Friday 6th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.97.
When I first started in the fetish industry I never thought that I would develop a relationship with my equipment like I have done.
There are certain items that I love more than others because they have just been more attractive to my eye and have performed well.
My canes have been the most appealing because they are a gorgeous piece of wood to handle.
Whether they are Bamboo, Rattan or Walnut with a lacquered finish for hygiene, they only perform as well as the handler.
My fist cane (2011) was a cheap bamboo cane that I got online. I didn’t know a lot about the punishment niche so I got what I could afford at the time.
It worked well for me then but as the years past and I developed a deeper relationship with corporal punishment.
So I decided to invested in better quality canes that where much more beautiful to handle and to look at.
I don’t like to give my canes the proper names that people know them by but I do give them nicknames that resemble how they perform under my control.
My greatest love is Mr Whippy because he is a fine and a magnificent performer.
Thin in length but very strong. Pliable and versatile to what my wrist requires of him.
He can give a sensual sting to the flesh that will leave a pinking of the area or a cracking impact that will leave a welting to the skin in 1 strike.
Continuous strikes from a powerful swing can guarantee scaring.
Mr Whippy will only give you what you deserve or what your boundaries will allow.
The one thing I know with him is that he means business when he has his mistresses fingers wrapped around his base..
So if you have been a naughty boy that need to be put in his place contact me and it can be arranged.
Thursday 5th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.96.
When a sub is looking for either a first mistress because they are new to the industry or a new mistress because their previous one had retired ect they could be looking for a long time to find her.
To find the right one takes time and a check list of priority things that must be compatible with yourself. If these things don’t marry up then it could be a disaster waiting to happen.
So the quay factors of finding a compatible mistress are:
- She offers what you are expecting from your mistress.
- You have to be attracted to her in some way. If not sexual then a bond between you that draws you to her for every time she summons you to serve her.
- How long has she been in the fetish/niches industry so that you will enjoy your experience in the session. Inexperience can ruin or even put you completely off a fetish that you have longed to enjoy.
- She is in a comfortable traveling distance from you.
- She entertains in a location that you are totally relaxed in.
If all of these add up with the response you receive from her then your in a win win situation. For you to be totally comfortable with your mistress you have to be yourself 100%.
As if you are on edge and worried about something then it will unbalance your mind within your subspace. Which will end in a half hearted session on your side.
It is the same for a mistress when receiving inquiries. I, myself have to go through a check list in my mind.
The main reason being is this is my home I am inviting you into. I have had a couple of very disrespectful clients that decided to act completely different on arrival to when we where conversing on the phone.
That is a very silly way to be because when I sense you are not the person I require in my company then I wrap up a session very quickly and without you knowing it your dressed and being guided to the front door and your walking away from my establishment and will never be seen here again.
Over the years I have met a lot of lovely and kind clients that I honestly could call friends.. I say this because those type of people respectfully know my boundaries and never cross them.
If I decide I would like to do something that I am comfortable with doing I will then always proposition them or mention it before it happens. I also need to know their boundaries. Once I do then we are on a happy level…
Tuesday 3rd March 2020
Daily Blog NO.94.
The word vintage is so fashionable these day that if you like new things your so off trend its untrue.
The unfortunate thing about vintage items is the companies are making them new and classing them as vintage and then still pricing them as vintage items. If you know what I mean.
For example, old school barbers with the whirly candy stick (as I call it) out side the door to attract passers by was a regular and average thing back in the day.
The comb over hair style was for the poor old guys that didn’t want to show their bold patch. So they would desperately hold onto their hair on a windy day in case it flapped like they were waving to the passer by on the other side of the road but now a days even the tiny children are carrying off the same stke.
To mix new and vintage is nice but it has to be put together just right otherwise it looks out of place.
When it comes to vintage fetishes such as hairdressing the ladies hairdressing is a whole different fetish on its own.
Setting rollers, hair nets and seated setting dryers in rows of 4 to 6 will bring back memories for lots of ladies that were growing up in that era.
In the fetish world men have a fantasy of being able to dress in the pretty capes and have their hair in rollers with pink hair nets but not all high street salons will accept this kind of behaviour.
Only if all hairdressers knew what a big thing the hair fetish Is….
So if you have a hairdressing fetish contact me and we can converse about the topic a little more…
Saturday 29th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.91.
When looking online and see the inventions that have been successful over the years I begin to wonder whether people are just inventing things that have been invented before and putting their own twist on it…and why not if your not stepping on anyone’s toes.
I enjoy all my appointments but I really enjoy my hairdressing combination appointments.
As It has been my trade for 30 years or more I can practically do a haircut with my eyes closed (in a manners of speaking).
So lately I have been getting a lot of clients asking for haircuts and BDSM in the same appointment.
I wanted to give my procedure a twist and make it like no other appointment.
So recently I have been giving the lay down haircut on the BDSM bench whilst conducting either handcuffed tease or apparatus to different parts of the body with vibration and stimulation of the other kind.
It helps the time be used more efficiently and keeps the client occupied whilst the haircutting procedure is taking place.
It seems to be very enjoyable as I have had no complaints yet.
Obviously I take another look at the haircut in a upright potion in the barbers chair before they leave.
I wouldn’t want my reputation to take a nose dive by being cutting corner about anything, now would I.
So if you would like a Mistress Lucy’s BDSM way of amputation of the hair shafts then contact me and we can converse some more.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries.
Friday 28th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.90.
Like every month that I have been in the industry I am always busy 2-3 weeks and the 3rd week is where money is tight and clients are then waiting for pay day to come around again.
It has taken me a while to work this out but when you realise this pattern is a regular thing every month then you have to know how to handle your money out etc…
I have a lot less stress these days when the phone doesn’t ringing because I know it will next week. I gives me more of an opportunity to catch p on the list of things that accumulates on the busy weeks.
So this week has been a fabulously busy week to my liking. Considering that the beginning of the month I always pay my bills so they are out of the way.
So when the end of the month comes around like this week it means I can afford to have a self indulgent shopping spread of the things I need or want.
So I decided to spruce up my finger and toe nails and buy some different varnishes and bits and pieces as I have had quiet a few foot and hand fetish clients contact me.
As my nails have not been in good shape or what I would like them to be I have said no and turned them away or said not at the moment.
As soon as they are looking the way I want to I will let you know so all you nail kinksters can have you wicked way with my beautiful hands and feet.
I also got some new items of clothing and underwear for my dress up wardrobe for all you cross dressers. Collecting different sizes in the underwear, clothing and footwear is very costly so I have to do it on a monthly bases.
The collection is getting there but still need some more larger sizes in footwear to add as it is difficult to purchase anything higher than a 10 in a male/female shoe and if you can get it it is way over a average price.
Its all good but as I say budget is a much unless I win the lottery. Finger’s crossed everyone.
Thursday 27th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.89.
To go out with friends and have fun is one thing but to go out with friends gambling and loosing the bet is another.
I have a client who had a bet on the horses and lost. The forfeit is when he comes to see me to let me do whatever I want to him.
So when he messaged me to say his friend was going to contact me with the things he wanted done to him. I was think “oh what fun”.
Leaving a mistress in total control… is that wise and one that is not afraid to do anything, I mean anything.
So I received the message and the things that wee mentioned weren’t anything out of the normal as my client was a bit extreme anyway in our normal sessions.
So as the day drew closer I would get the odd nervous text to beg not to do anything outrageous because he had very important meetings the next day.
I wouldn’t reply to keep him guessing. As that’s what loosing a bet is all about. Its not supposed to be comfortable.
On the morning of the appointment (which was at 4:30pm) I had a very seriously worried man that was that nervous like he was about to do a buggee jump with a rope.
At that point I replied with “Don’t worry. Trust me”. I had only met him 2 times so saying that didn’t ease things but I found it hilarious.
When he turned up he approached my door like a sorry naughty dog with his tail between his legs. As he stepped into my hallway from the door way he didn’t say a word.
I put my hand out for him to place the tribute into it and then looked at the stairs for him to go up them to my entertinment floor.
As he stood at the top of the stairs waiting for me to join him he said in a very timid voice “what are you going to do to me?”
I looked into his eyes and said nothing and just ignored him. I walked straight pasted him as if he wasn’t there.
When I decided to speak I told him to get undressed apart from his under pants. Then i said “take them off and pass them to me”. This made him puzzled and a little confused.
As I held them in front of him. I got my scissors and cut them down the middle. “no” he said with a begging tone to his voice. “Why” I said “don’t you have another pair with you?”
He was booked into a hotel close by as he had a meeting for the next couple of days in the next town.
I walked to my widow, opened it and threw them out. “Now you don’t have any knickers, do you!!!”
From then on he knew what I said I meant in every way possible…
So if you fancy loosing our bet then contact me and see what happens…
Wednesday 26th February 2020
Daily Blog No.88.
When clients come to me they come to put their fantasies into reality but some have a massive shock when I turn out to be an action mistress than just a whatever mistress.
The difference between the two types of mistresses are that the whatever mistress takes on board what you say but does nothing about it and does what she wants in the session.
A action mistress is someone that listens and hears what you say and then at some point in your relationship with her she remembers what you have said and acts upon that fantasy.
I had a appointment today just like that. He had come to me for at least 5 sessions of 3 hours and I have got to know him very well.
He comes to me for his hairdressing fantasies. On the first time he came to me he mentioned about having a hand cuffed head shave. Now his hair was reasonably long for a gent of his age but this was so he could have a blow-dry and roller sets in a sissy fantasies.
After a few sessions he found he was very comfortable with giving me ides on what he would like but nothing to scripted. So I could guide the session how I wished.
So today he came in and we chatted as normal. He undress down to nothing and sat in the barbers chair. I turned into mistress as soon as he sat down looking at him straight in the eye into the mirror to make him feel uneasy.
I reached out to his am as I grabbed the handcuff that was already attached to the arm of the chair. I cuffed him on both wrists and went back around to the back of the chair and stood with both my hands on his shoulders for a few seconds to unease him a bit more.
Still in silence I then reached for my leatherette apron and proceeded to put that on. He didn’t know what I had in mind but he knew it was a haircut as he was looking a little wind swept and untidy.
I started this haircut like a normal haircut, trimming my way around what need to be tidied. All of this time it was in silence, no talking. Then out of the blue I stopped what I was doing and went to look in my big black naughty box.
I came back with a roll of PVC tape. I proceed to wrap it around his head and over his eyes so he could not see but could hear what I was doing.
An expression on his face, even if you cant see it all tells a lot and at this point he let out a big sigh as if to say “Holy shyte what is she going to do?”
I then went over to m trolley and opened up the drawer and got out my clippers and all 8 guards. I lined them on the counter so I could see them as I used them one by one. from 8 down to the shortest I think he should be.
Once he heard the buzz of the clippers he remembered what he had said to me on the first session. As I skimmed the no .8 over the top of his head he moved like he was startled.
As I went to take the no.7 and then the NO.6. and 5 he was getting more and more tense in his relaxed body. When I finally decided on what number guard to stop at I took off the blindfold to let him see what his haircut was like.
Now because he had a blind fold on I could only do the top and partial sides leaving the back of the neck and ears long.
He was horrified that I had the balls to go ahead with this erotic in his mind but not so erotic fantasy in real life. He sat there gob smacked not knowing what to say. That was good because I didn’t want to talk as it would of ruined the atmosphere.
We still had an hour to go of the end of the session but I said to him that he looked pathetic with a shaved head and that I cant stand looking at him. So I dismissed him and he went on his way.
When telling an action mistress what your fantasies are, just be careful what you ask for…As in my case you will get it at some point in our journey together…
If you are brave enough to contact me to tell me your darkest and deepest fantasies, go on…I dare you.
I will look forward to receiving you inquiries…
Tuesday 25th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.87.
Sorry I did not upload a Daily Blog last night as I had problems with my login details but luckily I only had to wait 24 hours till I was rectified.
Back in the day when I ran a barbers shop in town , if I had known about the fetish world back then like I do now the shop would of been so much more different than it was.
If i had a barbers shop myself i would call it ‘Fethair’. Sounds a little French but I like it.
I would call it that because ‘Fetish Hairdressing’ it wouldnt go down to well. So to abreivate is better on the eye.
I would have fetish days of outfits.
Me and my staff would wear PVC on day then Latex the next ect…
You would feel comfortable to wear your silky panties and stockings under your alpha male trousers without anyone batting an eyelid.
May be even your matching bra set you have always wanted to wera to a barbers but nervous that some one will out you by noticing.
Sissy sets would have a room out the back so you can bring out your inner sissy for all the other sissys to admire.
I would do a haircut and a foot rub in a package price. I would name the package the ‘foot lovers haircut’. A haircut for the client and the client would I’ve the hairdresser/barberette a foot massage.
Another package would be ‘Short hair package’. Haircut for the client and the client would give a head massage to the hairdresser/babarrette.
Everything goes in my salon but desretion is the name of the game.
As we ive in an unexcepting world unfortunately. The Vanilla public accept what they want to and anything that is different they think is nasty or weird.
Little to do they know that they are missing out on alot of fun.
I would decorate my kinky kingdom in a way that anyone that was in to the fetish world would so know where i was coming from from would be rgular barbers for the vanilla clients.
It would be fun to see how many vanilla clients i could get to tell me their hidden kinks lol
I wouldnt set up a place like this unless i had the right staff with the same like mind and obviously they have a very high standard of hairdressing and barbering skills .
In my eyes it would take along time to arrange my ‘Dream Salon’.
Every angle of the shop would be photogenic. I would love to be able to do sessions in there buy then on a high street or in the public eye (even with blinds down ) it would be far to risky.
What i have at the moment is very pleasurable for my appointments so thats all good…
Sunday 23rd February 2020
Wow, what marvellous things Feet are. For one thing without them we wouldn’t be able to walk or stand and for another they are a valuable part of our bodies that we take advantage of on a daily basis.
The amount of mileage they do on a average day is amazing. We should all take care of our feet whether we like it or not.
Not saying pedicures regularly but moisturiser and a bit of T.L.C every now and again would be perfect for them.
You love them and they will love you back but working for longer.
For a foot kinkster they look at the feet as a sexually arousing object that they have thoughts about caressing and smelling them but to a vanilla fetishist their mind thinks completely differently.
When looking into any photography you have to think like the kinkster. In a way like they look at the object you are photographing you have to imagine how their mind works.
To stage the fetish in the right way is crucial, to get the ultimate response that will give them a perfect satisfaction of experience.
The observer has to imagine that they are actually there holding the item or in the room with it.
For example of the topic of this blog today, Feet. Paws, Trotters whatever we like to call them…
They can be as unkept and disgusting to one onlooker and yet to another the thought of caressing the hard skin on the heel or experiencing the aroma of the feet that have been in warm confined work shoes for a long amount of time can be very arousing and erotic to another.
To imagine having the feet on a certain body part, moving the toes around and caressing it with passion that only a feetster would understand.
We are all individual in the fetish world and we all have fetishes even if we don’t yet realise it…
If you have a foot fetish and wold like to purchase any images, whether it be regular or customised photography contact me and we can converse some more on the topic.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…
Friday 21st Febuary 2020
Daily Blog NO.83.
When you see an image of a subject you look at it but don’t always really look it properly. If it attracts you because the model has hardly nothing on you may look it up and down to get that naughty feeling but hardly ever to look at the depth of atmosphere that the whole image is showing you.
To look really appreiate the effort that has gone into the care of the photograph you really have to take time to imagine what is happening in the mind of the model when the image was taken.
The story line that the model is tryin to protray to you the observer could be one of many but as the onlooker you need to make you mind up on that subject.
This is why even though the photographer is trying to get one statement across to you, it all depends on what frame of mind your in when viewing the image is.
The photography I have decided to take part in from now on is very different from your have been seeing me in. It is something that I have been thinking of doing for a while but it just being in the right frame of mind and choosing the right time to express my expertise to you all.
You may look at me completely different but it is just another phase I am adding to my career. I love anything to do with photography. So taking images in a different way is exciting and enthralling at the same time. Also even more adventurous with me being the model/one of the models…