Sunday 17th January 2021
Well now, this is a subject I am extremely passionate about. I don’t get passionate about anything these days but corsets I definitely do.
The first corset goes back to the 16th century that was worn by men and women in different outfits. Men for battle and women as undergarments to shape themselves for the outer clothing.
These days Corsets are worn in many different ways but mainly to give the women that hourglass figure. We all crave to look like Dita Von Teese or close enough but we are not all shaped that way.
Corsets come in all different shapes and sizes but the main reason it’s worn is to give the wearer the feel-good factor.
I love my corsets because whatever shape I have been throughout the years it will always sinch in my waist and give me that bottom-heavy look that many don’t want.
I think these days the trend is coming back again as it did in the 1950s and 60s. Don’t get me wrong as the corset has never gone out of fashion as there’s always a female that wants to make her figure tighter than it naturally is.
There have always been certain years or decades that the cinched in the waist was more popular than others. I was watching a documentary on Danny La Rue last night. Men have to wear undergarments as they don’t have the waist and hips etc that a female has.
Now when wearing a corset for the first time it will be a learning curve for you. It is like you have to learn to breathe again. Comfort is the main thing because if you can’t breathe properly then you will feel very uncomfortable and dizzy.
There’s no point in being as silly as some females will go to even removing ribs to get smaller. This female in the photo was on a Tyra Banks chat show and her waist measured 18 inches but inside the corset, it is 15 inches.
Ribs are there for a reason, to protect the internal organs and if you move them around then you looking for trouble. The less time in hospital the better I always say.
The love of corsets can be so much fun though without being too serious about it. There are loads of different designs and materials that they are made out of.
A while ago a mentioned about I wanted to add a store to this website so you could purchase videos and photos. That is not possible.
So I have decided to make a completely new one (still keeping this one but i will link the 2 websites together through links you can click onto.
It will be similar to this one as in blogs and real life photography but it will be predominately an online store.
If there is anything you would like for me to look into researching for you to purchase then by all means let me know.
The content will be equipment and toys, corsets, compression garments, and shapewear and crossdressing items (silicone skin wear for body shaping as in boobs, butts, and bodysuits).
I think with the way this world is carrying on my appointments are going too far and few between so I am putting my knowledge to better use.
Each product that I will advertise will have a demonstration video (a handling video not how to use a dildo) and my opinion of it. Its to help you get a realistic view of the item and not just a flat photo like some websites that a cold and collective and have the bare essential details on it.
It is in working progress at the moment so I will keep you updated as and when it will be live for you to view.
So I will look forward to hearing from you if you have anything to ask me.
Stay safe and keep smiling…
Sunday 17th January 2021
Everyone has their own funny quirks about them but when it comes to fetishes that’s another ball game completely (excuse the pun).
Fetishes can make you have all different emotions and I have developed a love of a particular fetish over the past few months, well 2 actually but they both come under one title.
Now to many restrictions means being tied down and unable to move. Yes, that is right but too many that have sessioned with me they will know that restriction includes compression.
So for me to say I have been obsessed with restriction lately is an understatement. I have also become introduced to the fetish of compression as well which comes in the form of shapewear. This takes shapewear to another level that I thought I would not like but…I do very much.
It is a company that I was looking at because of a youtube video that I was watching one night. I like to watch plastic surgery documentaries, not for the construction side but the after-effects (what they look like before and after). It’s fascinating to me.
I would never get anything done myself unless I really had to.
The garments that they are told to wear after a liposuction procedure, for example, looks really uncomfortable as it takes all your effort to get into it but when they are in it it looks amazing.
So I decided to investigate these garments and whether normal people ( as if I’m normal lol) can buy them or if only plastic surgery clients are allowed.
I found out that anyone can buy them. So I did my homework on the best one and decided to make a purchase.
There was anything from thonged panty girdles (tummy panel from hip to hip) to full-body compression suits (everything held in from neck to ankle).
Whatever you wanted they could make for you. I was in my element as when a woman gets to a certain age a little help goes a long way. Especially when she’s not a gym user anymore.
So I decided to get a 3/4 leg, high waisted bodysuit with a high back and straps. It sounds old ladyish but I don’t care. If it holds me in in all the right places and makes me look and feel good in my outfits then that’s all that matters.
I’m not having to undress for anyone. Clients tribute me to keep my clothes on and want to see me look fabulous in my outfits. So it doesn’t matter what I look like underneath my uniforms.
You never know, heavy-duty armor might be a turn on to some people lol. Unfortunately, we all aren’t perfect, and if we were what a boring world this would be. Being unique is beautiful in many ways.
So I had to wait a couple of weeks as it was coming from America but it was well worth the wait. As I opened up the envelope I pulled out this garment that I could only describe as ‘big enough to fit a broom’ size.
OMG, I said looking at it in disbelief. “That’s never going to fit my big arse,” but I was so wrong. It took a bit of pulling and pushing but in the end, I got it on.
From the homework that I had done of watching females putting on their compression garments, they had said that a good quality one will take a bit of getting used to.
When it’s new it is very tight but each time you put it on it stretches it out a bit and by the 4th time (which was the 4th time for me) it will be much more comfortable to get on.
I sometimes use mine with a waist trainer which holds up the bodice part of the garment but that is only when I don’t want to have the straps showing when I’m in a see-through blouse or strappy top. The straps are removable like suspenders on a corset.
The compression suit is reinforced with extra panels in places that are needed EG: Stomache, sides of thighs, and under the shoulder blades on the back.
When you’re squeezed in the bodysuit the excess flesh has to go somewhere. So to have the extra height at the back section is a godsend.
You may not think it but when you in a suit like this you will understand.
I am going to look into purchasing another but a short leg one as the 3/4’s version shows below a skirt heam. It is fabulous for trousers or if I’m wearing boots with a skirt but I can’t hide it when wearing a skirt if I want to wear shoes.
Oh, dear now you know my secrets to my new improved shape. I would love to say that I have lost weight and toned up at the gym but this pandemic has ruin life in one way or another for many.
Not sure I would say that I have turned into Mrs Doubtfire (Robin Williams in drag) but enhancements are for the better.
So for all you large panty and compression garments lovers, this one is for you lol
Oh, BTW this can be for women or men as it has an open gusset for easier bathroom trips as you wouldn’t want to get in and out of this too many times a day.
I wanted to try this underwear for me but also for my crossdressing clients. It will need to be customized so it’s for your body shape but will help to get that hourglass figure we all adore to have.
I also have a lot more to say about corsets etc so I will put together another blog. Lookout to see more on how my mind works, even though lockdown.
Stay safe and talk soon…
Friday 1st January 2021
Oh dear what a year we’ve had and aren’t we all glad its over. Me, including many have lost a lot of business over the past 8 months or more that we wont be able to get back.
This is going to be a short blog but i am just hear to wish you all a very Happy New Year and don’t let this pandemic get you down.
There are plenty of opportunities out their that you can do while your main career is perking up.
It seems to be that the internet is the main place to share your trade. Don’t think for example that there are many selling t-shirts so there’s no room for you to start selling.
So as i mentioned make a new start with a fresh imagination and you will only gain from your labour as to how much effort you put into it.
Also let me thank everyone that has helped me through these rough times in 2020 and supported me in whatever way they could.
I am truly grateful. Your all get gold stars when i mark your homework books.
So stay healthy and smiling and i will talk to you all soon…
Tuesday 29th December 2020
Over the past 11 years i have tried to sculpt myself into some one that i am now but i wasn’t when i started (if that makes sense).
When we all start a new thing we all want it to happen over night but unfortunately it doesn’t
I was watching YouTube today and the female on there was saying about how we compare ourselves to equally benefited or better people.
Seeing someone else that is in the same category as you but is either better looking or has better things than you can put you in a good or bad frame of mind.
I sat watching it and thinking to myself…I’m at last happy in my own skin.
It has taken me a bit over 11 years to accumulate the experience that i have and to gain the trust that i have in my regular clients.
Trust does not come easy and you earn it over time. That goes both ways.
As like knowing what you really want out of life and getting to a point in your world that you can say to yourself “Im happy with the way i look, the way i live and the friends i have around me.
We are living in a very messed up world right now and the pandemic is ruining a lot of businesses but for those who are finding it tough you should think of plan B to help you stay on the straight and narrow.
As they say ‘You shouldn’t keep all your eggs in one basket’…
So you may think i am doing a lot to my establishment at the moment but i am doing it for a reason. There are many things i will be changing and doing in 2021.
I am not stopping client visits but as they are far and few between at the moment because of the tier system/lockdowns etc i have to find other ways of bringing in the bill money.
So making my home a 100% photogenic will help in many ways. For videos as well as ideas for blogs etc
So watch this space and lets see what happens…
Sunday 27th December 2020
Now Mistress Lucy is no cook when it comes to cuisine but i will only cook for myself if I’m experimenting (i never know what is going to turn out like).
Everyone jokes about Brussel sprouts but me, I love them and i try to experiment with different ways to have them.
I went out shopping at Tesco’s on 23rd December (before everything had completely sold out). I normally get Tesco delivery but fancied some naughty chocolates etc for the festive time alone with my kitties.
As I browse, I always have a strange way of working out what i want to buy. I see what my taste buds are telling me. I see something then think of what it taste like last time i ate it. If it brings back good memories then I buy it or if It brings back bad memories I put it back.
As walking down the vegetable isle I see Brussel Sprouts. Now I haven’t had brussels for a long, long time. They actually brought fond memories of my grandma back.
She would sit at the kitchen table in our old house in London (big corner plot Victorian house). The rooms had tall ceilings. The kitchen had double doors that opened into the front room to make it one room if need be.
I can picture her in mind right now as I tell you about her. She lived in North London and we were in South London. She would visit us for 2 – 3 weeks at a time. Funny nanny. Things she would do would make me crease up with laughter.
I would call her a wrinkly old teenager because her mind was young but her body (like us all) was aging and slowing her down as years past by.
She was an old school gal literally. She was a house maid back in the 1900’s for a lady and master of a grand house in the country.
She learnt everything from her younger days and stayed in that job for 20 or more years. She said she enjoyed it very much because although she was the head maid in charge of everyone and lived in the servant quarters she loved to admire her ladyships home.
It was grand and elegant but obviously with a masculine touch of the master. “Oh how i wish” she would say as cleaning the silver or polishing the long dining room table that would seat 16 or more.
So as time pasted and she carried on her own ways in modern day she would still wear the old style house coats that would be made of slippery polyester. I say slippery because she would say it would be better for house chores and cooking, as it would not attracted anything as she was going about her day. It would stay cleaner in other words and she would always look smart and tidy.
Isn’t if funny how something as small as a Brussel Sprout can bring back so many memories…
So this evening i decided to have them and cook them a little different.
I cut and skinned them (dirty leaves for the compost bin ) then rinsed them under cold water and then boiled them as nanny used to.
I then drained them and let the pan get hot and sizzling and them popped a little butter and salt in there for extra flavour.
When it had melted i put the brussels in there and let them sit until i could hear crackling, not burning just crackling.
Then move them around til crispy in places.
It took longer than i anticipated but i had plenty of time so it didn’t worry me.
Eventually when they where done to my liking, I poured them out of the pan into a boil, put a little grated cheese on them and that was my meal.
I do agree my eating has changed in the past year and due to the pandemic I have gained weight through stress (like us all) but I have always carried my weight in certain places .
To keep it off I have to sacrifice nice things like the butter and cheesy Brussel Sprouts and chocolate biscuits.
This year has taught me one thing if nothing else…we only have one life and lets live it the way we want to.
Yes there are rules and regulation with the pandemic on how we should conduct our lives for staying well and safe but when it comes to food etc and what we look like it is totally down to the individual.
Don’t go over board obviously but as long as we are comfortable in our own skin that is all that matters…