26 Feb 2020
February 26, 2020

Be Careful What you ask for…

Wednesday 26th February 2020

Daily Blog No.88.
When clients come to me they come to put their fantasies into reality but some have a massive shock when I turn out to be an action mistress than just a whatever mistress.
The difference between the two types of mistresses are that the whatever mistress takes on board what you say but does nothing about it and does what she wants in the session.

Lovely Shampoo And Set On The Last Visit

A action mistress is someone that listens and hears what you say and then at some point in your relationship with her she remembers what you have said and acts upon that fantasy.

I had a appointment today just like that. He had come to me for at least 5 sessions of 3 hours and I have got to know him very well.

He comes to me for his hairdressing fantasies. On the first time he came to me he mentioned about having a hand cuffed head shave. Now his hair was reasonably long for a gent of his age but this was so he could have a blow-dry and roller sets in a sissy fantasies.

After a few sessions he found he was very comfortable with giving me ides on what he would like but nothing to scripted. So I could guide the session how I wished.

Halfway Haircut

So today he came in and we chatted as normal. He undress down to nothing and sat in the barbers chair. I turned into mistress as soon as he sat down looking at him straight in the eye into the mirror to make him feel uneasy.

I reached out to his am as I grabbed the handcuff that was already attached to the arm of the chair. I cuffed him on both wrists and went back around to the back of the chair and stood with both my hands on his shoulders for a few seconds to unease him a bit more.

Still in silence I then reached for my leatherette apron and proceeded to put that on. He didn’t know what I had in mind but he knew it was a haircut as he was looking a little wind swept and untidy.

Blind Folded Head Shave

I started this haircut like a normal haircut, trimming my way around what need to be tidied. All of this time it was in silence, no talking. Then out of the blue I stopped what I was doing and went to look in my big black naughty box.

I came back with a roll of PVC tape. I proceed to wrap it around his head and over his eyes so he could not see but could hear what I was doing.

An expression on his face, even if you cant see it all tells a lot and at this point he let out a big sigh as if to say “Holy shyte what is she going to do?”

I then went over to m trolley and opened up the drawer and got out my clippers and all 8 guards. I lined them on the counter so I could see them as I used them one by one. from 8 down to the shortest I think he should be.

Once he heard the buzz of the clippers he remembered what he had said to me on the first session. As I skimmed the no .8 over the top of his head he moved like he was startled.

As I went to take the no.7 and then the NO.6. and 5 he was getting more and more tense in his relaxed body. When I finally decided on what number guard to stop at I took off the blindfold to let him see what his haircut was like.

Shamed Head Shave

Now because he had a blind fold on I could only do the top and partial sides leaving the back of the neck and ears long.

He was horrified that I had the balls to go ahead with this erotic in his mind but not so erotic fantasy in real life. He sat there gob smacked not knowing what to say. That was good because I didn’t want to talk as it would of ruined the atmosphere.

We still had an hour to go of the end of the session but I said to him that he looked pathetic with a shaved head and that I cant stand looking at him. So I dismissed him and he went on his way.

When telling an action mistress what your fantasies are, just be careful what you ask for…As in my case you will get it at some point in our journey together…

If you are brave enough to contact me to tell me your darkest and deepest fantasies,  go on…I dare you.

I will look forward to receiving you inquiries…

26 Feb 2020
February 26, 2020

If I Had A Barbers Shop Today…

Tuesday 25th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.87.

Sorry I did not upload a Daily Blog last night as I had problems with my login details but luckily I only had to wait 24 hours till I was rectified. 

Back in the day when I ran a barbers shop in town , if I had known about the fetish world back then like I do now the shop would of been so much more different than it was.
If i had a barbers shop myself i would call it ‘Fethair’. Sounds a little French but I like it.

I would call it that because ‘Fetish Hairdressing’ it wouldnt go down to well. So to abreivate is better on the eye.

I would have fetish days of outfits.

PVC Day At My Barbers Shop

Me and my staff would wear PVC on day then Latex the next ect…

You would feel comfortable to wear your silky panties and stockings under your alpha male trousers without anyone batting an eyelid.

May be even your matching bra set you have always wanted to wera to a barbers but nervous that some one will out you by noticing.

Sissy sets would have a room out the back so you can bring out your inner sissy for all the other sissys to admire.

I would do a haircut and a foot rub in a package price. I would name the package the ‘foot lovers haircut’. A haircut for the client and the client would I’ve the hairdresser/barberette a foot massage.

Another package would be ‘Short hair package’. Haircut for the client and the client would give a head massage to the hairdresser/babarrette.

Everything goes in my salon but desretion is the name of the game.

As we ive in an unexcepting world unfortunately. The Vanilla public accept what they want to and anything that is different they think is nasty or weird.

Little to do they know that they are missing out on alot of fun.

I would decorate my kinky kingdom in a way that anyone that was in to the fetish world would so know where i was coming from from would be rgular barbers for the vanilla clients.

It would be fun to see how many vanilla clients i could get to tell me their hidden kinks lol

I wouldnt set up a place like this unless i had the right staff with the same like mind and obviously they have a very high standard of hairdressing and barbering skills .

In my eyes it would take along time to arrange my ‘Dream Salon’.

Every angle of the shop would be photogenic. I would love to be able to do sessions in there buy then on a high street or in the public eye (even with blinds down ) it would be far to risky.

What i have at the moment is very pleasurable for my appointments so thats all good…

23 Feb 2020
February 23, 2020

Feet, What Is The Fasination About Them?…

Sunday 23rd February 2020

Daily Blog.NO.85
Wow, what marvellous things Feet are. For one thing without them we wouldn’t be able to walk or stand and for another they are a valuable part of our bodies that we take advantage of on a daily basis.

The amount of mileage they do on a average day is amazing. We should all take care of our feet whether we like it or not.

My Feet Are Made For Worshipping. So What are You Waiting For…

Not saying pedicures regularly but moisturiser and a bit of T.L.C every now and again would be perfect for them.

You love them and they will love you back but working for longer.

For a foot kinkster they look at the feet as a sexually arousing object that they have thoughts about caressing and smelling them but to a vanilla fetishist their mind thinks completely differently.

When looking into any photography you have to think like the kinkster. In a way like they look at the object you are photographing you have to imagine how their mind works.

To stage the fetish in the right way is crucial, to get the ultimate response that will give them a perfect satisfaction of experience.

Tired Feet That Need To Be Massaged…

The observer has to imagine that they are actually there holding the item or in the room with it.

For example of the topic of this blog today, Feet. Paws, Trotters whatever we like to call them…

They can be as unkept and disgusting to one onlooker and yet to another the thought of caressing the hard skin on the heel or experiencing the aroma of the feet that have been in warm confined work shoes for a long amount of time can be very arousing and erotic to another.

To imagine having the feet on a certain body part, moving the toes around and caressing it with passion that only a feetster would understand.

We are all individual in the fetish world and we all have fetishes even if we don’t yet realise it…

If you have a foot fetish and wold like to purchase any images, whether it be regular or customised photography contact me and we can converse some more on the topic.

I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…

 

 

 

 

21 Feb 2020
February 21, 2020

Fetish Photography With A Difference…

Friday 21st Febuary 2020
Daily Blog NO.83.
When you see an image of a subject you look at it but don’t always really look it properly. If it attracts you because the model has hardly nothing on you may look it up and down to get that naughty feeling but hardly ever to look at the depth of atmosphere that the whole image is showing you.

OMG!!!

To look really appreiate the effort that has gone into the care of the photograph you really have to take time to imagine what is happening in the mind of the model when the image was taken.

The story line that the model is tryin to protray to you the observer could be one of many but as the onlooker you need to make you mind up on that subject.

This is why even though the photographer is trying to get one statement across to you, it all depends on what frame of mind your in when viewing the image is.

The photography I have decided to take part in from now on is very different from your have been seeing me in. It is something that I have been thinking of doing for a while but it just being in the right frame of mind and choosing the right time to express my expertise to you all.

You may look at me completely different but it is just another phase I am adding to my career. I love anything to do with photography. So taking images in a different way is exciting and enthralling at the same time. Also even more adventurous with me being the model/one of the models…

 

 

 

20 Feb 2020
February 20, 2020

Do you know what Gerontophilia is?

Thursday 20th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.82.
I have said that I am unshockable but as I look into the different fetishes that are around for daily blog topis it makes me gasp as to what fetishes I didn’t know about and their original Latin names.

I knew this happened but I didn’t realize it was classed as a fetish. What I want to know is what age is classed as elderly?

From online research, I have found that in 2020 the retirement age will become 66 years old. As the years creep by the age will gradually increase and before we know it we will have to work till we are 80 years.

I think pensions will be long gone very soon. So the best way is to make your pension EG: Your house is your retirement fund or something along those lines. Much safer than relying on the government for handouts.

Well enough about that and back onto the topic of the blog…

Gerontophilia if you haven’t already worked it out is a fetish for the obsession with elderly people in a sexual way. There are many that have age gaps of decades between them and their partner. I’ve always said if you are compatible in personality then why not but be realistic.

21 and 71 is a big age gap. So use your common sense and you will be fine. I don’t want to say too much in case I offend some people. Stay safe and have fun is the main priority…

20 Feb 2020
February 20, 2020

What Is The Attraction To Voyeurism?…

Thursday 20th February 2020

Daily Blog Extra
If you see a couple in the street walking along holding hands the natural instinct is to look. To see, in your mind if they are compatible within looks or not, but opposites attract in most cases.

To see 2 friends say “hi” and kiss each other on the cheek is normal but to if they were to embrace one another and connect lips for an intimate full-on kiss then they are bringing public attention to themselves and it is inevitable that people will look.

To be told what to do or be watch is just as fun…

Depending on what your fetish is then people will look more than others. To be part of an audience the atmosphere can get very intimate throughout the room/area. Not by touching each other but by lots of people getting hot under their own collars.

If the performance you are watching whether it be live or online it can be very realistic. This is what makes it more inviting to watch because you can imagine in your mind you being in the male or females place.

Voyeurism can be put into context in a lot of ways. Couples like to be watched in a public place or taking a risk to get caught in a place they shouldn’t be. Inside or out depending on the moment of what they are doing.

If you’re on a night out and you meet someone that likes a 3 way to evolve.  One watches while the other 2 play and then you all change places as time goes by. When it comes to a couple that has been together for a long time inviting a 3rd person in can be very risky.

Think about it for a while before doing this as it can break up a good thing instead of helping the matter. If you are single and into Voyeurism, it can be a fun experience as a lot of sexual experiences can be in life…

If your sexuality is urging you to widen your horizons then contact me and I will see what I can do…

19 Feb 2020
February 19, 2020

Psychrophilia Is A Strange Fetish or is it?…

Wednesday 19th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.81.
Now I have come across some strange fetishes but this on is mighty weird. I don’t know anyone that likes being cold from this wintery weather we are having but to be cold on purpose is another level altogether.
Sometimes you have to adapt if your in that climate for some reason but to be cold on purpose is a fetish on its own.

Wrapped Up Warm

I had a client contact me a while ago and he asked to be taken to a muddy park on a rainy day (which is quite easy at this time of year) and make him walk across the grass so he unintentionally but intentionally slips over and gets muddy and wet and mainly cold.

Although the medical experts say that it is good for the body if you have injuries such as joint arthritis etc as it helps the blood flow around that area. Throughout my research, for this topic, I have a conclusion that it doesn’t seem long term beneficial but only for extra energy after the cryotherapy has been completed for 3 minutes.

From reading the title of the treatment, I think after being in the -264 degree freeze chamber for 1 minute I would be crying also…

So if you would like a Psychrophilia session contact me and I will sure to arrange it for you.

18 Feb 2020
February 18, 2020

Why do we love Eproctophila (Flatulance)…

Tuesday 18th February 2020

Daily Blog No.80.
When you were a child if someone near you farted or botty burp it was funny and everyone wet their pants because when your a child everything is funny like that.  When you grow older in your teens to pass wind is nasty. Then when your an adult in some cases flatulence becomes a turn on and is labeled a fetish.

in a guy’s case, it is not such a turn on because many eat all sorts of flavorsome things, etc and it is not the most pleasant of smells. When a female does it, to a guy if they were sitting on their face it would be a turn on.

To have a naked female body anywhere near a guy they would not care if she was to pass wind etc as they are not concentrating on the noise or smell if they have a pair of breasts etc staring them in the face.

If you’re a kinkster who loves the act of eproctophila on you then it can make all kinds of emotions race. Depending on the way the female eats is depending on the aroma she will let out.

If you have a weak stomach then in some cases your fetish might be limited to continuing to search for that special gust of wind that will pass your way…

I am not very flatulent even though i am plant based more than anything with my diet so I can not offer this service, sorry.

Even so it would be nice to hear from you for any other fetish that I offer. Contact me and we can converse further…

PS. In some blogs, it is very hard to think of a image to add to the content so you will have to use your imagination lol…

17 Feb 2020
February 17, 2020

Why Do We Get A Thrill From Exhibitionism?…

Monday 17th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.79.
What is the attraction of doing things in the public eye? When we are carrying on with our regular lives and something happens that makes people that we don’t know stop and stare the adrenaline rush hits our nervous system in such a way that to certain individuals is a sexual excitement rush.

To be humiliated in the middle of a busy shopping area or crowded pub is the most popular choice because you are guaranteed lots of onlookers. Even though it may be staged the best way of getting an instant reaction is acting it out as if it was performed without being forced to do it.

Exhibitionism can be recognized in many ways but you do have to be careful what you do and where you do it to save getting arrested for indecent exposure if you know what I mean.

It can be as innocent as just having a heated conversation with a friend or partner to get your sexual fix or the endorphin rush or as risky as having intercourse in a very public place. As I mentioned before be careful about this one as exposing sexual parts can cause you to offend onlookers or even get the authorities involved…

If you are into the topic of this daily blog then contact me and we can converse more on the subject. I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…

15 Feb 2020
February 15, 2020

Why Does Punishment Hurt So Much…

Saturday 15th February 2020

Daily Blog NO. 77.
Punishment hurts in so many different ways, you are having it performed on you because you have done something wrong.
Many like to have this one to them to give them pain because it’s their fetish, kink, turn on.

The punishment all depends on the wrongdoing they have done. We are not talking about crime but a milder version. Although if people that had done something drastically wrong came to a mistress and not wasted taxpayers’ money by going to court etc it would teach a lot of people not to do it again.

The punishment, in that case, would be bounded and gaged corporal punishment to the highest level on whatever part of the body that committed the crime.

Your Choice…

For example, rapists then 500 thrashes on their member of the hardest strokes, Stealing then (depending on the offense) 50 to 1000 strokes to the palms of both the hands. Injury by kicking, 200 or more thrashes to the soles of the feet.

You may think that the rapist should get more thrashes but if you have ever been thrashed or hit on the member then you know even 10 thrashes is painful enough.

The punishment is worse when the individual is tied up and restricted, which they should be as I can imagine that they wouldn’t want this to happen to them on this level even in a kinky session.

The choice is a prison sentence or a trashing of excruciating pain for 30 minutes plus on the body part that did the crime.

The person who will perform the punishment will be the person (or a close relative of the person if death or disablement takes place) who had the crime committed on or against them.

Brutal but justifyingly satisfying I think.

Pain, as I have mentioned before in a previous blog, can be satisfying if you come to a mistress for pleasurable BDSM etc…

I have asked many of my extreme clients why they like the pain to such an extreme level  They have replied, to bring back memories and to help them go deep into their subspace where extreme pain can only take them…

If you would like a role-play scenario then contact me and we can converse more on the subject.

I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…