28 Dec 2021
December 28, 2021
Monday 27th December 2021
This blog will resonate with everyone as everyone has the urge in one or another. The question is which way is the best way?
There is no best way as we are all unique and different In our own way.
How many ways are there to have the feel-good factor?
Well, there are 8 ways to find the feel-good factor. Some you may be unaware of and some maybe new to you. Either way do try them out if you can as they are very toe-curling.
If there is anything that I have left out by all means let me know. I may learn something from you.
Tantric Massage ( this is far different from regular hand relief)
Imagination – Talking about erotic experiences etc or sitting and thinking about naughty things
Anal – prostate massage
Your own Fetish
I will explain what I mean about certain ways of ejaculation and then it may open your mind or it may be something you know about already.
This is an obvious one that we all know about or if you don’t you shouldn’t be on my website. It is the man and woman expressing their feeling for each other in a physical way. Whether you’re in a relationship, one-night stand, or arrangement. Either way, it should always be of the consent of 2 people.
This way may not be for everyone and if not…why the hell not? To some, they think it is an unhygienic form of pleasure but when performed correctly and you have the trust of that person is absolutely cosmic.
It is a very old way to pleasure each other. As they say, “How did we eat food before knives and forks were invented?” This is exactly the same thing. Before toys and sexual aids, it was only what we were born with that we can use to pass the time of a spare moment.
When it comes to the technique I’m not experienced in that field due to my celibacy for many years but when I did and with the right person I enjoyed it many a time.
I will say this now because I’m sure many of you reading this will have the urge to ask for this from me. Please don’t as I will only decline your request and become very offended. As you should know that I am an old-school non-sexual mistress from reading my likes list on my fetish page. If I would like to offer that type of thing then it would be on there but it is not. I am celibate because I choose to be.
All I can say is… be slow and gentle with your partner. If you are doing anything wrong then they will tell you and guide you. Do not be offended if the person you are with does not like what you’re doing. We are all different and like to be treated in our own personal ways. Learning is the art of the game and practice is the fun part.
This is a world that you never turn back from. A massage is only Tantric when the person who is receiving it has a connection with the person performing it. I say this because if the receiver is not feeling aroused from the moment he/she lays on the massage table then the massage becomes a Swedish massage.
From the first touch, the connection between you both should be sexual in a way that it sends vibrations through your whole body and arouses parts that will eventually harden and make you uncomfortable to lay on your front.
The warmth will of her hands enlighten your whole being. Now at this time, your imagination will come into play. You will have to control your willpower from cummin too soon. It is always best to finish at the end so you are at your peak of arousal. No one likes to finish early. Especially if you are enjoying yourself.
The only way to control your flow is by think of something to calm you down EG: your mother-in-law or something that will turn you off. Then once you have calmed down to a point that you don’t want to touch her. You then know that you can build yourself up in your imagination again.
Although by then you will be handcuffed to the bench/bed so you won’t have the option to touch her (well in Mistress Lucy’s company that will be the way).
I didn’t finish the last section on Tantric Massage because tantric hand relief follows on from the massage. Now if your Mistress/Therapist knows what she is doing when starting a tantric massage then she has complete control over your body, of the intensity that she wants to build you up to or slow you down. As I mentioned before you also need to control your mind as you also have the power to cum sooner if you want to.
Let her control your mind, body and soul is always best for you to have the full experience in the best possible way.
The tantric hand relief is never a rush job. It must always be a slow build-up to the point of tipping you over the edge but slowing you down just before you get there. I find it can only be done twice before the sensation disperses. Then it will be a very hard job to bring it back even if he wants it to.
A nice slow oily and slippery finish, touching every millimeter of his length and girth will give him an orgasm to remember, and will definitely be back for many more experiences.
The same for the females. T.L.C is always a must. All females are like a beautiful rose. The petals are fragile, so tend with care. Be aware if you don’t then the thornes will appear and she will show you a lesson that you will never forget. a painful one I can imagine.
I think the term ‘Wet Dreams’ comes from a teenage phase that we all have experienced. Waking up with a moistness in our underwear (if you wear any in bed that is) and trying to remember what we have dreamt about. Wow, the topic of dreaming is a completely separate blog that I will do another time. I have often woke up and felt good about myself in that way but I can not for the life of me remember what I dreamt. Which is very frustrating as from the naughtiness that am feeling I want to know why I am feeling this way. So for all you kinksters reading this, dreams that make you wet between your legs can be of anything, not just sex or oral. If can be about females in boots or bare feet in sandals. maybe something that is on your mind but out of your comfort zone as in activities out in a field. Absolutely anything. So just be sure to have a packet of wet wipes in your bedside cabinet just in case. As it could be anytime. Wet dreams are spontaneous and could catch you unaware.
The imagination is a very unforgiving part of our body. I say this because whatever we wish to think we can keep it to ourselves. It is also a very powerful muscle. I say muscle because it has the strength to physically make you cum without touching yourself. If you can think of a moment that you felt extremely aroused you then can turn yourself on and re-live it in your mind. Building up your emotions to the extent that the blood will rush to your sexual parts and you will either have a full liquid cum or feeling of cumming and not produce anything liquid. Both ways are as powerful as the other if not more. Another subject is denial. That can do all sorts to your mind and body and soul if you are deeply involved in it but that will be another blog. That’s an intense fetish for sure.
This is a very involved topic as it can be performed in many different ways. Not just angles but ways of bringing you to boiling point. This can be a very enjoyable time or if performed with too much force and not enough patience on a non-experienced person it could put them off for life.
I had an experience in my early years that nearly did put me off of all sexual activities for life. All I can say is I underestimated how excited he was and didn’t think he was going to put it there. I had no prior knowledge as he hadn’t mentioned it beforehand. The pain was nothing like I had experienced before. He injured me quite badly and going to the no.2 for 6months after was a painful healing process.
So to all you guys and gals that enjoy giving anal please talk about it with them before creeping up behind them. Be very sympathetic when doing it as I wouldn’t wish the pain I experienced on my worst enemy.
Your Own Fetish…
Now the last one is left to your own devices. Everyone has their own preferences. Whether it be a knee or armpit fetish or even consuming shavings off the bottom of your mistresses feet (yes I have done that one before aswell). Your own personal fetish takes you to a subspace that no other fetish can. A fetish grabs you by the short and curlies and will never let you go. You may have times when you forget about it. Then one day something may happen and it reminds you of it again. Then the stirring in the loins wakens up and then you can think of nothing else until you sort it out.
Well if you are still reading this and got to the conclusion then you are either sitting there with a very hard arousal and you need to sort it out soon or your eyes are out on stalks because your concentration has gone into overload or both. Either way, thank you very much for still being here and if you ever need a Mistress, Therapist, or both do please CONTACT ME and we then can converse about what your brain or Percy needs (or both).
Take care in all you do, stay safe, and talk soon…
26 Dec 2021
December 26, 2021
Sunday 26th December 2021
Blog No.164/ Blogmas No.26
Can you believe it is all over and done with, Christmas I mean… These 26 days of blogmas have gone by so very quickly. It has been fun and we are all that little bit more knowledgeable on certain subjects. Well, today’s fetish is, as you see from the title Zelophia. It was a baffling one for me as in many cases I don’t like to be this fetish. It depends on the circumstances are I suppose.
What Is Zelophia?
It is when you are jealous and love the feeling. As I say a strange one but there are kinksters that like that feeling.
It mixes in well with voyeurism. As if you are observing your partner with another person then that could be exciting in many different ways. You could be jealous of the way that he touches her/him. The way he gives her/him oral. They may react completely differently to the new play partner than they react when your alone together. Introducing new play partners into the relationship can spice it up a bit. The one thing that is a fine line between fun and reality is if she/he prefers the new partner.
Like voyeurism, a 3-way can bring jealousy into the situation as well as other emotions. This is why having a 3-way is probably better to have it with 2 people that are out of the relationship. Then your relationship partner will not get jealous. Women do not like getting jealous of their other partners in that way. It can play havoc with everything and then when you plant that seed in the brain it never goes away. Instead of just keeping warm and then disappearing it grows on thoughts and in the imagination.
I Don’t Get Jealous…
I used to be very jealous in my younger years when I was immature and didn’t know much about the worldly things of life
I’m a Scorpio and they are known to be very persuasive and controlling. Well, I am one of those things which makes me a very good mistress.
Over the later years of my life, I have developed a way of thinking that changes everything and helps me to stay on an even kile to carry on everyday life even if I have a matter that is bothering me.
When I was in a relationship I would say to myself “As long as he doesn’t bring any STDs back to me and treats me right when we are together then I’m not worried about what he does when he is away from me. If he falls in love with someone else or chooses to walk away, it’s his loss. There is only one of me. Sooner or later he will realize that he misses me but you can’t undo what’s been done.”
If he thinks of me that way then ok but if not the life goes on. We are all here on this earth to look after ourselves. We are in control of what we do, how we do it, and who we do it with. We may meet people along the way that may think they can control us and change our mindset but when you realize that it is wrong or right you will take the pathway that you are comfortable with.
This was a difficult fetish to write about at first but then when I started to type it was easier to put together than I thought. Sometimes mentioning past experiences may help someone that is going through a troubled time when they come across my website.
They may be looking for something to fill the gap in their life that they are lacking in. Many a time when you come to see me or even just have a therapy session on the phone it can help you fulfill that fantasy/gap that has been trapped in your mind for a long time. Trust and enjoyment go hand in hand when finding the right mistress.
I’m not going to make this too deep in thought but I am a therapist of many subjects and if we have come to a crossroads in life that we feel we don’t know what way to turn reading someone else experiences and mindset could help you make your mind up sooner than you thought.
If this resonates with you then i would like to hear from you. CONTACT ME and we then can converse about your requirements and how we will sort out whatever it is that you are needing.
Just to make you aware…
If you are new to my website please look at my FETISHES PAGE < (click here) first before you ask for what you are looking for. I AM NOT AN ESCORT. So please do not ask for anything to do with personal services.
If you abide by my rules and are respectful towards me then I will be able to help you with what I can.
What The Future Holds For The Mistress Lucy Blogs…
I have mentioned this in a few blogs this month but for all that have not managed to read them, let alone the 163 other blogs apart from this one ( you don’t know what your missing, good toilet or bedtime reading lol) then I will recap.
I will continue to do a blog for the rest of this month ( 6 days) Then January onwards, I will put together 2 blogs a week of random subjects.
It could be what I have experienced in sessions ( identities will be covered in photography when needed and names will be changed for obvious reasons). Maybe topics that I feel are relevant to fetishes of general.
Even topics to help us understand our bodies better. We take our bodies for granted on many occasions and expect what we want at that time, that hole will consume that toy and don’t know why it won’t or expect us to want to do a certain thing to a certain person but when it is about to happen we just can’t do it due to morals, trust or its just plain disgusting to us.
This is a non-login website so I will have to judge the subject and PG it when I need to if you know what I mean.
Well, I think I have covered enough for today ( i love blogging for you and I could carry on with much more information. Perhaps I should write a book of my memoirs).
So take care in all you do. It looks like we are heading for rocking January unfortunately so look after yourself and I will talk with you again tomorrow…