Sunday 26th December 2021
Blog No.164/ Blogmas No.26
Can you believe it is all over and done with, Christmas I mean… These 26 days of blogmas have gone by so very quickly. It has been fun and we are all that little bit more knowledgeable on certain subjects. Well, today’s fetish is, as you see from the title Zelophia. It was a baffling one for me as in many cases I don’t like to be this fetish. It depends on the circumstances are I suppose.
What Is Zelophia?
It is when you are jealous and love the feeling. As I say a strange one but there are kinksters that like that feeling.
It mixes in well with voyeurism. As if you are observing your partner with another person then that could be exciting in many different ways. You could be jealous of the way that he touches her/him. The way he gives her/him oral. They may react completely differently to the new play partner than they react when your alone together. Introducing new play partners into the relationship can spice it up a bit. The one thing that is a fine line between fun and reality is if she/he prefers the new partner.
Like voyeurism, a 3-way can bring jealousy into the situation as well as other emotions. This is why having a 3-way is probably better to have it with 2 people that are out of the relationship. Then your relationship partner will not get jealous. Women do not like getting jealous of their other partners in that way. It can play havoc with everything and then when you plant that seed in the brain it never goes away. Instead of just keeping warm and then disappearing it grows on thoughts and in the imagination.
I Don’t Get Jealous…
I used to be very jealous in my younger years when I was immature and didn’t know much about the worldly things of life
I’m a Scorpio and they are known to be very persuasive and controlling. Well, I am one of those things which makes me a very good mistress.
Over the later years of my life, I have developed a way of thinking that changes everything and helps me to stay on an even kile to carry on everyday life even if I have a matter that is bothering me.
When I was in a relationship I would say to myself “As long as he doesn’t bring any STDs back to me and treats me right when we are together then I’m not worried about what he does when he is away from me. If he falls in love with someone else or chooses to walk away, it’s his loss. There is only one of me. Sooner or later he will realize that he misses me but you can’t undo what’s been done.”
If he thinks of me that way then ok but if not the life goes on. We are all here on this earth to look after ourselves. We are in control of what we do, how we do it, and who we do it with. We may meet people along the way that may think they can control us and change our mindset but when you realize that it is wrong or right you will take the pathway that you are comfortable with.
This was a difficult fetish to write about at first but then when I started to type it was easier to put together than I thought. Sometimes mentioning past experiences may help someone that is going through a troubled time when they come across my website.
They may be looking for something to fill the gap in their life that they are lacking in. Many a time when you come to see me or even just have a therapy session on the phone it can help you fulfill that fantasy/gap that has been trapped in your mind for a long time. Trust and enjoyment go hand in hand when finding the right mistress.
I’m not going to make this too deep in thought but I am a therapist of many subjects and if we have come to a crossroads in life that we feel we don’t know what way to turn reading someone else experiences and mindset could help you make your mind up sooner than you thought.
If this resonates with you then i would like to hear from you. CONTACT ME and we then can converse about your requirements and how we will sort out whatever it is that you are needing.
Just to make you aware…
If you are new to my website please look at my FETISHES PAGE < (click here) first before you ask for what you are looking for. I AM NOT AN ESCORT. So please do not ask for anything to do with personal services.
If you abide by my rules and are respectful towards me then I will be able to help you with what I can.
What The Future Holds For The Mistress Lucy Blogs…
I have mentioned this in a few blogs this month but for all that have not managed to read them, let alone the 163 other blogs apart from this one ( you don’t know what your missing, good toilet or bedtime reading lol) then I will recap.
I will continue to do a blog for the rest of this month ( 6 days) Then January onwards, I will put together 2 blogs a week of random subjects.
It could be what I have experienced in sessions ( identities will be covered in photography when needed and names will be changed for obvious reasons). Maybe topics that I feel are relevant to fetishes of general.
Even topics to help us understand our bodies better. We take our bodies for granted on many occasions and expect what we want at that time, that hole will consume that toy and don’t know why it won’t or expect us to want to do a certain thing to a certain person but when it is about to happen we just can’t do it due to morals, trust or its just plain disgusting to us.
This is a non-login website so I will have to judge the subject and PG it when I need to if you know what I mean.
Well, I think I have covered enough for today ( i love blogging for you and I could carry on with much more information. Perhaps I should write a book of my memoirs).
So take care in all you do. It looks like we are heading for rocking January unfortunately so look after yourself and I will talk with you again tomorrow…
Wednesday 22th December 2021
Blog No.160/ Blogmas No.22
As I sit at my laptop with my mug of coffee and
2 mince pies (sorry just eat them) and chocolate biscuits trying to feel Christmasy, I think of how I am going to put today’s blogmas together.
A Combination of The Two Fetishes Flows Perfectly…
Vicarphilia is a very different type of fetish but it’s one that we all have in our list of likes without knowing it. It’s the desire to listen to naughty stories of people’s experiences or to converse with a friend/mistress/therapist about sexual adventures. This combined with Voyeurism is a perfect combination for today’s blogmas.
Why do we love watching…
Watching any sexual/fetish act is arousing in the mind of the kinkster. We all have our own fetishes that we like more than others. These would be more arousing to us than the less interesting topics.
Voyeurism also can be a learning process as well as a topic of interest. If the couple that is performing in front of you are expecting you to join in in due course, then observing how and what they are doing will give you an insight into how they would like you to do things. Not every technique is favorable to everyone.
At the end of your time together is a perfect time to talk about and go through what happened, how you felt whilst you were tending each other, etc… This can also be a very sexy time for all of you. Maybe acting out what your trying to say may give you all an opportunity for round 2. Everyone needs a breather in between ejaculations. Respect each other’s time and requests and you could have yourself a long term relationship with a very handy couple of friends.
Therapy Service Only…
If you are in need of a Vicraphilia Therapist then do CONTACT ME and we can arrange a date and a time to converse about your request. This type of therapy is ideal on the phone or WhatsApp/skype video calling.
My tributes are dependant on how long you would like but we can discuss that when you contact me.
Thursday 20th February 2020
Daily Blog Extra
If you see a couple in the street walking along holding hands the natural instinct is to look. To see, in your mind if they are compatible within looks or not, but opposites attract in most cases.
To see 2 friends say “hi” and kiss each other on the cheek is normal but to if they were to embrace one another and connect lips for an intimate full-on kiss then they are bringing public attention to themselves and it is inevitable that people will look.
Depending on what your fetish is then people will look more than others. To be part of an audience the atmosphere can get very intimate throughout the room/area. Not by touching each other but by lots of people getting hot under their own collars.
If the performance you are watching whether it be live or online it can be very realistic. This is what makes it more inviting to watch because you can imagine in your mind you being in the male or females place.
Voyeurism can be put into context in a lot of ways. Couples like to be watched in a public place or taking a risk to get caught in a place they shouldn’t be. Inside or out depending on the moment of what they are doing.
If you’re on a night out and you meet someone that likes a 3 way to evolve. One watches while the other 2 play and then you all change places as time goes by. When it comes to a couple that has been together for a long time inviting a 3rd person in can be very risky.
Think about it for a while before doing this as it can break up a good thing instead of helping the matter. If you are single and into Voyeurism, it can be a fun experience as a lot of sexual experiences can be in life…
If your sexuality is urging you to widen your horizons then contact me and I will see what I can do…