24 Dec 2021
December 24, 2021

X is for X-rated…

Friday 24th December 2021

Blog No.162/ Blogmas No.24

Although It’s Not An X-rated Image It is As Risky As I Can Be, As This Is A Non-Login Website…

Wowee Who would have thought that December could have passed so quickly. I must admit it has been difficult to fit the daily blogmas and my website work on the same day but I got there, well nearly there. As we still have today and tomorrow of Blogmas and then 6 days of December from then on. I will see about 2 blogs a week from January onwards. Random subjects but will still be interesting. 
Now I know I have mentioned that other letters are difficult to find a fetish for but this is really difficult as nothing came up when I googled it. So all can think of is X-Rated. 
18 Plus…
X-rated is, as we all know not for under 18 years olds but I think and I know you think that kids know a lot more than we let on. I’m not going to go on like that as I will show my age but times have changed.
What Is Classed As X-Rated?…

Hog Tied And Waiting To Be Roasted. Risky In Words And The Rest Left To Your Imagination…

Laws these days are good for one and not for another. it’s the same as when adult websites will not allow BDSM photographs but they will allow females with all showing all their wares on non-login websites. This means underage kids can look at it all   Crazy but it will still get through the rules in one way or another. 
Different Opinions As To What Is Explicit And What Is Normal…
As I am in the industry I feel that BDSM and naked male bodies are normal to me (I have a different normal to everyone else) but to someone that is a regular lifestyle and X-rated viewing is a luxury at weekends maybe would think it is not normal. I do not mix with females in my line of sessions. There are more guys that are interested in seeking a mistress to session with than females. Then when they do contact me I am very wary and give them a lot more questions to reply to than I would a guy.
Contact me…
On this point, I would mention to contact me and we can converse about your fetish but I don’t take part in anything that you would call X-rated. If it is along the line of BDSM or anything on my likes list then do CONTACT ME and yes we can converse about it. 
I will look forward to any one of you that abides by what I have requested and hear from you soon…
09 Dec 2021
December 9, 2021

I Is for Isolation…

Thursday 9th December 2021

Blog No.147/ Blogmas No.9

Today’s fetish letter was a difficult one. All I could think of was isolation. This could also be known as subspace. This is brief and to the point blogmas today as it is testing on the brain as to what to write about without repeating myself too many times.

The meaning can be in many ways…

Isolation can mean many things but it depends on how a person’s mind works. To me, it means

Isolation With A Hood. Must Of Been A Very Naughty Sub…

being hooded and taken out of reality so you be in your fantasy world. Isolated from everyone and everything. 
It’s a bit like confinement or incarceration which again can mean ‘Confined in a cage for your
punishment’ or incarcerate you for a period of time for you to repent your sins’.
BDSM…
In BDSM there are many ways to demonstrate the meaning of isolation but my favorite is ‘Isolate your mind from reality so you can float away into your fantasy world of no judgment’.
So if you would like to be taken to your isolated fantasy world CONTACT ME and we can converse more on your request.
08 Dec 2021
December 8, 2021

H is for Hooks…

Wednesday 8th December 2021

Blog No.146/ Blogmas No.8

Wow, This one was a test between Humiliation, hoods, hooks yes I know that they all come under BDSM but if you have an interest in one particular thing then that becomes an individual niche/fetish for you.

One Of My Favourite Fetishes…

Now as I have been in the industry a long time I have a fetish for all of them in totally different ways but I did pick Hooks as my favorite out of the 3 choices.

Hood, Collar, and Hook

It’s because they are different. Not everyone likes them but they can be used in so many different ways. 
Just because they look gruesome doesn’t mean they have to be. Although you see in the image in this blog this is a mouth hook and nose hook.
If someone wants to be restricted in a way of speech deprivation these little beauties are perfect for that job.
As we are at the height of the pandemic (unfortunately) I have not had the opportunity to use them as much (due to hygienic values). I am always very tip-top on hygiene and cleaning all my equipment (in boiling water etc as guidelines tell me to) but because viruses can be carried from one to the next I always like you to have your own implements.
If you have been to visit me or would like to become a regular client and have these implements involved in your session you will need to arrange with me to have your own.
This is quite simple. If you pay for them in advance I will order them for you and they will be here for you for your next appointment.
I have a few clients that have already done this and I keep your things separate in a box or bag (depending on how much you have) so that it is safe and clean away from other clients’ things.
The other option is that you bring the items with you to each session. Either option, I am fine with it.
Other Options How To Use Hooks…
I have recently had hooks installed in my ceiling in my Dungeon/BDSM Room. This is for the leather

Hook, Cuff. Latex Hood, Chastity, Leash Restriction

swing that I use for suspension sessions. I have also found that the hook in the ceiling doesn’t only have to be for that.
It can be for restricting subs that like to be punished with suspension, even full weight off the floor. This could mean Japanese Rope Art but that’s a different fetish to talk about another time.
As long as you are under 20 stone (that’s the ceiling hooks capacity) then you can be suspended in whatever position I care to put you in. Depending on your health obviously. So as you see Hooks arent that unfriendly as people think they are.
If you have a hook or suspension fetish and would like to pursue it further then CONTACT ME and we can talk more about your requirement.
14 Dec 2019
December 14, 2019

Update on My BDSM Furniture….

Saturday 14th December 2019

Postmas NO.14.
Good morning everyone,
This is a bit of a different blog today as I’m a day behind even though this blog is dated yesterday.

Sorry, I did not update my blog when I had decided to pack up from upholstering my BDSM furniture last night/this morning but it was gone 2 am and I was very tired.

My brain has to be in blog mode to produce an interesting blog and when Mistress Lucy has a tired mind is not an interesting mind.

I started at 12noon and (still not quite finished now) worked on it until the early hours of the morning. I’m a perfectionist (to best of my ability), that’s why it takes me so long and also upholstering, is not my profession.

So for those who have been following my blogs even before December, your know that I have been looking for a carpenter to make me a spanking bench of which I was hoping for a customized one so that I could have it just the way I want it.

Time after time people who were so-called carpenters would contact me and say “Yes sure I can do that for you” and in the end fail to produce.

I think I had roughly 8 carpenters that were complete fails.

In business, if you do a good job then your client ( hence myself) will advertise your good name and then you will get more work.

People don’t seem to think this way. Still, I didn’t get exactly what I have wanted but it will look just as good and will do the job that I want very well.

One day I was looking on eBay at some other things and came across this advertisement for a carpenters bench. Very chunky and not really what I was looking for, so dismissed it.

As a few days passed I was still looking for a bench but everything looked commercialized.

Anyone that knows me knows that I am not commercialized and like to be uniquely different.

Kneeling Stool/Coffee Table

I went through my checklist of what I was expecting my ideal bench to perform for me and funny enough this bench ticked all my boxes.

The things I wanted for my bench were the following:

  • To be able to take any size and weight of person I have for any appointment.
  •  So that I have one piece of furniture to accommodate my BDSM and Massage clients.
  • If I wanted to have attachments to it I could EG: Gyno supports, Stocks, St Andrews Cross (but my version), etc…
  • If I wanted to have a cage underneath the table part then I could.

When having a piece of furniture made out of wood it is very versatile to do as I please with it.

Although metal is great and it really looks the part all I can do is hang things off of it and attach this to it (as I do not have welding skills) but I feel that it is not as sturdy as a solid wood frame.

To have anything like A St Andrews Cross or Stocks etc attached with wood I can attach with sturdy bolts and take off if I require.

I do like to put my own twist on things on many occasions.

So as you can see from the images I have attached to this blog the end result I like Is unique but clean cut.

Sometimes when having so much equipment it is difficult to be clean-cut in the design of my entertainment room but in my furniture, I will be this way.

Having many pieces of furniture will clutter up the floor space. Being compact will give more space to move around in.

I use my entertainment room as a photographic studio also. With backdrops for the male to female transformational photos as well as other things.

So I hope you enjoyed this update and when I have received the next delivery of spray glue I can start on the larger bench.

As the bench I did yesterday is the kneeling stool to the spanking part of the bench.

Big and bulky is the best type of multi-use furniture so it can take anything I want to do on it.

So do contact me and we can converse more. I will be looking forward to receiving your inquiries on any service that I offer……

 

 

03 May 2019
May 3, 2019

OMG What a Wriggler i Have Here…

Now I like to have fun but this particular day when I received an inquiry I wasn’t expected to have so much fun.
When we had had our time conversing of the fundamentals the day came to see if he was all he said he was.
When he entered my establishment he stepped inside my front door very nervously (because I had shaken him up a bit from the chat we had the day before) “Good afternoon” I said looking at him in my intimidating way.
‘Bless’ i thought ‘a short one, all the more fun lol’.
As he followed me up the stairs to my entertainment floor I could hear his in-trepidation in his footsteps one by one, actually expecting him to say “sorry I can’t do this” and ask to be let out but he didn’t.
As I turned to look at him as i walked into the middle of the room the fear that he once had turned slightly to ‘oh bugar what have I got myself into look’.
We chatted a little to calm his nerves and then i said out of the blue in my Mistress voice (I am kind and me when you first enter my property to help you relax but if your here for a mistress Lucy session then your know in my voice when she has appeared) “Take all your clothes off and put them by the banisters out of the way”. Now the fear of God appeared once more in his eyes. He was obediently submissive which was a very good start.
As I went to the bathroom to wash my hands (i am very ocd on cleanliness and hygiene, no short cuts on anything like that) I watched his body language to see how I was going to plan my next move.
I abruptly said “stand up straight boy (even though he was 47 years old i call everyone boy when i feel like it). He stood bolt upright as if he was in the army line ready for inspection.
My black shine stiletto court shoes clicked on the wood floor with each step i took closer to him. I circled him and looked him up and down to make him even more nervous than before.
“Don’t look at me boy” i said “Did i ask you to move your eyes my direction?”
“No” he said with a quiver in his feeble little soft-spoken voice. I laughed as i turned my back and walked away.
Whilst my thoughts turned to which way i was going to take this pathetic boy through an emotional roller coaster i could hear his breath getting erratic.
As the bdsm bed was behind him where he was standing i said in a very authoritative voice ” Lay on the bed face up”. He did as i told him a bit quicker than i was expected but i think he just wanted to hide his arousal from me as he didn’t know what i was going to do next but i wasn’t having any of it as i wanted it all on show for me to tease.
Whilst conversing on the phone the day before he told me what he liked and disliked so i had an idea without having to ask within the session.
Restriction was his thing and Wow was he a wriggler.
I didn’t want to tie him to tightly on his first visit and frighten him off from returning another time but i sure knew that it would have to be much more heavier bondage restriction next time.
Throughout the session, i teased him in my mistress way but also found his sensitive spots. One thing i did love doing and that was anally stimulating him. I would slowly push a finger in and move it around and then gradually increase the number of fingers to stretch him slightly. When i was happy with the amount of stretching to the size of my smallest silicone dildo i would change fingers to toys. Everything condomed obviously for hygiene.
I applied ky lubricant to the end of the dildo and gentle slide it in and then when i knew he was enjoying it i would pull it out at top speed. lololol OMG he wriggled and jumped and moved all over the place in excitement. I had to hold onto the bed in case he tipped it over.
Through out the session i continued to do this spontaneously going from one antic to another surprising him each time.
He never said he disliked giving oral to toys so as soon as I had pulled the dildo from his arse hole i pushed it in the mouth. As he couldn’t see what I was doing it was a big surprise. I found out very quickly that he did not like the taste of his own poop lol but I found it extremely funny.
This pathetic little wriggler sent me a text later on that day (as he left me at the end of the session in total disorientation and was cum drunk) saying how much he enjoyed the way I am and control the whole situation. He said every emotion was touched on in ways that he never thought he could experience.
He has been back to me 2 more times since and each time has got more intense with hoods, neck braces and poppers and yes the restriction has got a lot more heavy handed. He is not left marked in any way but i am mentally tattooed on to his memory forever and a day.

 

I never ask for anything but if a client would like to buy me something in gratitude then that is always accepted graciously. When its not expected at all it is a lovely surprise.
I had a email enquiry from a client asking about bdsm (as they do). He was very polite and courteous with his manner which is very appealing on the first contact to a mistress. He continued to tell me about what he had experienced and what he would like to experience if he was allowed to visit me which is always a plus with me as it saves me asking questions in my reply.
Over a few days we exchanged emails til I felt that he was serious about taking the 2 hour journey to come to visit me. We then had a lovely short but brief conversation to clarify a few things so i could put a voice to a name. I knew from the first email that we would get along and have some mutual bdsm fun when we met.
When the time came to meet I could tell he was going to be more nervous than me so I greeted him with a warm smile to make him feel welcome. I am a serious mistress but I do have a heart. I can be a bitch when I need to be and polite, down to earth lady when i want to be to.
The 3 hours pasted very quickly and at the end when he was about to leave he said “I’ve really enjoyed my time with you. I wanted to bring you a gift but I needed to know you were genuine” I laughed but I knew what he meant.
There are many mistresses out there that are fake and only polite for business and that’s where I am different. I will only invite clients into my home if I have a genuine connection and in return I am a very down to earth and genuine person.
So he continued “I have something in the car for you. Is it ok if I go and get it?” He asked. “Oh Wow” i said “yes of cause you can. Well he came back with this massive shopping bag of goodies.
As you can see from the above photo above
what he produced out of his bag. Everything brand new and in the packaging still.
He said that he had bought it 6 months ago and never used it for the occasion (I didn’t ask what the occasion was out of politeness) but in return I thanked him graciously. He said” these are for you as a gift my mistress. Thank you for being you”.
Well he really did take me by surprise but a pleasant one at that. A gentleman and a sub in one.

Now that it look like the leaves are showing their gorgeous green heads on the trees this is a perfect sign to say that winter is finally on its way out and spring is trying to peak through the clouds.
It may be a change of mood for the plants but definitely a change of mood for us as human beings.
Christmas and new year is far in the back of our minds and the threat of all the credit card bills from the family festive times have chilled and we have all got back on the straight and narrow with our play money.
The year goes by in waves as we all should be use to by now so planning our earnings should come natural to you now.
Requesting an appointment of a destressing session in whatever way you are comfortable with should be what you look forward to when you can have some relaxation time.
To some its a massage from a soft sensual pair of hands attached to an experience, yet dominating female that controls your mind, body and soul by her intoxicating persona as soon as you enter her world…..or it might be a BDSM session where pain is your pleasure and you get the sxxt thrashed out of your arse and then continue to feel it for days after.
Which ever way it may be I am the one that you will never forget. I will bring your fetish to life in a way only a experience mistress can.
So read my website and see what I’m all about but there is only one thought I can leave you thinking about and that is………There’s more to life than just the normal destressing everyone knows about.
Look forward to hearing from you……