Thursday 12th December
When I was a child to get a ruler across the palm of the hand for back chatting the teacher was a common punishment. Before then you would receive the cane if you were naughty.
Now in modern-day times, it has become an acquired fetish. As I say “it’s like marmite, you either love it or hate it”.
Life would be boring if everyone was the same and to be unique like everyone is we all have our own customized quirky fetishes.
All fetishes steam from somewhere. It could be from childhood or an experience you have just encountered in your past.
Corporal punishment is somewhat pain most would say only for punishment, if need be.
Yet others love the sting of the cane as a powerful looking mistress raises her arm in the air to bring it down to strike the bare cheek of your quivering bottom.
Depending on what you’re being reprimanded for is dependant on the implement that is about to be used.
Cane, Crop, Whip, Straps, Spanker, or hand they are all collectively used for Corporal Punishment.
Now I would like to show you images of my experience but this is not acceptable on free, open websites.
So I will do my best to find some acceptable photography that I can use.
Levels 1 to 3 of Corporal Punishment is used internationally but where ever you may go to experience this it will always be administered in so many different ways.
Each mistress is completely different, EG: you request 4 mistresses to perform 10 strikes of the cane.
You give no rules and leave them to do as they please and how they do it you will never know until the first strike.
First of all, to say to a mistress to have free reign in corporal punishment is dangerous and secondly, you have not requested which cane she can use.
Each type of cane has a different feeling when used, for the mistress and sub.
When deciding on a mistress for your chosen fetish always do your homework on her beforehand.
As it can be a costly mistake to your wallet if you don’t.
So if you feel your bottom is in need of a tingling sensation then contact me and we can converse further into the matter.
Wednesday 11th December 2019
As like the last postmas blog this theme is very much the same but slightly different.
I do like dressing my maids up to the best they can possibly look but I also like having different looks myself.
When I was a young gal I had gorgeous hair that I would grow into a bob and take pride in maintaining it to the best of my ability.
It always shone in the sunlight and everyone would admire it from near and far.
As the years pass by and my hair ideas began to change I decided to take it to shorter lengths.
Ever since then I have always dreamt of having the same length hair again but never had the patience to grow it.
I love the buzz of the clippers when they run over my skull and at the nape of my neck. It’s such a fantastic feeling. A bit like G.I.Jane (for those who remember that film).
So when I became more interested in the transformation of men to women I started my search for that ideal wig that I could put on when I felt in need of longer hair That gave me that same feeling of my real hair.
At last, I have found a human hair wig in my colour. My natural shade of colour has grown lighter over the years but I still like what I have found.
It is a dark brown with a reddish tone which is what my natural colour is or was. Although the wigs look black in the image.
As soon as Amazon delivered it to me I quickly unwrapped it and put it on. I wasn’t sure at first as stored in a bag it was all crumpled and misshaped but once I had moved the parting from center to a side parting, wet and styled it I was very happy with it.
What do you think? Do let me know by email or text is fine.
Do remember…….It is a wig and my natural hair (for those who prefer me with shorter hair) is always going to be in a short style.
There are many wigs that I have got that I can also wear of all different lengths and colours.
Some in natural shades and some in wild and brightly wacky colours. I a strict Mistress but I do have an adventurous side to me.
So if you do see something you like me in (that I will be modeling at some stage in the near future in photos on here) and would like me to wear for your session. Then let me know.
Wigs are not just 30 seconds put on. The ones I have are lace frontals (which means the lace mesh hairline is gelled down to the skin to look very realistic). So it takes me around 30 – 60 minutes to get ready with a wig.
I am really into my transformation makeup now as so I can do amazing shades of eyeshadow to match the wig.
Do keep an eye out for my photography updates in the near future.
I will look forward to all your hopefully kind comments on my different looks……..
Tuesday 10th December
First appearances go along way in everything everyone does. Business or pleasure, it doesn’t matter. If you like something or someone the first time you see them either in person or online you know that you want to know more about them.
I was told many years ago “it doesn’t matter what you wear, it’s you they are coming to see”. That is true but also very wrong.
Anyone that thinks that way will not do well in anything in life.
I always say, everything about an appointment matters. The place you have the client visit you at. The atmosphere in the room you take the appointment in, scent, sound, and vision are so extremely important.
I never have anyone else in the house when I take an appointment. Reason being that if the client hears something in another part of the house he is going to be on edge and unsure. This makes bad chemistry for a well flowed and comfortable appointment.
You may say it is not safe to be alone with a stranger…
True but I always go with my instincts. If I don’t feel comfortable with the first emails, text or greeting I have on the phone with a client then I say “Sorry I’m not interested”.
Some females just take the appointment because they want or need the money.
Yes, we all need the bills to be paid but I don’t feel I need to take every appointment that contacts me.
The more experienced one becomes the more of a bespoke niche you can offer. Finding something that no one else offers is perfect but difficult.
So if you are a refined gentleman that is looking for that particular something in the fetish world please contact me and we can converse more of an in-depth nature.
I will look forward to hearing all about your wild and wonderful fetishes.
Sunday 8th December
We all love a shiny object but to the Magpies, they can’t keep their eyes off shiny things.
I have nicknamed my clients that are attracted to Black Shiny PVC and metal objects Magpies.
They love to worship shiny shoes or boots. Even to maintain and polish them for their mistress.
To admire the workmanship of the material that makes the footwear shine so much that they can see their faces in them.
When it comes to metal objects this is slightly different. It’s not the polishing of the items but to feel the metal object hanging from a part of their body.
Then to see the reflection off of the angles of the mirror images in the metal ring, cage, etc…..
It excites them like no other fetish they could ever imagine.
We all have our own personalized fetish that no one will understand why we like it but we just know we do.
Light reflection is a big thing with a Metal Magpie. They have to have as much light in different ways shining off of the object that they can see. It makes it so much more exciting to look at.
Are you a magpie? If so, then let me know which one you are as I have only mentioned 2 kinds. There are so many.
I will look forward to hearing from you…..even if it’s not this fetish then let me on to what really raises your temperature on these cold winter days.
Friday 6th Decenber
As I sit here at my office desk tapping away on my laptop with my Christmas lights around my barber’s mirror and the decorated pine wreath with a lit double wick candle nestles comfortably on my coffee table, I listen to the instrumental Christmas tunes on youtube. What a great life I have at the moment.
Thinking about it, 10 years that I have been building up to this point in my career has been a hard struggle some times but its all been worth it.
All the fetishes I have learnt to feel comfortable with over time have added to build my confidence in one way or another.
No one feels confident about a subject they know nothing about. Researching all subjects you practice in is a must to grow your skills to a better standard.
This is why trampling has become of my popular fetishes.
My footwear collection has grown to more than I can imagine. Including flat and heeled boots, anything from ankle to under the buttocks length boots. Shoes from court to strappy sandals, flat to platformed sky scrapper heels.
It can even be performed in bare feet or tights or stockinged feet.
The more slender the heels, I would have to be careful where I would be trampling you as I don’t want to pierce the skin.
Trampling can be on any part of the body including the head. It is scary to a novice client experiencing this but once used to it you become more relaxed.
Be careful when choosing a Mistress for this fetish as there are soft points of the head that can cause injury on impact.
Like any fetish, there are right ways and wrong ways EG: Caning. Anal and sounds but to name a few.
Experience goes a long way in giving you the right sort of pleasure in subjects like these.
Like one client that visited me many years ago…….
He had a thing about Doc Martin Boots. Unfortunately, he did not gift them to me but brought them with him and took them away with him afterward.
He searched for ladies with size 7 feet to complete this fetish for him. I saw him a few times.
He was a chunky chappy which was ideal really as back then I was a little heavier than I am today.
The one rule that you should always abide by when searching for a trampling Mistress. Only choose a lady that is lighter than you, otherwise you will end up in A&E with a cracked rib or hopefully nothing worse.
He would ask me to put the boots on (always with leather-look trousers, not actual leather as the DM boots were Vegan Leather Look).
He would lay on the floor, I would sit on his chest with one boot at either side of his ears so he could rest his head on the top of the toes of the boots.
We would chat a little about what he likes about this fetish and other fetishes.
I then would put the sole of one of the boots on his cheek and put pressure on his head by turning it into the other boot.
The pressure was quite consistent. It would make an indentation to his face but it didn’t last very long.
I would continue this all over this face and head. The boots and soles where immaculate even though they were clearly visible that they had been worn for this fetish many times.
It was only his head and face that he wanted this to be performed on him. He always stayed fully clothed because he wasn’t confident about his body.
He said it was the compact feeling that the boots made to his face that turned him on. The feeling of the indentations of that particular sole of boot that gave him the adrenaline rush.
It was because each person is a different weight and not known how light or heavy they would be putting pressure on his skull at that time.
When your in an industry like this, one comes across so many different weird and wonderful people with so many different weird and wonderful fetishes in so many different weird and wonderful ways that one has to be open-minded.
As I say “It takes one to know one”.
So if your weird and wonderful do contact me and let me know and I’m sure we will have some weird and wonderful conversations about it all………
Wednesday 4th December 2019
The world of BDSM and mistressing is extremely larger than anyone can imagine.
It can range from the mild teasing to things that are best not mentioned as they are on the cusp of being taboo. I don’t want to get myself into trouble.
I will only talk with the clients that are interested in those type of fetishes.
The one topic of fascination that has been popular with my clients is ‘sounding’.
This is normally a medical practice that is performed to gently increase the urethra to take out any obstruction.
Many guys have found this to be an arousing stimulation (obviously not when they are with the doctor but when they are with their mistress).
It tests your will power and how long your hormones will keep you on the edge of climaxing, never tipping you until mistress says you can or lets you.
I am into the art of edging and sensing what your body is saying to me. How you react at every motion I make with the sounding implement. As it stroke the inside of your uretha with the tender loving care that it needs. Heightening your sensitivity with every millimeter it moves. Slipping and sliding with the lubricant will drive you crazy as you’ve never felt before
I have added to my collection of sounding equipment over the years and just recently added some new rosebud implements.
The varieties come in all different lengths and shapes eg: straight, curved, bumpy (I’m using novice language so everyone understands what I mean).
They are all made for extra stimulation including the electric stimulation sounding plug.
So if you are interested in exploring your taboo side with me or even start because you haven’t tried anything like this before, contact me and we can talk further
I will look forward to conversing more with you about the kinky side of your fantasies……..
Monday 2nd December 2019……
Although a professional and experienced mistress is popular and well known she is only as busy as she wants to be.
Sundays can be busy and sometimes not but yesterday I had a lovely 3-hour massage appointment with a quota of ballbusting thrown in to spice it up.
My soft sensual hands, stroking over the stressed and overworked body of my client was just what the mistress ordered for his prescription to
We all work hard in one way or another but everyone needs a bit of chill time.
Chill time to one person can mean a relaxing massage with slow, atmospheric, instrumental music that once they close their eyes it will transport them to where ever they want to go.
To another type of person, it can mean having a tall powerful woman with black thigh-high boots talking down to him and then giving him a swift strike of the knee, boot or/and fist in the proverbials to take him out of his stressful and manic lifestyle.
I say whatever floats your boat I’m fine with (as long as it’s within my rules, No personal services and the obvious, No underage anything and No bestiality).
As a mix up my client decided to have a relaxing massage with intervals of pain in a way he craved for.
I enjoy all my appointments because I access my clients before I invite them to arrange an appointment.
Nothing worse than being disrespected in my own home which will never happen.
If it does, that will be the last time you will be walking through my front door.
So as I was saying…. with every slow step I circled around him I was building him up for his next bout of stress relief.
I don’t have majorly powerful strikes but I don’t need to. It’s not in the power of the strike but the technic and where it hits.
It can be a light tap or a flick of the wrist but in the right place, it can send a grown man to his knees weeping for redemption.
So if you are a pain bunny and would like me to inflict a stress relieving session with myself then email me on MY CONTACT PAGE and we can discuss this matter further.
Look forward to hearing from you and receiving your inquiries…….
Over the years I have developed more of a transformation fetish then had I had realized. Starting as a child dressing up and being someone I want to grow up to be. Now it has developed in changing men into women with the full temporary procedure.
It is very hard to find a decent human hair wig for a responsible price. I don’t mind spending a pretty penny on good quality products but these days the advert is completely leading you up the garden path. You think you’re getting one thing and something completely different is delivered and worse in some cases.
I have managed to receive 1 human hair wig as a tribute gift but since then I have been looking and with no avail to find another of the same quality and better.
Yet I have been having fun with this one. Styling, cutting and colouring it in all the colours I that catches my eye.
I have as you can see in the image that my next colours are either violet gem which is more of a purple colour or I can choose baby blue.
When changing colour on hair (from experience) you have to think of the colour spectrum. If I was to put on baby blue after the red which still has undertones of the bright pink from before it won’t look baby blue but more of a purple tone.
So I am best to wait for a fresh blonde human hair wig. Then the baby blue will have a neutral base to go onto and then it will shine through at the colour I have chosen for it to be.
There is an art to colouring even if you’re not a qualified hairdresser but just doing your own hair at home.
I have had many a clients come to me with colour correction. It shows one colour on the box and then their hair turns out something different.
Reason being as I was saying before. Colour Spectrum. Everyone has tones in their hair EG: red, gold, ash etc and they are always there if you don abide by the rules.
That’s why it is always best to leave the hair colouring to a professional if you don’t know what you’re doing.
Apart from human hair wigs, I do buy acrylic wigs that look equally as great as the human hair wigs but I can not change the colour or put hot straighteners on them.
Now you know why I prefer human hair wigs. Then I have free reign to do as I please with them.
Also if they have mesh on the perimeter of the wig they can be fixed to your head like your own hair. This is so I can give you a full hairdressing experience without cutting or doing anything to your own hair.
See, I think of everything I possibly can to fulfil your Hairdressing/Sissymaid fantasies.
All enquires welcome but please abide by my age preference of 35 years old and over.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries.
When I need to go on a specific shopping trip I always insist on having a maid to carry my bags.
Northampton is not the best place to buy what I need but I have regular shops I go to if I can’t find what I want online.
This occasion was different as I didn’t need anything for myself particularly but one of my long term maids (that i named Kathy) needed to be spruced up as we have a few photo sessions that she needs to look good for. It has been a while and I don’t like shabby looking maids.
Some time throughout that day Kathy would get a bit too comfortable in conversation with me. So I then would have to put her back in her place. I am a down to earth Mistress when spending longer than normal times with me it can become a rather enjoyable experience. Also if it is away from my establishment and in certain environments then I do relax a little more and enjoy our time together but It does not matter if we were in a public place or not I am still her Mistress and she should not forget that.
I do not expect to be called Mistress in public, Lucy is fine but the respect should still be there.
We were out for 5-6 hours and bless her little feet, I did wear them out. Carrying all those bags tired poor Kathy out.
I did see one pair of boots that I tried on and I said that I would allow her to buy them for me as a tribute gift if the fit was comfortable enough but unfortunately, they were not.
As we were coming to the end of our shopping trip I had to nip into the supermarket where I allowed her to pay for my grocery shopping instead.
She was very grateful and will look forward to the next time I allow her to tribute me again.
As Kathy had been disrespectful to her Mistress earlier that day her punishment would be equivalent to the sharpness of Mistresses tongue that put her back in her place. The punishment would be 10 hard strikes of the Head School Mistresses Cane to her bare bottom with no breathers in between. In the normal session, Mistress would allow her enhancers to help her take longer and harder punishments. As this was a short, sharp and to the point punishment it was administered raw and without any help.
No one forgets one of Mistress Lucy’s punishments as I do not allow disobedience or if you do forget then you are quickly awakened the second time and then you remember how your bottom felt after the first punishment.
Gluten for severe punishment if you’re a repeat offender.
My motto is and has always been ‘Be Careful What You Ask For’…….If you don’t believe me, come on then……..try me….if you dare!!!!!!
Now I always like a gift in whatever way it may be but something that is useful and I can use many times over is even better.
I had a client contact me a week or so ago requesting a medical appointment with a difference (well it would be a difference for me as it is something that I have always been intrigued about but never been able to practice it).
Poppers have always been used in my sessions if it is required (the client always has to bring them) but this was using relaxers in a much more professional way.
When Mr. X (as I will call him to keep his identity secret) contacted me and we conversed on the telephone we were speaking for well over 60 mins. If you are not intriguing to my intelligence then the conversation will be to the point and short.
He has been looking for a mistress that is willing to learn another part of her career that she would like to expand with and to.
The medical field I have never been trained in EG: A physician or nurse of any sort but Mr.X has been and this is why he is searching for the ideal mistress to take him to the clouds and back.
As we were in-depth conversation he explained that he had all his own equipment and would bring everything with him. My barber’s chair looked ideal for the scenario he was looking for as it reclines to a flat position which is much more relaxing in this situation.
When we had finished conversing. I actually sat for a while thinking about the proposition that had just been put to me. Truthfully it made me a little excited about the future to come.
When the day came for the appointment to take place I could tell Mr. X was just as excited about our meeting as he was traveling from Bournemouth (Northampton is 150 miles each way). That is true dedication for a client to have to his mistress.
The equipment he had brought with him was in 1 large and 1 small suitcase. He looked like a traveling salesman (I jested with him when i answered the door).
The session went very well. He had requested a 4-hour appointment so that he could teach me a lot about the Anesthetic play.
The set up comprised of a rubber face mask which was attached to a glass bottle with a tubular hose amongst other components. The poppers could be gauged by a dial which had levels 1-5 levels on it, this went up in 1/2 notches.
It was a very slow and controlled time together but it was extremely interesting instead of just giving the client the bottle to sniff from which is a regular thing for most cases.
When the session had finished we sat and had a cup of peppermint tea and exchanged feedback to see where we could improve next time.
I am very much looking forward to our next meeting because unfortunately, I can not purchase the equipment he has as it was bought in the 1980s (but in pristine condition). I can purchase up to date equipment but it’s knowing where to find it.
When I do purchase these items it will include anything from anesthesia breathe control equipment to needle play.
Only when I am fully trained by Mr. X will I advertise such services.
I will be putting together a wishlist at some time in the near future so I will know what is going to be needed to have a fully equipped medical room.
Look forward to receiving your inquires…