Tuesday 7th December 2021
Blog No.145/ Blogmas No.7
Being told not to speak is not good enough for some people so an item needs to be used to gag them so they won’t make a sound. To many, this is thrilling and exciting but to others, the thought of having something pushed in their mouth with a material or leather, etc strap tied around their head would be a form of torture they would not like to put into reality
Types Of Gags…
There are many types of gags in all materials that can be used as a mild form of pleasure or if you a masochist then the experience could go as wild as extreme. If your pain threshold is on a high level then the gags can have things attached to them EG: cock gag, Ball gag.
Care With Use…
The Mistress/Master who is conducting a session when using gags has to know the health status of the client. If they have trouble with breathing, heart problems, or suffer from claustrophobia will not like gags. They are clients that you need to be sympathetic with and eventually you will come to a conclusion of something similar to what they do like. Gags can be fun if used in the right way with the right people.
If you have a fetish that involves gags and breathe play then do CONTACT ME and we can discuss it further.
Take care in all you do and stay safe. Talk again in the next blogmas tomorrow.
Sunday 5th December 2021
Blog No.143/ Blogmas No.5
Latin words always make a fetish niche sound so mysterious and knowledgeable. That’s why I do my homework on these subjects. So today it is Eproctophilia and yet it is unrecognizable to what it is in the title. Unlike tablet is a table in french. Easy to know what it is. So have you given up on what it means?
Ok, this fetish is Flatulence, Farting, Botty Burps, Breaking Wind, Tooter, Fluffing, Booty Cough, Gassy, Trumpet, Foghorn, Duck Call, etc and the list goes on.
When we were kids or even now when we are adults if someone fluffs at an inappropriate or not expected time it becomes hilarious. Especially if they are not known to do that and then they do. It can be pant wetting at times.
Started in the industry…
Until I started in the industry I did not know that it was a turn-on to have a female let go on his face or near him, let alone he would pay to feel such an experience.
Some people are extremely gassy as they may have a varied way of eating. In return, it will let out a strong odor that is powerful enough to burn your nostril hairs.
Yet others won’t produce and air and you will never hear them pass wind (or they might hold it till they are alone). As they say “you are what you eat” and you sure are.
I Have experienced a few moments of embarrassment but I do remember one time a good few years ago when I went on holiday to Greece (early 1990’s ) I and my ex-husband went away with another couple that we had met in our local pub. We were departing from Heathrow and had some time to wait as we had got to our boarding gate early. The seats we had picked were in 3’s so Chris decided to sit on the floor. It was a rubber design for easy cleaning. He had some music on his earphones but we could all hear it if it was turned up to a certain level. He decided to rock backward, forwards, and side to side to the beat of the music as a little sit-down dance to pass the time. On one of the side-to-side rocks he let out an almighty fart that he thought wasn’t going to sound…but It did. I have never heard a fart echo in an airport as much as what this did. He didn’t need a microphone to be loud, the hollowness of the terminal did that for him. The embarrassment that showed on his face was a picture. He hung his head in shame and ask me “did anyone hear that?” The whole terminal was in hysterics.
So if anyone has a fetish for Eproctophilia don’t contact me but for any fetishes that are on my FETSH LIST do CONTACT ME.
Sunday 10th October 2021
Well hello, sweetie…
It has been a while but I have been extremely busy all in all. I really can’t afford to be writing a new blog (time is of the essence) but I would like to let you know about the new additions to my Fetish Dungeon that maybe you can enjoy someday.
The reason I have bought these things and had them erected in my fetish photo studio Is that I want to place them on my shop on Lucy’s Fetish Closet website that I’m still working on.
It is so much fun finding amazing things to show you. A lot of stress and a lot of time is being spent doing all this homework but it will be worth it in the long run.
I have found anything from erotic biscuit cutters to chastity cages or even a full leather heavy-duty restriction bag with an attachable heavy-duty hood to match.
I found out it was better to have the hood that’s not attached to the main part of the sack as then it can be used with the different hoods if need be.
I have found I have become more of a perfectionist with this 2nd website than I have with this one. I know I have not designed this one and it was sculpted by a professional website designer (Thank you, Peter, much appreciated) but I have put a fair bit of content in it.
As it is with everyone, we have to start off at the bottom (excuse the pun), and as we get more confident and much more experienced we can if we wish go on and expand to big and better things.
Don’t worry I am not giving up this website, far from it. This is my early years of becoming a mistress. Without this website, I would not be what I am today.
I can’t believe it has been 14 years that I have been in this industry. As I say we all have to start somewhere and I am grateful for all the experiences I have gone through to get me here today.
One of the things I have learnt and that is patience. Woweee building a website and especially my own has proved that I don’t know when to be happy.
I have been advised to build it basic and then add on to it from there on. I just find more amazing things to ad on. I’m like a child in a candy shop.
As I mentioned earlier, I have become a perfectionist in more ways than one. I know I can not learn everything overnight but I want your experience to be fantastic and not disappointing.
Maybe you come across a small mistake that makes you think I have failed at producing a so-called fabulous website that everyone has waited so long to see.
Being a Lone Trader…
Doing everything on my own is tough. I have learnt many things in these months since I started putting my thoughts into a project but having to trust someone with all the work I have done would be heart-wrenching.
I know I have to someday, otherwise I am going to live a shorter quality of life with many grey hairs (i can see more appearing day by day lol).
That’s business and if we want to be our own boss then we all have to go through it.
I was speaking with a friend the other day and he was telling me about the same worries he had. His were on a much larger scale but still in the same context.
Having to give up a very successful business through no fault of his own. Contracts falling through because of the economy changing.
Then his workers not being satisfied even when he was practically giving them the shirt off his back. In the end, he decided to give it all up and work alone.
Being the only one in your company has its benefits and disadvantages.
Benefits – You can work when you want and do what you want.
Disadvantages – Saying no to clients is difficult in some trades. In the back of your mind, you don’t know when the next job is going to be with you.
Although now it’s catch 22 for my friend. As he is so particular and perfect in the way he does things he has become very popular.
Word and mouth have spread and everyone wants him. It’s great to be in demand but only to a certain level.
There is only a certain amount of hours in the day. Only a certain amount of appointments he can take in 1 day.
Now it has got enough work to cover him for 7 days a week, 24 hours a day for the next 3 months.
Conundrum… Does he take on help or not? That is the question.
I can totally understand what he was saying to me because if I’m not careful I could be in the same situation.
Being self-employed is very tough sometimes. What I am is slightly different. Although if i took everyone that contacted me for an appointment I would be similar.
Lockdown and the past couple of years have made me think as it has done with most of us. As I take actual appointments I need to have multiple streams of income and not rely on meeting appointments.
Don’t get me wrong I do enjoy sharing my skill and enjoyment with all of you but the pandemic has really tarnished it.
Before all this pandemic situation started I was not apprehensive of meeting new clients. Now it’s like I have to ask a string of questions even before I think about inviting anyone to visit me. It’s a must and unfortunately not my fault.
So as you see, my absence on social media has been me sitting around doing nothing as some people tend to think and have mentioned.
It’s been far from it. I have a list of things to do around the house and in the garden etc that I really want to do (D.I.Y is my hobby) but I don’t have the time.
If I do, then the website sits waiting for another day. Trust me I annoy myself. I am more excited to get it launched than anyone on this planet.
As I know what I want to achieve and I know I can do it, I want it launched yesterday. Until it is at a standard that is flowing I will not launch it.
Now I know why e-commerce websites are so expensive to build with professional website developers. Then it is the basics that they give you.
As then I have to have my personal touch to make me mine.
So what you see on this website has been at least 4 or more years of work. Not constant just bits and pieces here and there but it has still taken time.
Mmmmm maybe I will become a website developer once I get over the tribulations of building Lucys Fetish Closet.
There are no links to it at the moment until it is launched. Then don’t you worry everyone will know about it.
Then I will be blogging about how I’m getting only 2 hours of sleep a night because I’m on social media 24/7 lol sod’s law isn’t it.
Well, I think I have gone on enough now with my life update and need to get back to web designing.
Take care sweetie. Stay safe and healthy and talk soon…
Saturday 17th April 2021
Good afternoon Sweetie,
I hope you are well and have kept well over the few months that have passed.
Now how do I start…It’s been a little while since I last spoke to you but after 5 months of lockdown, we are now on the first or second stage ( don’t know which stage we are in but I know it’s either of them) of a slightly better life. Although Monday the 12th April people went a little bit crazy on the celebrating and I just hope that does send us plummeting back into another lockdown again.
I have been extremely busy with burring my head in the website business as like before. I am plodding through it but the thing that is slowing me down is perfection.
I’m not saying it has to perfect in a professional way but perfect in my way. As the years have gone past I have become a perfectionist in certain things and my mistressing and career (which really I can call it that now) are definitely one of those things that I am particular in.
I feel that I owe a lot to you. As without you, I wouldn’t be where I am today. You’ve helped me grow my confidence in many areas that once upon a time I wouldn’t even try to attempt, let alone succeed in my dreams.
The new website has also helped me decide to be the true me. I still am Mistress Lucy but to do business you can not have anything to hide.
So that is why you will see in many places I will be my own name and answer to my real name. I will say one thing though… if you want to session with me I must be known as Mistress Lucy and stay as Mistress Lucy or lucy on a friendlier point.
It puts me in the right frame of mind as trying to switch at the flick of a button is possible but you won’t get the best out of me that way.
A few people in the past because they have seen my real name on my email address they have addressed as that. I have been very annoyed with them back then.
This is why I say you need to address me as you mean to go on.
So I thought I would keep you updated with is going on with me at the moment. Many have thought I have given up mistressing because I have not been on social media so much lately.
I am still here but the website takes up so much time, you wouldn’t believe.
At one point I was working nocturnally for a good few weeks. This was because I would get into what I was doing and just continue on till my eyes would refuse to stay open anymore.
I did know at some point in the previous weeks that were getting closer to now that I would have to get back into a normal (I’m never normal lol) but a going to bed at 12 midnightish and getting up at 9amish ( i say ish because some times it was earlier and sometimes it was a little later). So I would be in routine for taking my appointments again.
So Monday 12th April arrives, the week starting back taking appointments….
It felt a little strange I will admit. I felt like a beginner again. I have moved my upstairs around to benefit the popularity of my appointments so everything was in a different place. Finding out where things were was a bit daunting ( like in someone else’s Dungeon) but i familarised myself with everything fairly quickly.
I was lucky as my first appointment was a gent i had known for a while and he wasn’t too hardcore. A little chatting whilst a trim of the outgrown hairstyle he was wearing and then mild tie and tease to satisfy his needs.
I always go with the flow. If you have a checklist in your mind and then the body language doesn’t agree with what you are doing it needs to change to accommodate his happy side of kinky.
I only take 1 appointment a day. As i prefer to take 2-3 hour appointments. Then if it goes overtime then it’s not a problem.
I don’t do what I do for only tribute but bills need to be paid. So this is why I say if it goes over time because we are enjoying ourselves (or i’m enjoying myself teasing you lol) we can carry on and I won’t ask or expect any more tribute.
I will say…Many have gifted me with extra tribute and actual gifts but that is completely down to you. I am not demanding in any way and do not expect it.
The rest of the week was my long-term eager clients/friends that were desperate for haircuts and another pair of hands on them in whatever way I chose to do so.
Being used to my own time for the past 5 months or longer has made me do as I please. Having appointments does give me a routine as I’m sure you agree.
I now truly know that mistressing is in my blood. I knew that before but the experience over the years has made me realize that I will never change.
The sad news of Prince Philip’s passing has made me also realize that I may have Mistress Lucy engraved on my headstone.
‘Mistress Lucy a powerful but hard businesswoman, that wouldn’t take any backchat from anyone. She will be missed but will be tattooed on every heart that she has punished’.
I’m not being down on the subject but just being reflective. As we all have a good thing or 2 that we would like to be remembered for.
Monday 7th December 2020
Now for the clients that have known me for all of my mistress career or longer would know about my dream of having my own Barbers/hairdressers.
I would of mentioned how my ideas would of got me shut down by the authorities before it was open day.
Reason being that my ideas would be and never are regular ideas for a high street shop.
For as long as i could remember i have always had a kinky mind in one way or another and putting my career and fetish together seems a blooming good idea to me.
This past year has brought nothing but heart ache and sorrow to a lot of people. It has also given us lots of time to think ‘what does the future hold for us?’
We have all had to change our 5 and 10 year plans and also our retirement. I say that because I’ve just turn 48 years old last month (November), so now is a good time to think about it.
Its time to think out of the box and about what will stand you in good stead for the long haul instead of what is a regular type of job that will help you out just for now.
Just for now jobs wont care about you when there’s continuous lockdowns or another major recession. Businesses are running out of money to keep paying their employees and the government are wearing thin on spare funds.
So to think outside the box and working for yourself (self employment) means going out of your uncomfortable zone and maybe doing something that is unlike you.
You never know until you try…
I’m not saying to do something wrong but something that has longevity and will bring you in a regular income how ever small or big.
Regular income is a must to keep our heads above water and the arrears people from sending constant reminders through your letter box.
Unemployment wouldn’t be so high if this is how everyone thought.
At one point i thought my top floor studio was working great for me with such a large open area and plenty of space to do as i please but i was finding that my appointments were swaying more to certain fetishes than others.
When national lockdown was talked about i decided to make use of my second self employment fund and divide the area up into sections that would work much better for my appointments and enable me to expand in what i could do.
Before, i had many a idea run through my head but the pandemic had always put road blocks in my way to complete and make it work.
So with the spare time i felt it was a perfect to put my plan into action.
To many females the thought of picking up an electrical chop or circular saw to do some wall building would sound like to much of nail breaking work for them, not to me. I keep my nails short for that reason.
When all my renovation’s are finished then i will go back to painted long nails…maybe.
It wasn’t that hard work really and plus i enjoy it.
As the days and weeks passed and i could see the project coming together. It was very heart warming to know that i was getting closer to my dream then ever before.
To a normal person, what is normal these days? to say about the world of hairdressing fetishes they would not understand but to a hairdressing kinster you could say what ever you liked to them about the fetish and they would understand completely.
Clippers to setting rollers or capes to hairdressers outfit it all triggers off a emotion.
You see fetish is an understanding of anything that makes you feel something.
- F… Feeling
- E… Emotion
- T… Tantalise
- I… Imagine
- H… Happy
All of the above are all in the 6 senses we all have. So don’t knock anyone that likes a particular fetish.
We are all different in our own way which makes us unique in our own little world.
So when and if you do come to Mistress Lucy’s Fetish Barbers don’t be afraid of letting loose your fetish and telling me (as long as it does not include personal services).
As you never know i may be the only mistress your feel comfortable with.
My Barbers Studio includes all the regular type of equipment but if you have a particular fetish for something out of the ordinary then do please say and i will do my best to accommodate.
Well i have briefly mentioned to you about my exciting salon but if you do have anything else to ask don’t hesitate to contact me and we can converse some more.
Stay health and safe and I will look forward to receiving your inquiries when you ready.
Friday 16th October 2020
To all who have been following my journey through the years, you would of seen my website progression and what a fabulous success it has been. I’m not a film star yet lol but I’m happy what it has given me.
My web designer Peter is a master at his trade and without his help I would not of got this far, thank you Peter your a star.
I think I mentioned a couple or months ago that I am now looking at starting a membership website because this one has restrictions on what I can post in my photography galleries due to no login page.
Every website has rules and limitations granted but at least if you have to login then you have to be of a certain age to do so etc then that will give me a free reign to an extent to post more interesting content.
Also I’m hoping to be able to post videos as well as photos for a small charge. As I am fed up having to cut the costs with other websites and ending up with hardly anything for all the work I put into it.
This is something I will converse with peter about but I’m sure it is possible in one way or the other.
Something else I want to mention…
I am not going to go on about this too much as I know everyone is getting tired of what is going on in the world right now but unfortunately it is ruling our lives. More than what we ever wanted.
As from today I have decided I will not be taking physical meeting appointments for the time being. I have had to cancel 3/4 of my appointments this month.
Either because the pandemic has hit their work and they are frightened of contracting and spreading it or the 3 tier/lockdown has forced them to stay away.
The main thing is, I have kept healthy and virus free all this year and I intend to stay that way. So if I have to put appointments on hold for now then I’m afraid that’s what I will do.
I am still available for phone chat and video calls on WhatsApp and skype if you wish but not to meet.
Do contact me either through text/call or email. All the details are on my Contact Page EG: phone number and link direct to my email address.
“Oh this dam world, its like a rollercoaster ride that I just want to get off of but cant”.
Take care sweeties and stay as healthy as you possibly can.
Hope to hear from you soon 😷
Thursday 15th October 2020
Blog No. 122
Corsets have always been top priority in my likes list when it comes to outfits and dressing up. All shape changing attire feels fantastic, hugging the body in all ways possible and making you look like you would only dream about.
The most fabulous thing about them is that they can draw you in at least 3 inches or more on your waist but the only negative thing about them is getting into them.
Its not like a loose fitting t-shirt that slips on very quick and easy. Its more like a 2 person job.
When admiring a statuesque female in a corset, the onlooker normally admires what he can see but never admires her for the before hand task of putting it on.
To get a perfect shape there should be a particular position you should stand in so your maid can pull those laces in to perfection. Making sure each lace is set just right and the underlaying piece of material under the laces is flat enough to join both sides of the corset together.
If it doesn’t and there is a gap then the corset is the wrong size.
When it comes to my appointments it can be difficult to have all the sizes and colours of the corsets in stock for all my clients. So I have to compromise on the clients shape and what garment is chosen.
Corsets can be made in all different materials, anything from latex to lace. I have grown to love satin corsets which helped me make my mind up into purchasing the emerald green satin corset (that you see me wearing in the photo).
I have had corsets from this company before and they are very well made and very hard wearing. They need to be heavy duty really as when your laced into the garment the laces are pulled in very tight around your waist/rib cage and the strain on the eye holes and hook fasteners is immense. It has to be to get that fantastic hour glass shape.
We are not all built to a size 0 but not to worry because corsets are also made for the fuller figure, whether it be male or female you will be happy with the shape that it gives you.
Only with the right size corset will it feel like a second skin. If the wrong size is fitted it can feel uncomfortable in a way that you just want it off sooner than later. Also an ill fitting corset it can make your outline look horrendous.
When the bones of the corset draw your waist in the excess flesh has to go somewhere. In most cases it will give you more of a bust than you thought you could ever have, even on a guy.
This is what I was mentioning about a wrong corset size. If you are in the wrong size it can push your excess flesh in the wrong places.
Also the flap of material that is under the laces is there for a reason…
It is there to stop the laces pressing on your skin. As laces pulled tight on bare flesh can cut in/chaff and be extremely painful.
If you needing to wear it for a long amount of hours and your mistress expects you to bend in all different positions then you need to be as comfortable as you can.
Truthfully i think corsets were design by an angel and the devil together because it make the our shapes look heaven sent but it gives naught/wicked thoughts to any onlookers…
Saturday 3rd October
When a mistress has near on everything apart from multiplying more of what she has, your always looking out for different things to add to the collection.
This is what I have been doing over time but finding a lot of the same thing. It is not worth purchasing more canes or anal toys for example if it does exactly the same thing as all the other toys I have.
Equipment like all equipment needs to be worn in. So for me to have more things than I know what to do with is a waste of space and money.
Canes – Its all in the wrist and arm action to make an experience different.
Anal – Its all in the technique and how I use the toy on you to make it a different experience each time.
When I take my anal sessions I’m finding that my clients prefer my fingers/hand more than a solid piece of lifeless silicone eased where the sun don’t shine.
I think a lot the time when designers try to invent a new toy they come to the same conclusion. So all they can do is make it in a different colour or make it with different looking knobberly bits on it in a way that has not been made before.
My hands have a lot of experience in giving pleasure so they will be continued to perform the stimulation the way you all like it and better.
Although I have found something that I have seen in the past I over looked it before.
It will make grown men cry and balls shrive back into the body at the sight of it. Oh I love to see subs wince and the thought of what I will do next.
Being that it is made out of clear Perspex it means nothing is hidden and everything…I mean everything is seen.
The only thing I think that it has to be adjusted in the design is it needs a opening for the thallus to be easily put into place. If you are of a different girth to the open itself then it could be rather uncomfortable or damaging when you get excited.
So any small naughty boys out there who have done something you need punishing over, think wisely before taking the next step to you dream.
Don’t shy away from me boy… as you know you like a mature mistress to take a firm hold of you in one hand, given a good strong punishment to you with the other hand. Trust me…your never forget it…
APOLIGISES BUT DUE TO THE WEBSITE NOT BEING A MEMBERSHIP WEBSITE I CAN NOT PUT A PHOTO OF THE TOY AS IT IS TOO REVEALING BUT I HOPE YOU HAVE GOT A GOOD IDEA OF THE DESCRIPTION AS TO WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE.
DO EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT TO SEE A LINK TO THE PRODUCT I HAVE SHOWN ON A DIFFERENT WEBSITE…
Thursday 13th August 2020
I have send many clients with all sorts of problems with erections. Whether it be premature ejaculation to erectile disfunction.
Please don’t be embarrassed if you have one of these problems it is easily cured.
I have many years of experience. I am a very patient and sympathetic person.
Many may laugh and say ‘your not with the right woman’ but it is not as easy as that.
It can steam from a lot of things.
This can be a case of your mind over acting or denying yourself of a ejaculation for a length of time because your saving yourself for that moment you have planned.
Either way it is all in the mind of yourself.
This is a little more complicated as it could be many reasons that it wont happen or it takes along time to happen.
I have had many clients visit me with this problem.
They say “oh I’m sorry but he doesn’t work very now”. This could be because of age, medication or mind set.
I don’t like to call me a Erection Therapist but i am beginning to think I am one.
I have developed a skill that has been 99.9% a cure for many problems.
Now don’t think because this is an escort site that I would perform oral or something like that (i don’t do that as you should understand by now).
That would be far to easy and to be truthful but it could be very much a hindrance to the problem more than a solution.
There are many ways to cure many problems.
What to expect on an appointment…
As like always I like to sit and speak to all my clients, offer you a drink when you first turn up to my home.
It eases you from a nervous build up from the time you first saw my profile.
I like to understand your problem (don’t take that the wrong way as anything that is not comfortable in your life is classed as a problem what ever the topic of the problem is).
It helps me come to a conclusion of your condition. Every topic has a conclusion and without that I can not plan the beginning and middle part of your session.
All problems steam from something that happened in your life. Then once you have calmed and feel at ease with me we can then begin.
There is no one way to begin as everyone is unique and different in their own way.
A Therapy appointment is always best to be a 2- 3 hour time frame as then you have time to relax and slow down your mind.
The mind is a very powerful thing. If your thinking of other things then you will not have a very enjoyable time.
I like to start my sessions with massage. It can be anything from 10 minutes to 90 minutes etc depending on your level of relaxation.
Some clients take longer than others to wined down. depending on how busy your life style is.
So whatever you feel you would like to come to visit me about, whether it be something bothering you or something that is taking over your life contact me and we can converse and talk it through.
I will look forward to hearing from you…
Wednesday 18th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.109.
What is the fascination with mammary glands? Why do they serve a purpose in everyone’s fantasies?
If a a female has large or small ones there is a person whether it be the opposite sex or same sex that always loves to look or feel them.
Granted like other parts of the body not everyone is born beautiful but there is always some one out there that will find you gorgeous for what ever reason.
When a man dresses like a female he always thinks that the boobs are part of the transformation but it not always the case. Not all women have large boobs.
Some of the worlds most attractive models/celebrities are flatter chested.
When they do dress up and look at themselves with implant in their bra it really doesn’t look or feel right because that’s not how they were born.
Flat chested or smaller breasted women look perfect for their body shape.
I’m not against plastic surgery but some of these women should take note of the doctors/surgeons advice as the implants are made to certain shapes for certain body types.
So for a guy to think dressing as a female must have implants to complete the outfit think again. Implants must look natural whether they are false of surgically placed…
If you would like a transformation or to talk about it, contact me and we can converse in more detail.