Sunday 10th October 2021
Well hello, sweetie…
It has been a while but I have been extremely busy all in all. I really can’t afford to be writing a new blog (time is of the essence) but I would like to let you know about the new additions to my Fetish Dungeon that maybe you can enjoy someday.
The reason I have bought these things and had them erected in my fetish photo studio Is that I want to place them on my shop on Lucy’s Fetish Closet website that I’m still working on.
It is so much fun finding amazing things to show you. A lot of stress and a lot of time is being spent doing all this homework but it will be worth it in the long run.
I have found anything from erotic biscuit cutters to chastity cages or even a full leather heavy-duty restriction bag with an attachable heavy-duty hood to match.
I found out it was better to have the hood that’s not attached to the main part of the sack as then it can be used with the different hoods if need be.
I have found I have become more of a perfectionist with this 2nd website than I have with this one. I know I have not designed this one and it was sculpted by a professional website designer (Thank you, Peter, much appreciated) but I have put a fair bit of content in it.
As it is with everyone, we have to start off at the bottom (excuse the pun), and as we get more confident and much more experienced we can if we wish go on and expand to big and better things.
Don’t worry I am not giving up this website, far from it. This is my early years of becoming a mistress. Without this website, I would not be what I am today.
I can’t believe it has been 14 years that I have been in this industry. As I say we all have to start somewhere and I am grateful for all the experiences I have gone through to get me here today.
One of the things I have learnt and that is patience. Woweee building a website and especially my own has proved that I don’t know when to be happy.
I have been advised to build it basic and then add on to it from there on. I just find more amazing things to ad on. I’m like a child in a candy shop.
As I mentioned earlier, I have become a perfectionist in more ways than one. I know I can not learn everything overnight but I want your experience to be fantastic and not disappointing.
Maybe you come across a small mistake that makes you think I have failed at producing a so-called fabulous website that everyone has waited so long to see.
Being a Lone Trader…
Doing everything on my own is tough. I have learnt many things in these months since I started putting my thoughts into a project but having to trust someone with all the work I have done would be heart-wrenching.
I know I have to someday, otherwise I am going to live a shorter quality of life with many grey hairs (i can see more appearing day by day lol).
That’s business and if we want to be our own boss then we all have to go through it.
I was speaking with a friend the other day and he was telling me about the same worries he had. His were on a much larger scale but still in the same context.
Having to give up a very successful business through no fault of his own. Contracts falling through because of the economy changing.
Then his workers not being satisfied even when he was practically giving them the shirt off his back. In the end, he decided to give it all up and work alone.
Being the only one in your company has its benefits and disadvantages.
Benefits – You can work when you want and do what you want.
Disadvantages – Saying no to clients is difficult in some trades. In the back of your mind, you don’t know when the next job is going to be with you.
Although now it’s catch 22 for my friend. As he is so particular and perfect in the way he does things he has become very popular.
Word and mouth have spread and everyone wants him. It’s great to be in demand but only to a certain level.
There is only a certain amount of hours in the day. Only a certain amount of appointments he can take in 1 day.
Now it has got enough work to cover him for 7 days a week, 24 hours a day for the next 3 months.
Conundrum… Does he take on help or not? That is the question.
I can totally understand what he was saying to me because if I’m not careful I could be in the same situation.
Being self-employed is very tough sometimes. What I am is slightly different. Although if i took everyone that contacted me for an appointment I would be similar.
Lockdown and the past couple of years have made me think as it has done with most of us. As I take actual appointments I need to have multiple streams of income and not rely on meeting appointments.
Don’t get me wrong I do enjoy sharing my skill and enjoyment with all of you but the pandemic has really tarnished it.
Before all this pandemic situation started I was not apprehensive of meeting new clients. Now it’s like I have to ask a string of questions even before I think about inviting anyone to visit me. It’s a must and unfortunately not my fault.
So as you see, my absence on social media has been me sitting around doing nothing as some people tend to think and have mentioned.
It’s been far from it. I have a list of things to do around the house and in the garden etc that I really want to do (D.I.Y is my hobby) but I don’t have the time.
If I do, then the website sits waiting for another day. Trust me I annoy myself. I am more excited to get it launched than anyone on this planet.
As I know what I want to achieve and I know I can do it, I want it launched yesterday. Until it is at a standard that is flowing I will not launch it.
Now I know why e-commerce websites are so expensive to build with professional website developers. Then it is the basics that they give you.
As then I have to have my personal touch to make me mine.
So what you see on this website has been at least 4 or more years of work. Not constant just bits and pieces here and there but it has still taken time.
Mmmmm maybe I will become a website developer once I get over the tribulations of building Lucys Fetish Closet.
There are no links to it at the moment until it is launched. Then don’t you worry everyone will know about it.
Then I will be blogging about how I’m getting only 2 hours of sleep a night because I’m on social media 24/7 lol sod’s law isn’t it.
Well, I think I have gone on enough now with my life update and need to get back to web designing.
Take care sweetie. Stay safe and healthy and talk soon…
Tuesday 25th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.87.
Sorry I did not upload a Daily Blog last night as I had problems with my login details but luckily I only had to wait 24 hours till I was rectified.
Back in the day when I ran a barbers shop in town , if I had known about the fetish world back then like I do now the shop would of been so much more different than it was.
If i had a barbers shop myself i would call it ‘Fethair’. Sounds a little French but I like it.
I would call it that because ‘Fetish Hairdressing’ it wouldnt go down to well. So to abreivate is better on the eye.
I would have fetish days of outfits.
Me and my staff would wear PVC on day then Latex the next ect…
You would feel comfortable to wear your silky panties and stockings under your alpha male trousers without anyone batting an eyelid.
May be even your matching bra set you have always wanted to wera to a barbers but nervous that some one will out you by noticing.
Sissy sets would have a room out the back so you can bring out your inner sissy for all the other sissys to admire.
I would do a haircut and a foot rub in a package price. I would name the package the ‘foot lovers haircut’. A haircut for the client and the client would I’ve the hairdresser/barberette a foot massage.
Another package would be ‘Short hair package’. Haircut for the client and the client would give a head massage to the hairdresser/babarrette.
Everything goes in my salon but desretion is the name of the game.
As we ive in an unexcepting world unfortunately. The Vanilla public accept what they want to and anything that is different they think is nasty or weird.
Little to do they know that they are missing out on alot of fun.
I would decorate my kinky kingdom in a way that anyone that was in to the fetish world would so know where i was coming from from would be rgular barbers for the vanilla clients.
It would be fun to see how many vanilla clients i could get to tell me their hidden kinks lol
I wouldnt set up a place like this unless i had the right staff with the same like mind and obviously they have a very high standard of hairdressing and barbering skills .
In my eyes it would take along time to arrange my ‘Dream Salon’.
Every angle of the shop would be photogenic. I would love to be able to do sessions in there buy then on a high street or in the public eye (even with blinds down ) it would be far to risky.
What i have at the moment is very pleasurable for my appointments so thats all good…
Saturday 15th February 2020
Daily Blog NO. 77.
Punishment hurts in so many different ways, you are having it performed on you because you have done something wrong.
Many like to have this one to them to give them pain because it’s their fetish, kink, turn on.
The punishment all depends on the wrongdoing they have done. We are not talking about crime but a milder version. Although if people that had done something drastically wrong came to a mistress and not wasted taxpayers’ money by going to court etc it would teach a lot of people not to do it again.
The punishment, in that case, would be bounded and gaged corporal punishment to the highest level on whatever part of the body that committed the crime.
For example, rapists then 500 thrashes on their member of the hardest strokes, Stealing then (depending on the offense) 50 to 1000 strokes to the palms of both the hands. Injury by kicking, 200 or more thrashes to the soles of the feet.
You may think that the rapist should get more thrashes but if you have ever been thrashed or hit on the member then you know even 10 thrashes is painful enough.
The punishment is worse when the individual is tied up and restricted, which they should be as I can imagine that they wouldn’t want this to happen to them on this level even in a kinky session.
The choice is a prison sentence or a trashing of excruciating pain for 30 minutes plus on the body part that did the crime.
The person who will perform the punishment will be the person (or a close relative of the person if death or disablement takes place) who had the crime committed on or against them.
Brutal but justifyingly satisfying I think.
Pain, as I have mentioned before in a previous blog, can be satisfying if you come to a mistress for pleasurable BDSM etc…
I have asked many of my extreme clients why they like the pain to such an extreme level They have replied, to bring back memories and to help them go deep into their subspace where extreme pain can only take them…
If you would like a role-play scenario then contact me and we can converse more on the subject.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…
Daily Blog Extra
Firstly thank you for taking the time to look at this Daily Blog Extra of my website.
I have been in fetish photography for some time but only recently decided to take that next step and look for something a bit different and unique.
So if you are or know of anyone that is 4 ft and under in height then please contact me and we can converse more on the topic.
I am looking for mild to extreme topics but only fetishes that you are comfortable with. Everything is done with your concent and it is a collaboration between you and me.
It can be a one on one meeting or it can involve other like-minded people or the same as.
I am totally open-minded and your happiness is my top priority.
Any other types of individuals that I am looking for I will add to this section but if you think you are of a different nature then do contact me and I will see what I am looking for at that particular time.
I am not looking to do pornographic photo or video shoots but fetish shoots that are specific niche orientated.
This is not a get rich quick arrangement but it can help your business in the long run.
So contact me and I will look forward to hearing from you…
Thursday 19th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.19.
Whatever your fetish might be it is always unique to you. Starting your journey to introduce your personal fetish to another human being is a big step.
You may not be interested in the other things we talk about but I have planted the seed that you will never forget.
You may dismiss it and think you’re not interested in that particular subject but over time you will carry on in your everyday life and something will come up in conversation at some point that will remind you of what we have conversed about.
It plays with your mind like a catchy tune of an annoying advert.
You can’t stop thinking about me for whatever reason you feel that you are attracted to me.
Even now there was something that drew you to my website. My boyish looks or my dominating stature. Whatever it is you won’t forget about me.
Maybe in a week, month or year or more you will return to take another look at my intriguing persona that only I can perform at its best.
I am unique in every way, I have done that on purpose.
No one else can give you what you want because I am the only one that can give you it the Mistress Lucy way…….
I will look forward to receiving your messages. You will contact me.….I know you will because you have read all the way through this blog to the last line of my content.
I’m waiting for you……