Friday 24th December 2021
Blog No.162/ Blogmas No.24
Wowee Who would have thought that December could have passed so quickly. I must admit it has been difficult to fit the daily blogmas and my website work on the same day but I got there, well nearly there. As we still have today and tomorrow of Blogmas and then 6 days of December from then on. I will see about 2 blogs a week from January onwards. Random subjects but will still be interesting.
Now I know I have mentioned that other letters are difficult to find a fetish for but this is really difficult as nothing came up when I googled it. So all can think of is X-Rated.
X-rated is, as we all know not for under 18 years olds but I think and I know you think that kids know a lot more than we let on. I’m not going to go on like that as I will show my age but times have changed.
What Is Classed As X-Rated?…
Laws these days are good for one and not for another. it’s the same as when adult websites will not allow BDSM photographs but they will allow females with all showing all their wares on non-login websites. This means underage kids can look at it all Crazy but it will still get through the rules in one way or another.
Different Opinions As To What Is Explicit And What Is Normal…
As I am in the industry I feel that BDSM and naked male bodies are normal to me (I have a different normal to everyone else) but to someone that is a regular lifestyle and X-rated viewing is a luxury at weekends maybe would think it is not normal. I do not mix with females in my line of sessions. There are more guys that are interested in seeking a mistress to session with than females. Then when they do contact me I am very wary and give them a lot more questions to reply to than I would a guy.
On this point, I would mention to contact me and we can converse about your fetish but I don’t take part in anything that you would call X-rated. If it is along the line of BDSM or anything on my likes list then do CONTACT ME and yes we can converse about it.
I will look forward to any one of you that abides by what I have requested and hear from you soon…
Friday 3rd December 2021
Blog No.141/ Blogmas No.3
Corporal Punishment sounds quite aggressive and yes it is when it is given in the way it should be many years ago. These days it is very much a niche that people enjoy when it is given within their pain thresh hold limitations.
Trust In Your Mistress/Master…
Having trust in the person that is administering the CP is very much a top priority.
If a Mistress/Master is dishing out the punishment they need to know what your pain level is.
The Mistress/Master has to remember that you have come to them for pleasure (even if it is painful).
If they don’t administer the correct level that you are happy with you will not come back.
So to show genuine skills as a Mistress/Master it is vital so that they are respected in the highest form.
Having the right surroundings is not always necessary depending on the scenario that is needed to take you to your fantasy/subspace.
Hoods and Masks…
Sometimes you may prefer to be hooded or masked for visual deprivation. So the surroundings do not matter but it helps to intensify the atmosphere of what you may observe before you are hooded.
The only emotions that you will feel are hearing and adrenaline.
The sounds of the Mistress/Master going through their cupboards to see what to use for your next
stage of punishment will raise their temperature to a level that will heat your entire body.
Adrenaline is a very arousing feeling. Waiting in anticipation of what painful or pleasurable thing you will next encounter.
Keeping you on your toes in your imagination is most important. If the intensity cools off this could ruin or even stop the whole experience.
So if you are a lover of Corporal Punishment that would be administered by a highly skilled mistress contact me and we can talk further about your requirements.
Take care in all you do, stay safe, and talk soon in the next blog.
Saturday 1st February 2020
Daily Blog NO.63.
I am very sorry to all the nice, well mannered and respectful clients I already have who will read this but this needs to be addressed as its getting out of hand.
My website and profiles that I advertise on have the top priority information that you need to know at the beginning of all adverts.
So why ask the questions when the information is clearly there in front of your eyes.
I recently have been getting a lot of response to my blogs (which is great) from all types of people (i am unable to call them clients as they are not worthy of such a title) and unfortunately, they have been very unsavoury indeed (i have to take the rough with the smooth, I understand that).
They have been asking for services that everyone else offers (including personal services which is absolutely clear that I do not offer) and expecting me to perform them the way everyone else does…I don’t.
I perform them the unique Mistress Lucy way that I am comfortable with.
I like to have a unique twist to everything I do in my sessions. I do not take my clothes off in any way shape or form. Clients are more likely to ask me to dress up in certain outfits which will give the ambience of the role-play a better flow.
- If you think that facesitting is oral…think again, it’s not.
- If you think sploshing is food sex and groping each other…think again, it’s not.
- If you think that toilet training is receiving directly from me and I expose my body parts to you…think again, it’s not.
- If you would like to see me wearing stockings…you can but you can only see between my knee and my foot as I will not raise my skirt for anyone.
- If you would like to see me in a basque…you may see me in a corset (over the top clothing as a basque is known as underwear) with a skirt or trousers but not a corset only.
Basically, if you want to see a mistress walk around scantily clad then DO NOT contact me as I am not the mistress for you.
A modern-day mistress will be willing to do anything clothed or unclothed. An old schoolmistress requires respect and admiration and will never undress or show her lady parts in any nature to anyone.
She is a lady to be put on a pedal stool that you look up to and worship in the manner she is used to.
So do not take my nice naturally friendly manner for a soft touch. I will not have anyone try to pull the wool over my eyes.
Just as you think you have one over on me I will, out of the blue come back with such an unexpected response your regret you ever thought of me as a silly little fragile female.
I have been in this business for long enough to know how to handle every type of client, greeting and response.
I have developed very thick skin over the years so nothing will offend or upset me. You are more than likely going to get offended or upset more than me.
Your choice… you’ve been warned.
Do not forget what I have told you as if you do disrespect me in any way you will lose out on ever meeting me or get severally punished for your bad manners without you knowing it.
So when looking at the content of my online whereabouts, think before contacting me.
Take into consideration these points:
- Are you in my prefered age category?
- Be respectful in the manner that you greet and converse with me. I am not your babe, darling or hun. Its Mistress or Lucy depending on the reason you are contacting me.
- Think about what you would like to experience when or if you are allowed to visit me.
So hopefully this blog has helped all those disrespectful young boys or older guys that are old enough to know better.
I will carry on blocking anyone that goes against my rules. I am comfortable with the number of regular clients I have so don’t think that I need to take every client that contacts me.
I only agree to well mannered and respectful clients to visit me at my home.
So if you are in the category of well mannered and respectful gents that are over the age of 35 years old then I will be happy for you to contact me.
http://www.onlyfans.com/mistresslucylew – For more risky videos and photography that are not allowed on here.
I never ask for anything but if a client would like to buy me something in gratitude then that is always accepted graciously. When its not expected at all it is a lovely surprise.
I had a email enquiry from a client asking about bdsm (as they do). He was very polite and courteous with his manner which is very appealing on the first contact to a mistress. He continued to tell me about what he had experienced and what he would like to experience if he was allowed to visit me which is always a plus with me as it saves me asking questions in my reply.
Over a few days we exchanged emails til I felt that he was serious about taking the 2 hour journey to come to visit me. We then had a lovely short but brief conversation to clarify a few things so i could put a voice to a name. I knew from the first email that we would get along and have some mutual bdsm fun when we met.
When the time came to meet I could tell he was going to be more nervous than me so I greeted him with a warm smile to make him feel welcome. I am a serious mistress but I do have a heart. I can be a bitch when I need to be and polite, down to earth lady when i want to be to.
The 3 hours pasted very quickly and at the end when he was about to leave he said “I’ve really enjoyed my time with you. I wanted to bring you a gift but I needed to know you were genuine” I laughed but I knew what he meant.
There are many mistresses out there that are fake and only polite for business and that’s where I am different. I will only invite clients into my home if I have a genuine connection and in return I am a very down to earth and genuine person.
So he continued “I have something in the car for you. Is it ok if I go and get it?” He asked. “Oh Wow” i said “yes of cause you can. Well he came back with this massive shopping bag of goodies.
As you can see from the above photo above
what he produced out of his bag. Everything brand new and in the packaging still.
He said that he had bought it 6 months ago and never used it for the occasion (I didn’t ask what the occasion was out of politeness) but in return I thanked him graciously. He said” these are for you as a gift my mistress. Thank you for being you”.
Well he really did take me by surprise but a pleasant one at that. A gentleman and a sub in one.
When a client finds a mistress that he adores it is very rare indeed. It takes a lot of searching and sometimes many appointments to find that connection. I had a call from a particular admirer one day last year. He sounded a very polite gentleman and very courteous in his conversation. I did not need to ask his age and nationality as I could tell from his accent and the way he conversed with me.
I have learnt over the years to understand the different types of clients that contact me and people I would not class as a client as they are clearly requesting what I do not and will not entertain.
I have seen Mr Man (as I will call him to hide his identity) several times now and on every occasion that we have met he has kept up with the polite admiration that he first contacted me with.
I never ask or demand for tribute gifts but each time he has visited me he has never come empty handed. Whether it be the finest Leather gloves, boots or lunch it has always been a pleasant surprise.
He always first asks what I would like as a gift. As I am polite I guide him to my amazon wish list I have which has various gifts of different prices (as I don’t know what budget anyone has that is what I always do).
A lady always like to be treat with appreciation and Mr Man definitely does that.
I have many admirers that do the same thing but Mr Man is definitely a gentleman in his own right.
So if you want to stay in my good books get you thinking caps on………..