrayed your controller. Normally when you climax it a great euphoric feeling of a release that will make you happy.

Trying to keep what you have done to yourself is not good because you will feel a burden of guilt from that moment onwards.

So think before touching the forbidden place. As time can not be turned back to right the wrong that you have just done.

If you feel you would like some control in your life then contact me and we can converse further about the matter.

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01 Feb 2020
February 1, 2020

Unique Mistress Lucy…

Saturday 1st February 2020

Daily Blog NO.63.
I am very sorry to all the nice, well mannered and respectful clients I already have who will read this but this needs to be addressed as its getting out of hand.

My website and profiles that I advertise on have the top priority information that you need to know at the beginning of all adverts.

So why ask the questions when the information is clearly there in front of your eyes.

I recently have been getting a lot of response to my blogs (which is great) from all types of people (i am unable to call them clients as they are not worthy of such a title) and unfortunately, they have been very unsavoury indeed (i have to take the rough with the smooth, I understand that).

They have been asking for services that everyone else offers (including personal services which is absolutely clear that I do not offer) and expecting me to perform them the way everyone else does…I don’t.

I perform them the unique Mistress Lucy way that I am comfortable with.

I like to have a unique twist to everything I do in my sessions. I do not take my clothes off in any way shape or form. Clients are more likely to ask me to dress up in certain outfits which will give the ambience of the role-play a better flow.

  • If you think that facesitting is oral…think again, it’s not.

    Do I Look Like A Febble Little Female?

  • If you think sploshing is food sex and groping each other…think again, it’s not.
  • If you think that toilet training is receiving directly from me and I expose my body parts to you…think again, it’s not.
  • If you would like to see me wearing stockings…you can but you can only see between my knee and my foot as I will not raise my skirt for anyone.
  • If you would like to see me in a basque…you may see me in a corset (over the top clothing as a basque is known as underwear) with a skirt or trousers but not a corset only.

Basically, if you want to see a mistress walk around scantily clad then DO NOT contact me as I am not the mistress for you.

A modern-day mistress will be willing to do anything clothed or unclothed. An old schoolmistress requires respect and admiration and will never undress or show her lady parts in any nature to anyone.

She is a lady to be put on a pedal stool that you look up to and worship in the manner she is used to.

So do not take my nice naturally friendly manner for a soft touch. I will not have anyone try to pull the wool over my eyes.

Just as you think you have one over on me I will, out of the blue come back with such an unexpected response your regret you ever thought of me as a silly little fragile female.

I have been in this business for long enough to know how to handle every type of client, greeting and response.

I have developed very thick skin over the years so nothing will offend or upset me. You are more than likely going to get offended or upset more than me.

Your choice… you’ve been warned.

Do not forget what I have told you as if you do disrespect me in any way you will lose out on ever meeting me or get severally punished for your bad manners without you knowing it.

So when looking at the content of my online whereabouts, think before contacting me.

Take into consideration these points:

  1.  Are you in my prefered age category?
  2. Be respectful in the manner that you greet and converse with me. I am not your babe, darling or hun. Its Mistress or Lucy depending on the reason you are contacting me.
  3. Think about what you would like to experience when or if you are allowed to visit me.

So hopefully this blog has helped all those disrespectful young boys or older guys that are old enough to know better.

I will carry on blocking anyone that goes against my rules. I am comfortable with the number of regular clients I have so don’t think that I need to take every client that contacts me.

I only agree to well mannered and respectful clients to visit me at my home.

So if you are in the category of well mannered and respectful gents that are over the age of 35 years old then I will be happy for you to contact me.

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27 Jan 2020
January 27, 2020

Powder Play With A Difference…..

Monday 27th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.58
This is a subject that is very different to most people but by the end of this blog, you realise why I have introduced it in my sessions.

My hygiene routine has not changed for the whole time I have been taking appointments.

There is no excuse for unhygienic approaches to anything let alone when performing certain procedures to the body.

With certain services, I will wash my hands a few times throughout the time you are with me. I am OCD on hand cleanliness, always have been and will never change.

Sensitive Johnsons Powder For Sensitive Skin

No one has been against my hygiene views and if they were I would question them as in ‘are they worthy to be on my client list’.

I treat clients the way that I would like to be treated. So after I have washed my hands I will dry them on a freshly washed towel and apply talc-n-powder so I can slip the protective gloves on with ease.

I then cleanse your area that I am going to touch. Even if you have just come out of the shower. It is a routine I always had.

As the wipes are moist it makes the skin damp so I apply talc to dry out the area.

The ‘play with a difference’ is that when I take off my gloves both your skin and my hands are moisture free and it makes contact much more appealing.

I will run my soft hands and tentative fingers over and around the area raising your temperature to a level of boiling point.

I will apply my edging technique several times but not too many, as this will make your body retract.

When the ending comes into play then I let moisture appear and will apply non-fragranced oil to give a more slippery effect

Body Powder gives is an amazing feeling too sensitive fingers when used in the right way.

If you would like to be touched by tentative fingers and heavenly hands then contact me and I will see what can be arranged.

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26 Jan 2020
January 26, 2020

Barber Chair, BDSM Experience…

Sunday 26th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.57.
When looking for a mistress that will tick all your boxes of requirements it can take some time if your very much niche driven.
Especially when you require the hairdressing fetish to be involved.

Normally if a mistress is offering the hairdressing or barbering fetish then if you go for a haircut, 9 out of 10 times you have to wear a hat when leave and get to a real barber immediately after to save embarrassment.

My Stare Is Stronger Than Words

To be stripped naked and then strapped and cuffed to an old school barbers chair before your hair is skillfully sculpted into a style that pleases you is rare as well unique.

I  know of 1 hairdresser in London that does this but only head shaves and nothing else. So if you are happy with no hair on a wintery cold day then she is the one for you.

When visiting Mistress Lucys BDSM Spa (i call it that as I do lots of different beauty services as well as barbering and BDSM) You would come to my home.

A discreet street that is quiet and friendly with lots of free parking on the nearby road. It would be like coming to visit a friend with a dark side.

You would be shown upstairs where I have an open-planned (3 bedroom and a bathroom knocked into one space) entertainment room that gives a big airy (excuse the pun) space to have some fetish fun in.

I have an old school barbers chair, Portable backwash basin and a portable setting dryer (for all those sissy maids).

Hanging up I have numerous capes and aprons of all colours and different materials that I am making and adding to every week.

I am not a mistress that starts the session straight away as that could un-nerve you and ruin the whole experience. We will sit on the settee in the waiting area and chat for a while to chill and relax.

Then when I see you are at ease I then will say “Give me your money and get naked”. I’m joking but if you haven’t offered the tribute by the time we start then I hint by just say “pop it on the table before you get undressed”.

In some cases, if you would like it to happen, I will undress you in a mistress fashion but on the first time, we meet I am very mild so you can get used to me.

Once you have taken off your dignity (clothes) and left it on the settee I may circle you and look you up and down without a word.

Then cuff your wrists and ankles whilst your standing in the middle of the cold drafty room just to see your togger shrink (I’m joking the heating is on to keep the temperature at a comfortable level) but I will still have you stand in the middle of the room to make you feel slightly uncomfortable from my stares at your body parts.

The adrenaline rush that flows through your veins gives you a thrill ontop of the barbers experience excitement = very hard…imagination.

When I beckon you over to the chair with my eyes you shuffle over in anticipation whilst thinking “WHAT THE HELL IS SHE GOING TO DO TO ME”.

A Chair To Serve Many A Service

To the individual fetishist the thought of experiencing their niche is what really excites them. Everything else that happens is a bonus.

As you sit down on to the cool PVC seat the hairs on your body start to tingle but when you lean back on the upright part of the chair then the hormones start dancing.

The vision of your naked body in the barber’s chair reflected back at you is very off-putting but you cant help but stare.

The small white lights that frame the mirror give your skin a warm haze of delightment which funny enough you find very easy on your eye.

As you sit and wait for Mistress lucy to wash her hands in the cloakroom behind you, you gaze around the mirror at the aprons and capes hanging up.

So many textures and colours, that is going to be gliding over your bare flesh and roughing up your natural body hair. OOOh by now Mr P is really twitching uncontrollably.

The loud footsteps of the powerful lady herself edges closer towards you which breaks your concentration on your thoughts.

She stands behind you, raises her hands to your head and starts to lightly run her fingers through your unruly hair. This ignites what can only be the strongest feeling you have in your body.

You have to close your eyes and think of mickey mouse in large wellington muddy boots (or if that turns you on then something else that turns you off).

When she picks an apron to wear to shield herself from you over gown mop style hair she turns her back to you. You cant help your manly instincts but to look at her bottom that is hidden from her tight trousers but the outline is still visible.

“Mickey Mouse, Mickey Mouse,” you say to yourself as you don’t want it to be over before it’s even started.

The apron was all glossy and black, made out of thick PVC material with cream attachments around her neck and ties for the waist area to keep it close to her body for extra protection.

Pretty In Pink

Mistress choose a pink satin cape to protect you that had a tight pink collar (to match the material). It was very unique and never like you had seen before.

You weren’t against the colour but somehow how it complimented your skin tone which made you smirk to yourself.

As she swished the cape up and over your head to cover you from the front. The satin material softly caressed your thighs and then chest as she attached the collar under your chin and tightly around your neck.

Together with the cuffs on your wrists and ankles, you were definitely going nowhere this afternoon.

As she reached into her boxes of dark and wonderful playthings she pulled out some soft black rope to attach the cuffs to the chair.

From what you saw in the boxes it made you have an idea of what could be happening later or on another session.

As your hair fell from her fingers with each section that she took some brushed against the cape and apron. Hair in motion generally fascinated you but this time you couldn’t stop looking at it.

The way it flowed in the air and attached itself to mistresses apron at her chest. She caught you looking, so for punishment without mentioning anything she leant down and grabbed forcefully your dancing member to break your stare.

It shook you up a bit as you were in your own little world of what was inside mistresses blouse. From that moment onwards you stayed alert as another grab like that the fantasy was over.

The time passed so quickly with everything that happened. It astonished you how it all flowed so well and how mistress knew from your body language what to do and when to do it in the right way and manner.

The ending was teased to perfection and left you quivering for moments after with goosebumps.

When you were allowed to be released and you were in the shower washing away all your naughty thoughts of the session you felt a haze of euphoria flow over you.

An experience that you had been looking for for ages, even years. Once you have a mistress that makes you feel that way, keep her for your own little your moment.

As if not, Mistress Lucy Is unique and you will never find another mistress like her…

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24 Jan 2020
January 24, 2020

When Mistress Lucy Gets Into Your Head…

Friday 24th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.55.
Now there are many mistresses out there but when you find the one that really gets what you’re all about its difficult to think of anything else.

You may go around doing your everyday thing but whatever you think of she pops up into your head.

What you have experienced when you were with her was that powerful that you can’t stop thinking about it. It rules your mind without you knowing it.

Satsuma Peel

One of my clients was at his job and whilst on his break, he had a satsuma and the peel turned out like a penis.

If he wasn’t thinking of anything about what happened at the sessions he wouldn’t have thought of this.

He visits me once a month but to keep his addiction on an even keel otherwise, I think he would come to me every week.

The natural high is additive without you realizing it. It grabs you with both hands and unless your strong it won’t let you go.

I play with your mind in a way that you won’t be able to resist.  The Mistress Lucy Way is seductive and sensual in a way you could ever imagine.

If you would like to be seduced by my sensual ways then contact me and we can converse some more.

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20 Jan 2020
January 20, 2020

Online Or Reality?…

Monday 20th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.51.
When you have been thinking about a fantasy for a while It gets to a certain point in your life when keeping it in your imagination doesn’t do it for you anymore and you want the real thing.

Its ok deciding whos going to be in your fantasy but its finding that special person or persons to act it out with you.

Not just anyone will do as if you choose the wrong person or persons they could burst your bubble in an instant.

Some people when looking for special people and of course the special moment in your life to go ahead with this scenario they can be looking for ages even years.

It’s so important to them that they become ocd on the matter. The details are precise that it can be off-putting to a degree you could give up looking after a while.

Your scared your dream could be ruined and you don’t want that to happen.
So there is another option that some times works depending on what your looking for…webcam.

This means either video chat which is a 2-way interaction or just watching someone doing something EG: watching Mistress making a cup of tea.

I can be anything. So without leaving the comfort of your own home, you can have interaction with whoever you wish.

This sometimes leads to a meeting if you like them and you feel confident you will enjoy the time with them.
Also, there’s no risk of wasting your time by bursting your dream bubble, if you know what I mean.

So if you have a BDSM Fantasy that you would like talk about contact me and we can converse some more on the subject at hand

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19 Jan 2020
January 19, 2020

S.P.H is not for everyone…

Sunday 19th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.50.
Do you have a small one??????? Well if you have you may be interested in what I have for you.

S.P.H means (for those who don’t know) Small Penis Humiliation. Unfortunately, we aren’t all born with massive phalluses but trust me a big one is not every girl’s dream.

The Smallest Chastity device ever

In a naughty video maybe your make loads of money but in real life, a female would more than likely run a mile if your hung like a donkey with a girth of a small person’s arm. Women aren’t that big inside.

Now don’t worry if your not of any size as there is loads of fun still to have for you. Learn to accept how your built and then life will look so much rosier.

The humiliation side of this fetish can be mild or as extreme as you require it to be but don’t take any of the humiliation personally as it is all roleplay…unless you want to then that’s down to you.


If you are comfortable with photography and video shoots I would like to hear from you as I am always looking for unique individuals.

The smaller the better in this case. I am not here to exploit you but to help you with your business or make you a side business.

So contact me and we can converse more


19 Jan 2020
January 19, 2020

Chastity or Castration?…

Saturday 18th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.49.
When an individual is thinking of the topic chastity they think of it for a reason and the reason is very personal to them.
For whatever reason they want this to happen they have to do research and homework on it before it can take place.
Chastity can be taken light-heartedly or it can be taken very seriously. It depends on your reason for proceeding with this transition.

Metal Chastity Cage

There are many ways your can experience can take place:

Temporary Chastity – This can be mentally being told not to do something or have you pathetic member tied with a lace or silicone band and then removed at the end of the session.

Periodic Chastity – This is when you will have to purchase a chastity device yourself because it needs to fit your size relatively comfortable for the time you are locked in it.

Long term Chastity – Now this has to be taken much more seriously because long term can mean 1 month to much longer. Depending on what your mistress whats to do.

Permanent Chastity – This should not be taken light-heartedly because this is life-changing.

Cute Little Sheep Barrrrh…

The Permanent chastity can go to the extreme leaves of castration (in human terms is vasectomy or hysterectomy). Depending on how you look at it.

Many couples make a decision to stay loyal to each other and so make a pac between them and their love will keep that pac in place.

As in others will do something physical as in apply chastity with a device. Male and female chastity devices are obviously different and they are out on the market to purchase.

A different type of chastity that is extremely permanent is Castration. It can be performed at the doctors/hospital in a day surgery appointment.

Like animals, a couple of snips and jobs down but it needs to be done by a professional. Other ways are like the sheep, elastic band around the testicles and leave it there until they drop off.

A painful way but if it means no more lambs then it has to be done.

I am not saying I will castrate you but if you would like a chastity session contact me and we can converse some more…