Monday 20th December 2021
Blog No.158/ Blogmas No.20
Everyone that has a beating heart has the means to accommodate this fetish. We all have different colours of it and it has a valued purpose to every one of us. Some of us lose it through illness, stress, or skin complaint, and others get rid of it because they hate it.
Have You Realized What iI Is Yet?
Yes, you guessed it… Body Hair. Hair is Loved in so many different ways that it can cause all sort of emotions in individuals.
What Type Of Hair?
Hair in general comes in so many different forms that when on different parts of the body it sets off many emotions. Hair can be on the head, facial hair (men or women), Body hair (as in all over the body in a lite form on women or men) forearm hair armpit hair, pubic hair leg hair, toe hair. It doesn’t matter where the hair is there will always be someone somewhere that will love your hair.
Why Does It Arouse Us?
Attraction is in the eye of the beholder. It all steams done to how we were brought up as a child. If you were used to seeing your family members with natural hair then you will accept hair in all its integrity. If your mother was again hair on women or untidy hair on men then you will grow up absorbing these ways.
Hair around the world…
In many parts of the world, the cultures are all for nature’s way regarding body har on both sexes. They may not have the means to shave or wax and so the hair grows freely. So women may grow better chest hair or beards than men or vice versa but even still it is accepted.
Why Do We Have Body Hair?
Hair is strategically placed on our bodies when the animal was created in the year dot. Animals over time have kept their hair but as the human being has evolved we have naturally reduced the amount of hair to be acceptable in many ways. Some of the individuals of the female species have chosen to remove their armpit, pubic, and leg hair to be more attractive to the opposite sex…but is that proven to be attractive to the opposite sex? That is the question. The real reason hair is placed on our body is to protect certain areas as a hygiene barrier.
Overtime man has developed a fascination for the female hair pattern on various parts of her anatomy. The attraction is down to individual fantasy. Whether it is above board and in a visual type of way. By stroking the hair on her head or is it in a sexual desire to taste or feel the hair on his face. Either way, he has a Trichophilia fetish and he has it bad.
Hair Fascination Can Be Addictive…
Depending on what type of hair fetish you have it can control your imagination to an extent that you look at everyone you meet in your everyday life. You may have been attracted to your partner because of the hairstyle or body hair. Keeping your fetish alive can be testing at times especially if your partner has had a change of heart and decided to shave or cut it off to remodel her/himself. At that point you need to look elsewhere to get your fix.
Mistress Lucy’s Hair…
Over the years I have always kept my hairstyles natural or coloured, short or shaven. As I have grown older I have found that a shaved style does not suit me as well as when I was slim and younger. So i am going into phase 2 of my career and I am growing it longer. How long is a different matter, I’m not sure.
My subs and slaves seem to be a fan of the longer look with all the creations of my wigs and hairpieces that i put together in my many alter egos.
Shall Mistress Grow her hair…or not?
I did manage to grow my hair before I came to Northampton back in 1999. I grew it for my wedding. I did not feel like me. As I felt it had to be in a long hairstyle for the style of the dress. I loved the dress, off-the-shoulder, big long skirt with a bustle at the bottom of the spine. Absolutely beautiful. Size 8/10 I managed to get down to (but that was through stress. I wanted the day but
I was not happy with the guy. That’s another story for another time). Made from brush silk. When I think back I wish I had had it the way I wanted it but I did not have the persona that I have now. A lot has changed since then. It did not last. Hence the move to Northampton in the year 2000.
So I would like to grow my hair again but without hair colour. I think being able to set it and put it up in all different ways would be fun. I also could get my hairdressing kinksters to have a better time in session than they are already. I could be their model by washing, blowdrying, setting, perming ( water as a makeshift perm lotion and neutralizer) Colouring ( using conditioner as a makeshift colour). I have hair long enough to do this now.
If you have a hair fetish of any kind (only head and body hair, NOT pubic hair) then CONTACT ME and we can discuss your requirements.
Sunday 8th March 2020
Daily Blog No.99.
Since I have decided to shave my head a lot of different questions have come into my thoughts. One of them is ‘Does Hair Give You Confidence?’
You have heard a lot about me and my experiences in my hairstyles recently because it is something I am passionate about.
It has been and is my trade for the past 30 years and when something is in your system then that is what rules your life.
Going back to the question in the title of this blog…Hair is just a sign of whether your health or not.
As we get older all of us have hair thinning troubles but that doesn’t mean we are unhealthy it just our hair pattern as we get older.
The hair that we still have grows at a good rate depending on what we eat and what country we live in.
I say this because like plants we need to have food, water and sun. Other countries have longer and warm hours of sun than we do in England (where I am based) which means everything grows better there.
To consume a healthy plan of food is not always the case of a plant based plan and only that. We all need a treat every now and again and unfortunately tasty treats are not always the healthiest.
So when a plant is feed the right amount of nutrients, watered correctly and is kissed the right amount of times by the sun it grows its absolute best way it knows how to.
When it comes to humans if we have deficiencies and neglect ourselves then our hair will grow but not so fast and not as healthy.
So when we ask ourselves the second question that steams from the first question ‘Where does our confidence come from?’ the answer is definitely not all due to our hair.
Confidence comes from within not from your hairstyle. As you can see I have shaved my hair off (well its growing back a bit now but I would do it again any day) and I am still confident in all I do.
This blog could go on forever and a day as it is something else that I am passionate about together with hairdressing.
I may make a E-book about my lack of confidence experiences because it has been a 10 year or longer recovery phase that I have been through.
I would love to share it with you and help anyone that needs a boost of confidence ect to build your self love up like I love life right now.
If you would like to contact me about anything at all then I would love to hear from you…