22 Jul 2021
July 22, 2021

Are You Confident In Your Fetish Life?

Thursday 22nd July 2021

Blog No. 137.
This may seem like a very direct question but it is a question that a lot of people lack confidence in this subject.
They keep it secret for their own personal reason but doing this could make you lose out on fun times with your partner.

Confidence is a necessary thing to have in all you do. I say this because if you are not happy in general with your partner then they could lose interest in your relationship.

I have been mistressing for 14 years (time flies when you’re having fun) and throughout that time I have learnt a lot about relationships.

How so many guys are secretly visiting a mistress to fulfill their fantasies because they’re frightened to ask their partner to act out the fantasy in their intimate times.

Putting your partner on a pedestal can sometimes fog over your true feelings for certain fetish topics. As you don’t want them to think of you any differently that may hinder your home life.

Being a dominatrix mistress has opened up my mind in so many ways and one of them is listening to guy’s problems that they have at home.

I don’t pry but ask questions that helps me get to know why they like certain fetishes.

A lot of the time I believe that if they were to approach the subject of their fantasy to their partner in a certain way then eventually they would have a better relationship at home.

Many say that they are very happy with their wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend but if they were happy then why are they contacting me…

When a new client looks at my website they will think that an Old School Mistress like myself would only be handcuffs and caning in sessions.

My sessions are not always hardcore and toys. I am a mistress with a difference.

Through the years I have been classed as a unique mistress because of the services I incorporate in my sessions or can do depending on what the client requires.

To have a near on perfect session I always like to chat with you to start with. The reason being, so I can understand why they like a certain fetish and where the reason stems from.

Call this therapy if you wish but it is not only chatting on a settee but the appointment has a physical side to it as well.

I show you mentally and physically how you can connect deeper with your partner in ways that you may not have thought of before.

Don’t misunderstand me by thinking I will get physical with you in a sexual way. That is not what I mean as I am not that kind of mistress.

The way I connect with you is helping you become more confident in how to make your partner feel more attracted to you. How to open her mind up to accepting your fetish.

It will not be instant but over time it will happen. Be patient and you will be able to reap your reward.

I understand that not every relationship is a physical one but a bit of intimacy in or out of the bedroom towards each other will always make you smile and love your partner more than life itself.

So if you are in need of a confidence booster in whatever way you feel EG: Submissive or Dominant, Mindful or Physical then let me know by messaging me on my CONTACT PAGE and we can discuss the subject a bit more.

Whether it’s a phone session or you would like to visit me, either way, I would be glad to converse with you via email, text, and then call.

Stay safe and healthy and hope to hear from you soon…




15 Feb 2020
February 15, 2020

Why Does Punishment Hurt So Much…

Saturday 15th February 2020

Daily Blog NO. 77.
Punishment hurts in so many different ways, you are having it performed on you because you have done something wrong.
Many like to have this one to them to give them pain because it’s their fetish, kink, turn on.

The punishment all depends on the wrongdoing they have done. We are not talking about crime but a milder version. Although if people that had done something drastically wrong came to a mistress and not wasted taxpayers’ money by going to court etc it would teach a lot of people not to do it again.

The punishment, in that case, would be bounded and gaged corporal punishment to the highest level on whatever part of the body that committed the crime.

Your Choice…

For example, rapists then 500 thrashes on their member of the hardest strokes, Stealing then (depending on the offense) 50 to 1000 strokes to the palms of both the hands. Injury by kicking, 200 or more thrashes to the soles of the feet.

You may think that the rapist should get more thrashes but if you have ever been thrashed or hit on the member then you know even 10 thrashes is painful enough.

The punishment is worse when the individual is tied up and restricted, which they should be as I can imagine that they wouldn’t want this to happen to them on this level even in a kinky session.

The choice is a prison sentence or a trashing of excruciating pain for 30 minutes plus on the body part that did the crime.

The person who will perform the punishment will be the person (or a close relative of the person if death or disablement takes place) who had the crime committed on or against them.

Brutal but justifyingly satisfying I think.

Pain, as I have mentioned before in a previous blog, can be satisfying if you come to a mistress for pleasurable BDSM etc…

I have asked many of my extreme clients why they like the pain to such an extreme level  They have replied, to bring back memories and to help them go deep into their subspace where extreme pain can only take them…

If you would like a role-play scenario then contact me and we can converse more on the subject.

I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…



20 Jan 2020
January 20, 2020

Online Or Reality?…

Monday 20th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.51.
When you have been thinking about a fantasy for a while It gets to a certain point in your life when keeping it in your imagination doesn’t do it for you anymore and you want the real thing.

Its ok deciding whos going to be in your fantasy but its finding that special person or persons to act it out with you.

Not just anyone will do as if you choose the wrong person or persons they could burst your bubble in an instant.

Some people when looking for special people and of course the special moment in your life to go ahead with this scenario they can be looking for ages even years.

It’s so important to them that they become ocd on the matter. The details are precise that it can be off-putting to a degree you could give up looking after a while.

Your scared your dream could be ruined and you don’t want that to happen.
So there is another option that some times works depending on what your looking for…webcam.

This means either video chat which is a 2-way interaction or just watching someone doing something EG: watching Mistress making a cup of tea.

I can be anything. So without leaving the comfort of your own home, you can have interaction with whoever you wish.

This sometimes leads to a meeting if you like them and you feel confident you will enjoy the time with them.
Also, there’s no risk of wasting your time by bursting your dream bubble, if you know what I mean.

So if you have a BDSM Fantasy that you would like talk about contact me and we can converse some more on the subject at hand

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