20 Feb 2020
February 20, 2020

Do you know what Gerontophilia is?

Thursday 20th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.82.
I have said that I am unshockable but as I look into the different fetishes that are around for daily blog topis it makes me gasp as to what fetishes I didn’t know about and their original Latin names.

I knew this happened but I didn’t realize it was classed as a fetish. What I want to know is what age is classed as elderly?

From online research, I have found that in 2020 the retirement age will become 66 years old. As the years creep by the age will gradually increase and before we know it we will have to work till we are 80 years.

I think pensions will be long gone very soon. So the best way is to make your pension EG: Your house is your retirement fund or something along those lines. Much safer than relying on the government for handouts.

Well enough about that and back onto the topic of the blog…

Gerontophilia if you haven’t already worked it out is a fetish for the obsession with elderly people in a sexual way. There are many that have age gaps of decades between them and their partner. I’ve always said if you are compatible in personality then why not but be realistic.

21 and 71 is a big age gap. So use your common sense and you will be fine. I don’t want to say too much in case I offend some people. Stay safe and have fun is the main priority…

20 Feb 2020
February 20, 2020

What Is The Attraction To Voyeurism?…

Thursday 20th February 2020

Daily Blog Extra
If you see a couple in the street walking along holding hands the natural instinct is to look. To see, in your mind if they are compatible within looks or not, but opposites attract in most cases.

To see 2 friends say “hi” and kiss each other on the cheek is normal but to if they were to embrace one another and connect lips for an intimate full-on kiss then they are bringing public attention to themselves and it is inevitable that people will look.

To be told what to do or be watch is just as fun…

Depending on what your fetish is then people will look more than others. To be part of an audience the atmosphere can get very intimate throughout the room/area. Not by touching each other but by lots of people getting hot under their own collars.

If the performance you are watching whether it be live or online it can be very realistic. This is what makes it more inviting to watch because you can imagine in your mind you being in the male or females place.

Voyeurism can be put into context in a lot of ways. Couples like to be watched in a public place or taking a risk to get caught in a place they shouldn’t be. Inside or out depending on the moment of what they are doing.

If you’re on a night out and you meet someone that likes a 3 way to evolve.  One watches while the other 2 play and then you all change places as time goes by. When it comes to a couple that has been together for a long time inviting a 3rd person in can be very risky.

Think about it for a while before doing this as it can break up a good thing instead of helping the matter. If you are single and into Voyeurism, it can be a fun experience as a lot of sexual experiences can be in life…

If your sexuality is urging you to widen your horizons then contact me and I will see what I can do…

19 Feb 2020
February 19, 2020

Psychrophilia Is A Strange Fetish or is it?…

Wednesday 19th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.81.
Now I have come across some strange fetishes but this on is mighty weird. I don’t know anyone that likes being cold from this wintery weather we are having but to be cold on purpose is another level altogether.
Sometimes you have to adapt if your in that climate for some reason but to be cold on purpose is a fetish on its own.

Wrapped Up Warm

I had a client contact me a while ago and he asked to be taken to a muddy park on a rainy day (which is quite easy at this time of year) and make him walk across the grass so he unintentionally but intentionally slips over and gets muddy and wet and mainly cold.

Although the medical experts say that it is good for the body if you have injuries such as joint arthritis etc as it helps the blood flow around that area. Throughout my research, for this topic, I have a conclusion that it doesn’t seem long term beneficial but only for extra energy after the cryotherapy has been completed for 3 minutes.

From reading the title of the treatment, I think after being in the -264 degree freeze chamber for 1 minute I would be crying also…

So if you would like a Psychrophilia session contact me and I will sure to arrange it for you.

18 Feb 2020
February 18, 2020

Why do we love Eproctophila (Flatulance)…

Tuesday 18th February 2020

Daily Blog No.80.
When you were a child if someone near you farted or botty burp it was funny and everyone wet their pants because when your a child everything is funny like that.  When you grow older in your teens to pass wind is nasty. Then when your an adult in some cases flatulence becomes a turn on and is labeled a fetish.

in a guy’s case, it is not such a turn on because many eat all sorts of flavorsome things, etc and it is not the most pleasant of smells. When a female does it, to a guy if they were sitting on their face it would be a turn on.

To have a naked female body anywhere near a guy they would not care if she was to pass wind etc as they are not concentrating on the noise or smell if they have a pair of breasts etc staring them in the face.

If you’re a kinkster who loves the act of eproctophila on you then it can make all kinds of emotions race. Depending on the way the female eats is depending on the aroma she will let out.

If you have a weak stomach then in some cases your fetish might be limited to continuing to search for that special gust of wind that will pass your way…

I am not very flatulent even though i am plant based more than anything with my diet so I can not offer this service, sorry.

Even so it would be nice to hear from you for any other fetish that I offer. Contact me and we can converse further…

PS. In some blogs, it is very hard to think of a image to add to the content so you will have to use your imagination lol…

17 Feb 2020
February 17, 2020

Why Do We Get A Thrill From Exhibitionism?…

Monday 17th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.79.
What is the attraction of doing things in the public eye? When we are carrying on with our regular lives and something happens that makes people that we don’t know stop and stare the adrenaline rush hits our nervous system in such a way that to certain individuals is a sexual excitement rush.

To be humiliated in the middle of a busy shopping area or crowded pub is the most popular choice because you are guaranteed lots of onlookers. Even though it may be staged the best way of getting an instant reaction is acting it out as if it was performed without being forced to do it.

Exhibitionism can be recognized in many ways but you do have to be careful what you do and where you do it to save getting arrested for indecent exposure if you know what I mean.

It can be as innocent as just having a heated conversation with a friend or partner to get your sexual fix or the endorphin rush or as risky as having intercourse in a very public place. As I mentioned before be careful about this one as exposing sexual parts can cause you to offend onlookers or even get the authorities involved…

If you are into the topic of this daily blog then contact me and we can converse more on the subject. I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…

15 Feb 2020
February 15, 2020

Why Does Punishment Hurt So Much…

Saturday 15th February 2020

Daily Blog NO. 77.
Punishment hurts in so many different ways, you are having it performed on you because you have done something wrong.
Many like to have this one to them to give them pain because it’s their fetish, kink, turn on.

The punishment all depends on the wrongdoing they have done. We are not talking about crime but a milder version. Although if people that had done something drastically wrong came to a mistress and not wasted taxpayers’ money by going to court etc it would teach a lot of people not to do it again.

The punishment, in that case, would be bounded and gaged corporal punishment to the highest level on whatever part of the body that committed the crime.

Your Choice…

For example, rapists then 500 thrashes on their member of the hardest strokes, Stealing then (depending on the offense) 50 to 1000 strokes to the palms of both the hands. Injury by kicking, 200 or more thrashes to the soles of the feet.

You may think that the rapist should get more thrashes but if you have ever been thrashed or hit on the member then you know even 10 thrashes is painful enough.

The punishment is worse when the individual is tied up and restricted, which they should be as I can imagine that they wouldn’t want this to happen to them on this level even in a kinky session.

The choice is a prison sentence or a trashing of excruciating pain for 30 minutes plus on the body part that did the crime.

The person who will perform the punishment will be the person (or a close relative of the person if death or disablement takes place) who had the crime committed on or against them.

Brutal but justifyingly satisfying I think.

Pain, as I have mentioned before in a previous blog, can be satisfying if you come to a mistress for pleasurable BDSM etc…

I have asked many of my extreme clients why they like the pain to such an extreme level  They have replied, to bring back memories and to help them go deep into their subspace where extreme pain can only take them…

If you would like a role-play scenario then contact me and we can converse more on the subject.

I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…



14 Feb 2020
February 14, 2020

Body Hair…Why We Need It?

Friday 14th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.76.
We are all born with a certain amount of hair all over our bodies. Then as we get older it grows to what our bodies require it to.
A lot of the time women are battling their body hair as the media says females should be hair free and smooth…but who makes this ruling?

A few years ago Julia Roberts gave up shave, waxing or whatever she did to her armpits and wore a red sleeveless dress to the Notting Hill Premier opening in 1999.

She is mostly known for her acting career but also this moment in history. I typed into google, actress with hairy armpits and Julia Roberts was first on the list.

A hairy bottom on a sissy is not acceptable to the male eye

Why is society so against hairy females? It is a very natural thing that happens to us all so why do a good percentage of us dislike it on a woman and in general.

I’m a hairdresser (if you hadn’t realized already lol) I love controlling, styling and manipulating it on the head but I am not a fan of it on my body.

I will in the winter grow it a bit when it gets to a certain length it feels unclean (even though I shower 1-2 times a day) to be clear of it completely feels much more hygenic.

This is why I say to a good majority of my clients. Male grooming is a common thing these days. To be completely waxed/shaved or partially waxed/shaved is up to the individual.

Say example you drop something that you’re eating on your chest hair if you are sitting there shirtless or shirt open. To clean up a substance is much harder to do in a hairy area than a trimmed or hair-free area.

A hairy chest is acceptable if you like that sort of thing

Also the same in your manly area. Another reason also if you are looking to extend length (individual personal preference only) then trimming back the bush adds instant length.

Being that this is valentines day I should have mentioned this a couple of blogs ago so you be ready to woo your partner/date with a couple of extra inches (even though you had that hidden away in the bush that you were keeping for many years lol).

It is not down to me to say what you should and shouldn’t do but anyone that goes commando will understand that catching your pubic hair in a zipper can be very eye-watering painful (unlike the film ‘Something about Mary’, scrotum skin caught in the zipper) hilarious film but even I cringed at that moment and I don’t have a scrotum (well I didn’t the last time I looked lol)

So although hair is there for a reason (to keep germs out of orifices) personal preference is always a must to feel comfortable with yourself.

If you are requiring a body grooming session contact me and we can converse more on the topic.

I will look forward to hearing from all you neanderthal men or very hairy women lol



13 Feb 2020
February 13, 2020

Different is Individually Perfect…

Thursday13th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.75.
What people like is not always the same. Just like why should everyone go with the flow of how everyone else looks.
I love to be different. Different is perfect to me. I don’t like being the center of attention but just to be me and be who I am comfortable with is the ideal way we should all be like.

As you have noticed I have been having a journey with my hair and what I like it to look like lately.

Since I have been old enough to be able to decide on my own look of the style I have always had a different hairstyle every hair cut.

Hair is the sign of being healthy,i have choose to cut mine because it grows to fast

Since I have been in the adult industry I have been much bolder with my hair or lack of it.

I have been a bit sheepish about going too short because of my age but age is just a number and I really don’t feel like my age, far from it. So what the heck lol

At the weekend, I took the top to a no.2 and the sides to a 1/2 blend. I have been looking at it for the last couple of days thinking “why am I not happy with it? There’s something that doesn’t look quite right.”

So today I contacted a friend as I couldn’t do what I wanted to be done and he could. I said to him when he turned up “just shave it all off completely. I have a well-shaped head and no scars so it will look great” so he did.

Wowee… it’s fantastic, A bit chilly in this weather but I can wear a hat for now and I have a white scalp (i will have to go on the sunbed a bit more to get it tanned lol)

I understand its not everyone’s cup of tea but I can wear wigs of all colors and styles.

I have shaved my hair off for the fetish look for my fetish photography and videos. The Images have come out amazing…

So if you like my new look or don’t then do please let me know as I appreciate feedback in all aspects.

Look forward to hearing from you…

12 Feb 2020
February 12, 2020

What Keeps you Slippery?…

Wednesday 12th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.74.
There are so many lubrications to choose from but what keeps you slippery at the most important time of play?

There are many slippery substances out there but do look at the ingredients before using them as if they contain the following it can cause irritation if you have sensitive skin in that area:

Slippery When Playing

  • glycerin
  • nonoxynol-9
  • petroleum
  • propylene glycol
  • chlorhexidine gluconate

The better ones in my mind can be Ky-Jelly, Trex Vegetable Fat or anything that is water, oil or silicone-based.

Everyone has their own preferences for different activities but there are certain liquids or gels that work better with other toys or gloves.

Trex is good if performing anal glovework but it’s hard to wash off because its lard based. Use fairy liquid if your washing toys and shower gel if you’re washing the body.

Ky Jelly is ideal for sensitive skin and it is versatile, Nice and slippery for contact playtime and also ideal for toys and apparatus.

I can only say about the experience I have had as a mistress but everyone has there preferences.

The main priority is to have plenty of safe slippery fun as no one likes afterburn of chaffing…


Tuesday11th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.73.

Why when there are so many nice flavors in the world that we choose to taste our on bodily liquids?

Is it because it’s forbidden in normal society or is it because we do it because we can. It’s because it’s our own and we can do what we wish with it.

So then why is it we want to taste other peoples. Total strangers that we have never met before. Who we have to trust that they are safe and clean but in the heat of the moment for some of us that goes out of our minds till after the act has been performed.

Playtimes have come along way since the year dot when everyone was doing the natural thing and making babies but nowadays we all want to see who can get the biggest butt plug in the smallest hole and cross-dressing to the opposite sex and do anything and everything that anyone can think of.

To many people tasting anything that comes from themselves or anyone else would make them instantly gag. Then there are some that would consume anything you put in front of them.

If you are controlled by a mistress then you as the client put your trust in her to abide by your rules that set out at the beginning of your journey together.

Anyone that she chooses to bring into the arrangement then she should make sure that she is confident that they are clean of anything unwelcome.

It still doesn’t answer the question of this blog… I don’t think there is an answer that is right or wrong.

We are all different and like different things, tastes, etc so as I mentioned previously every answer is correct in your own way…

I will look forward to your inquiries on this topic from all those that have strong stomachs…