Sunday 17th January 2021
Well now, this is a subject I am extremely passionate about. I don’t get passionate about anything these days but corsets I definitely do.
The first corset goes back to the 16th century that was worn by men and women in different outfits. Men for battle and women as undergarments to shape themselves for the outer clothing.
These days Corsets are worn in many different ways but mainly to give the women that hourglass figure. We all crave to look like Dita Von Teese or close enough but we are not all shaped that way.
Corsets come in all different shapes and sizes but the main reason it’s worn is to give the wearer the feel-good factor.
I love my corsets because whatever shape I have been throughout the years it will always sinch in my waist and give me that bottom-heavy look that many don’t want.
I think these days the trend is coming back again as it did in the 1950s and 60s. Don’t get me wrong as the corset has never gone out of fashion as there’s always a female that wants to make her figure tighter than it naturally is.
There have always been certain years or decades that the cinched in the waist was more popular than others. I was watching a documentary on Danny La Rue last night. Men have to wear undergarments as they don’t have the waist and hips etc that a female has.
Now when wearing a corset for the first time it will be a learning curve for you. It is like you have to learn to breathe again. Comfort is the main thing because if you can’t breathe properly then you will feel very uncomfortable and dizzy.
There’s no point in being as silly as some females will go to even removing ribs to get smaller. This female in the photo was on a Tyra Banks chat show and her waist measured 18 inches but inside the corset, it is 15 inches.
Ribs are there for a reason, to protect the internal organs and if you move them around then you looking for trouble. The less time in hospital the better I always say.
The love of corsets can be so much fun though without being too serious about it. There are loads of different designs and materials that they are made out of.
A while ago a mentioned about I wanted to add a store to this website so you could purchase videos and photos. That is not possible.
So I have decided to make a completely new one (still keeping this one but i will link the 2 websites together through links you can click onto.
It will be similar to this one as in blogs and real life photography but it will be predominately an online store.
If there is anything you would like for me to look into researching for you to purchase then by all means let me know.
The content will be equipment and toys, corsets, compression garments, and shapewear and crossdressing items (silicone skin wear for body shaping as in boobs, butts, and bodysuits).
I think with the way this world is carrying on my appointments are going too far and few between so I am putting my knowledge to better use.
Each product that I will advertise will have a demonstration video (a handling video not how to use a dildo) and my opinion of it. Its to help you get a realistic view of the item and not just a flat photo like some websites that a cold and collective and have the bare essential details on it.
It is in working progress at the moment so I will keep you updated as and when it will be live for you to view.
So I will look forward to hearing from you if you have anything to ask me.
Stay safe and keep smiling…
Sunday 15th December 2019
When a client inquires about Breath Control they nearly always ask about smothering and facesitting. To an experienced player in the BDSM world, they will understand that facesitting has nothing to do with a sexual act of oral.
I do ask if the client is good at underwater swimming. This shows that they can hold their breathe for a quiet a while.
To perform a session of breathe control it’s not just sitting on their face and watching television.
Like any bespoke fetish, there is an art to it.
Smothering is also a form of breathe control but it is much more intense.
it is completely covering the head to make you feel totally intoxicated with the situation.
It can be performed with any part of the body that will cover the nose or mouth or both.
In some extreme sessions, it can include the neck and airways. I have to be careful how I say this for acceptable wording but you know what I mean.
Everyone has their own particular way they like their fetishes to be performed.
The items of clothing can make a big difference also. EG: In a cotton shirt/skirt/trousers or jeans can very breathable but PVC or Latex is not.
So if you would like me to test your airways contact me and we can converse about this topic and more…
Now I always like a gift in whatever way it may be but something that is useful and I can use many times over is even better.
I had a client contact me a week or so ago requesting a medical appointment with a difference (well it would be a difference for me as it is something that I have always been intrigued about but never been able to practice it).
Poppers have always been used in my sessions if it is required (the client always has to bring them) but this was using relaxers in a much more professional way.
When Mr. X (as I will call him to keep his identity secret) contacted me and we conversed on the telephone we were speaking for well over 60 mins. If you are not intriguing to my intelligence then the conversation will be to the point and short.
He has been looking for a mistress that is willing to learn another part of her career that she would like to expand with and to.
The medical field I have never been trained in EG: A physician or nurse of any sort but Mr.X has been and this is why he is searching for the ideal mistress to take him to the clouds and back.
As we were in-depth conversation he explained that he had all his own equipment and would bring everything with him. My barber’s chair looked ideal for the scenario he was looking for as it reclines to a flat position which is much more relaxing in this situation.
When we had finished conversing. I actually sat for a while thinking about the proposition that had just been put to me. Truthfully it made me a little excited about the future to come.
When the day came for the appointment to take place I could tell Mr. X was just as excited about our meeting as he was traveling from Bournemouth (Northampton is 150 miles each way). That is true dedication for a client to have to his mistress.
The equipment he had brought with him was in 1 large and 1 small suitcase. He looked like a traveling salesman (I jested with him when i answered the door).
The session went very well. He had requested a 4-hour appointment so that he could teach me a lot about the Anesthetic play.
The set up comprised of a rubber face mask which was attached to a glass bottle with a tubular hose amongst other components. The poppers could be gauged by a dial which had levels 1-5 levels on it, this went up in 1/2 notches.
It was a very slow and controlled time together but it was extremely interesting instead of just giving the client the bottle to sniff from which is a regular thing for most cases.
When the session had finished we sat and had a cup of peppermint tea and exchanged feedback to see where we could improve next time.
I am very much looking forward to our next meeting because unfortunately, I can not purchase the equipment he has as it was bought in the 1980s (but in pristine condition). I can purchase up to date equipment but it’s knowing where to find it.
When I do purchase these items it will include anything from anesthesia breathe control equipment to needle play.
Only when I am fully trained by Mr. X will I advertise such services.
I will be putting together a wishlist at some time in the near future so I will know what is going to be needed to have a fully equipped medical room.
Look forward to receiving your inquires…