Tuesday 10th December
First appearances go along way in everything everyone does. Business or pleasure, it doesn’t matter. If you like something or someone the first time you see them either in person or online you know that you want to know more about them.
I was told many years ago “it doesn’t matter what you wear, it’s you they are coming to see”. That is true but also very wrong.
Anyone that thinks that way will not do well in anything in life.
I always say, everything about an appointment matters. The place you have the client visit you at. The atmosphere in the room you take the appointment in, scent, sound, and vision are so extremely important.
I never have anyone else in the house when I take an appointment. Reason being that if the client hears something in another part of the house he is going to be on edge and unsure. This makes bad chemistry for a well flowed and comfortable appointment.
You may say it is not safe to be alone with a stranger…
True but I always go with my instincts. If I don’t feel comfortable with the first emails, text or greeting I have on the phone with a client then I say “Sorry I’m not interested”.
Some females just take the appointment because they want or need the money.
Yes, we all need the bills to be paid but I don’t feel I need to take every appointment that contacts me.
The more experienced one becomes the more of a bespoke niche you can offer. Finding something that no one else offers is perfect but difficult.
So if you are a refined gentleman that is looking for that particular something in the fetish world please contact me and we can converse more of an in-depth nature.
I will look forward to hearing all about your wild and wonderful fetishes.