Saturday 18th January 2020
Daily Blog NO.49.
When an individual is thinking of the topic chastity they think of it for a reason and the reason is very personal to them.
For whatever reason they want this to happen they have to do research and homework on it before it can take place.
Chastity can be taken light-heartedly or it can be taken very seriously. It depends on your reason for proceeding with this transition.
There are many ways your can experience can take place:
Temporary Chastity – This can be mentally being told not to do something or have you pathetic member tied with a lace or silicone band and then removed at the end of the session.
Periodic Chastity – This is when you will have to purchase a chastity device yourself because it needs to fit your size relatively comfortable for the time you are locked in it.
Long term Chastity – Now this has to be taken much more seriously because long term can mean 1 month to much longer. Depending on what your mistress whats to do.
Permanent Chastity – This should not be taken light-heartedly because this is life-changing.
The Permanent chastity can go to the extreme leaves of castration (in human terms is vasectomy or hysterectomy). Depending on how you look at it.
Many couples make a decision to stay loyal to each other and so make a pac between them and their love will keep that pac in place.
As in others will do something physical as in apply chastity with a device. Male and female chastity devices are obviously different and they are out on the market to purchase.
A different type of chastity that is extremely permanent is Castration. It can be performed at the doctors/hospital in a day surgery appointment.
Like animals, a couple of snips and jobs down but it needs to be done by a professional. Other ways are like the sheep, elastic band around the testicles and leave it there until they drop off.
A painful way but if it means no more lambs then it has to be done.
I am not saying I will castrate you but if you would like a chastity session contact me and we can converse some more…
Wednesday 4th December 2019
The world of BDSM and mistressing is extremely larger than anyone can imagine.
It can range from the mild teasing to things that are best not mentioned as they are on the cusp of being taboo. I don’t want to get myself into trouble.
I will only talk with the clients that are interested in those type of fetishes.
The one topic of fascination that has been popular with my clients is ‘sounding’.
This is normally a medical practice that is performed to gently increase the urethra to take out any obstruction.
Many guys have found this to be an arousing stimulation (obviously not when they are with the doctor but when they are with their mistress).
It tests your will power and how long your hormones will keep you on the edge of climaxing, never tipping you until mistress says you can or lets you.
I am into the art of edging and sensing what your body is saying to me. How you react at every motion I make with the sounding implement. As it stroke the inside of your uretha with the tender loving care that it needs. Heightening your sensitivity with every millimeter it moves. Slipping and sliding with the lubricant will drive you crazy as you’ve never felt before
I have added to my collection of sounding equipment over the years and just recently added some new rosebud implements.
The varieties come in all different lengths and shapes eg: straight, curved, bumpy (I’m using novice language so everyone understands what I mean).
They are all made for extra stimulation including the electric stimulation sounding plug.
So if you are interested in exploring your taboo side with me or even start because you haven’t tried anything like this before, contact me and we can talk further
I will look forward to conversing more with you about the kinky side of your fantasies……..
Now I always like a gift in whatever way it may be but something that is useful and I can use many times over is even better.
I had a client contact me a week or so ago requesting a medical appointment with a difference (well it would be a difference for me as it is something that I have always been intrigued about but never been able to practice it).
Poppers have always been used in my sessions if it is required (the client always has to bring them) but this was using relaxers in a much more professional way.
When Mr. X (as I will call him to keep his identity secret) contacted me and we conversed on the telephone we were speaking for well over 60 mins. If you are not intriguing to my intelligence then the conversation will be to the point and short.
He has been looking for a mistress that is willing to learn another part of her career that she would like to expand with and to.
The medical field I have never been trained in EG: A physician or nurse of any sort but Mr.X has been and this is why he is searching for the ideal mistress to take him to the clouds and back.
As we were in-depth conversation he explained that he had all his own equipment and would bring everything with him. My barber’s chair looked ideal for the scenario he was looking for as it reclines to a flat position which is much more relaxing in this situation.
When we had finished conversing. I actually sat for a while thinking about the proposition that had just been put to me. Truthfully it made me a little excited about the future to come.
When the day came for the appointment to take place I could tell Mr. X was just as excited about our meeting as he was traveling from Bournemouth (Northampton is 150 miles each way). That is true dedication for a client to have to his mistress.
The equipment he had brought with him was in 1 large and 1 small suitcase. He looked like a traveling salesman (I jested with him when i answered the door).
The session went very well. He had requested a 4-hour appointment so that he could teach me a lot about the Anesthetic play.
The set up comprised of a rubber face mask which was attached to a glass bottle with a tubular hose amongst other components. The poppers could be gauged by a dial which had levels 1-5 levels on it, this went up in 1/2 notches.
It was a very slow and controlled time together but it was extremely interesting instead of just giving the client the bottle to sniff from which is a regular thing for most cases.
When the session had finished we sat and had a cup of peppermint tea and exchanged feedback to see where we could improve next time.
I am very much looking forward to our next meeting because unfortunately, I can not purchase the equipment he has as it was bought in the 1980s (but in pristine condition). I can purchase up to date equipment but it’s knowing where to find it.
When I do purchase these items it will include anything from anesthesia breathe control equipment to needle play.
Only when I am fully trained by Mr. X will I advertise such services.
I will be putting together a wishlist at some time in the near future so I will know what is going to be needed to have a fully equipped medical room.
Look forward to receiving your inquires…