Monday 27th December 2021
This blog will resonate with everyone as everyone has the urge in one or another. The question is which way is the best way?
There is no best way as we are all unique and different In our own way.
How many ways are there to have the feel-good factor?
Well, there are 8 ways to find the feel-good factor. Some you may be unaware of and some maybe new to you. Either way do try them out if you can as they are very toe-curling.
If there is anything that I have left out by all means let me know. I may learn something from you.
Tantric Massage ( this is far different from regular hand relief)
Imagination – Talking about erotic experiences etc or sitting and thinking about naughty things
Anal – prostate massage
Your own Fetish
I will explain what I mean about certain ways of ejaculation and then it may open your mind or it may be something you know about already.
This is an obvious one that we all know about or if you don’t you shouldn’t be on my website. It is the man and woman expressing their feeling for each other in a physical way. Whether you’re in a relationship, one-night stand, or arrangement. Either way, it should always be of the consent of 2 people.
This way may not be for everyone and if not…why the hell not? To some, they think it is an unhygienic form of pleasure but when performed correctly and you have the trust of that person is absolutely cosmic.
It is a very old way to pleasure each other. As they say, “How did we eat food before knives and forks were invented?” This is exactly the same thing. Before toys and sexual aids, it was only what we were born with that we can use to pass the time of a spare moment.
When it comes to the technique I’m not experienced in that field due to my celibacy for many years but when I did and with the right person I enjoyed it many a time.
I will say this now because I’m sure many of you reading this will have the urge to ask for this from me. Please don’t as I will only decline your request and become very offended. As you should know that I am an old-school non-sexual mistress from reading my likes list on my fetish page. If I would like to offer that type of thing then it would be on there but it is not. I am celibate because I choose to be.
All I can say is… be slow and gentle with your partner. If you are doing anything wrong then they will tell you and guide you. Do not be offended if the person you are with does not like what you’re doing. We are all different and like to be treated in our own personal ways. Learning is the art of the game and practice is the fun part.
This is a world that you never turn back from. A massage is only Tantric when the person who is receiving it has a connection with the person performing it. I say this because if the receiver is not feeling aroused from the moment he/she lays on the massage table then the massage becomes a Swedish massage.
From the first touch, the connection between you both should be sexual in a way that it sends vibrations through your whole body and arouses parts that will eventually harden and make you uncomfortable to lay on your front.
The warmth will of her hands enlighten your whole being. Now at this time, your imagination will come into play. You will have to control your willpower from cummin too soon. It is always best to finish at the end so you are at your peak of arousal. No one likes to finish early. Especially if you are enjoying yourself.
The only way to control your flow is by think of something to calm you down EG: your mother-in-law or something that will turn you off. Then once you have calmed down to a point that you don’t want to touch her. You then know that you can build yourself up in your imagination again.
Although by then you will be handcuffed to the bench/bed so you won’t have the option to touch her (well in Mistress Lucy’s company that will be the way).
I didn’t finish the last section on Tantric Massage because tantric hand relief follows on from the massage. Now if your Mistress/Therapist knows what she is doing when starting a tantric massage then she has complete control over your body, of the intensity that she wants to build you up to or slow you down. As I mentioned before you also need to control your mind as you also have the power to cum sooner if you want to.
Let her control your mind, body and soul is always best for you to have the full experience in the best possible way.
The tantric hand relief is never a rush job. It must always be a slow build-up to the point of tipping you over the edge but slowing you down just before you get there. I find it can only be done twice before the sensation disperses. Then it will be a very hard job to bring it back even if he wants it to.
A nice slow oily and slippery finish, touching every millimeter of his length and girth will give him an orgasm to remember, and will definitely be back for many more experiences.
The same for the females. T.L.C is always a must. All females are like a beautiful rose. The petals are fragile, so tend with care. Be aware if you don’t then the thornes will appear and she will show you a lesson that you will never forget. a painful one I can imagine.
I think the term ‘Wet Dreams’ comes from a teenage phase that we all have experienced. Waking up with a moistness in our underwear (if you wear any in bed that is) and trying to remember what we have dreamt about. Wow, the topic of dreaming is a completely separate blog that I will do another time. I have often woke up and felt good about myself in that way but I can not for the life of me remember what I dreamt. Which is very frustrating as from the naughtiness that am feeling I want to know why I am feeling this way. So for all you kinksters reading this, dreams that make you wet between your legs can be of anything, not just sex or oral. If can be about females in boots or bare feet in sandals. maybe something that is on your mind but out of your comfort zone as in activities out in a field. Absolutely anything. So just be sure to have a packet of wet wipes in your bedside cabinet just in case. As it could be anytime. Wet dreams are spontaneous and could catch you unaware.
The imagination is a very unforgiving part of our body. I say this because whatever we wish to think we can keep it to ourselves. It is also a very powerful muscle. I say muscle because it has the strength to physically make you cum without touching yourself. If you can think of a moment that you felt extremely aroused you then can turn yourself on and re-live it in your mind. Building up your emotions to the extent that the blood will rush to your sexual parts and you will either have a full liquid cum or feeling of cumming and not produce anything liquid. Both ways are as powerful as the other if not more. Another subject is denial. That can do all sorts to your mind and body and soul if you are deeply involved in it but that will be another blog. That’s an intense fetish for sure.
This is a very involved topic as it can be performed in many different ways. Not just angles but ways of bringing you to boiling point. This can be a very enjoyable time or if performed with too much force and not enough patience on a non-experienced person it could put them off for life.
I had an experience in my early years that nearly did put me off of all sexual activities for life. All I can say is I underestimated how excited he was and didn’t think he was going to put it there. I had no prior knowledge as he hadn’t mentioned it beforehand. The pain was nothing like I had experienced before. He injured me quite badly and going to the no.2 for 6months after was a painful healing process.
So to all you guys and gals that enjoy giving anal please talk about it with them before creeping up behind them. Be very sympathetic when doing it as I wouldn’t wish the pain I experienced on my worst enemy.
Your Own Fetish…
Now the last one is left to your own devices. Everyone has their own preferences. Whether it be a knee or armpit fetish or even consuming shavings off the bottom of your mistresses feet (yes I have done that one before aswell). Your own personal fetish takes you to a subspace that no other fetish can. A fetish grabs you by the short and curlies and will never let you go. You may have times when you forget about it. Then one day something may happen and it reminds you of it again. Then the stirring in the loins wakens up and then you can think of nothing else until you sort it out.
Well if you are still reading this and got to the conclusion then you are either sitting there with a very hard arousal and you need to sort it out soon or your eyes are out on stalks because your concentration has gone into overload or both. Either way, thank you very much for still being here and if you ever need a Mistress, Therapist, or both do please CONTACT ME and we then can converse about what your brain or Percy needs (or both).
Take care in all you do, stay safe, and talk soon…
Tuesday 29th December 2020
Over the past 11 years i have tried to sculpt myself into some one that i am now but i wasn’t when i started (if that makes sense).
When we all start a new thing we all want it to happen over night but unfortunately it doesn’t
I was watching YouTube today and the female on there was saying about how we compare ourselves to equally benefited or better people.
Seeing someone else that is in the same category as you but is either better looking or has better things than you can put you in a good or bad frame of mind.
I sat watching it and thinking to myself…I’m at last happy in my own skin.
It has taken me a bit over 11 years to accumulate the experience that i have and to gain the trust that i have in my regular clients.
Trust does not come easy and you earn it over time. That goes both ways.
As like knowing what you really want out of life and getting to a point in your world that you can say to yourself “Im happy with the way i look, the way i live and the friends i have around me.
We are living in a very messed up world right now and the pandemic is ruining a lot of businesses but for those who are finding it tough you should think of plan B to help you stay on the straight and narrow.
As they say ‘You shouldn’t keep all your eggs in one basket’…
So you may think i am doing a lot to my establishment at the moment but i am doing it for a reason. There are many things i will be changing and doing in 2021.
I am not stopping client visits but as they are far and few between at the moment because of the tier system/lockdowns etc i have to find other ways of bringing in the bill money.
So making my home a 100% photogenic will help in many ways. For videos as well as ideas for blogs etc
So watch this space and lets see what happens…