Thursday 13th August 2020

Blog No.120
I have send many clients with all sorts of problems with erections. Whether it be premature ejaculation to erectile disfunction.
Please don’t be embarrassed if you have one of these problems it is easily cured.

I have many years of experience. I am a very patient and sympathetic person.

Many may laugh and say ‘your not with the right woman’ but it is not as easy as that.

It can steam from a lot of things.

PREMATURE EJACULATION

This can be a case of your mind over acting or denying yourself of a ejaculation for a length of time because your saving yourself for that moment you have planned.

Either way it is all in the mind of yourself.

EJACULATION DISFUNCTION

This is a little more complicated as it could be many reasons that it wont happen or it takes along time to happen.

I have had many clients visit me with this problem.

They say “oh I’m sorry but he doesn’t work very now”. This could be because of age, medication or mind set.

I don’t like to call me a Erection Therapist but i am beginning to think I am one.

I have developed a skill that has been 99.9% a cure for many problems.

Now don’t think because this is an escort site that I would perform oral or something like that (i don’t do that as you should understand by now).

That would be far to easy and to be truthful but it could be very much a hindrance to the problem more than a solution.

There are many ways to cure many problems.

What to expect on an appointment…

As like always I like to sit and speak to all my clients, offer you a drink when you first turn up to my home.

It eases you from a nervous build up from the time you first saw my profile.

I like to understand your problem (don’t take that the wrong way as anything that is not comfortable in your life is classed as a problem what ever the topic of the problem is).

It helps me come to a conclusion of your condition. Every topic has a conclusion and without that I can not plan the beginning and middle part of your session.

All problems steam from something that happened in your life. Then once you have calmed and feel at ease with me we can then begin.

There is no one way to begin as everyone is unique and different in their own way.

A Therapy appointment is always best to be a 2- 3 hour time frame as then you have time to relax and slow down your mind.

The mind is a very powerful thing. If your thinking of other things then you will not have a very enjoyable time.

I like to start my sessions with massage. It can be anything from 10 minutes to 90 minutes etc depending on your level of relaxation.

Some clients take longer than others to wined down. depending on how busy your life style is.

So whatever you feel you would like to come to visit me about, whether it be something bothering you or something that is taking over your life contact me and we can converse and talk it through.

I will look forward to hearing from you…

Wednesday 18th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.109.
What is the fascination with mammary glands? Why do they serve a purpose in everyone’s fantasies?

Mistresses real chesticles…

If a a female has large or small ones there is a person whether it be the opposite sex or same sex that always loves to look or feel them.

Granted like other parts of the body not everyone is born beautiful but there is always some one out there that will find you gorgeous for what ever reason.

When a man dresses like a female he always thinks that the boobs are part of the transformation but it not always the case. Not all women have large boobs.

Some of the worlds most attractive models/celebrities are flatter chested.

Kathy’s Fake Chicken Fillets (Bra Implants)

When they do dress up and look at themselves with implant in their bra it really doesn’t look or feel right because that’s not how they were born.

Flat chested or smaller breasted women look perfect for their body shape.

I’m not against plastic surgery but some of these women should take note of the doctors/surgeons advice as the implants are made to certain shapes for certain body types.

So for a guy to think dressing as a female must have implants to complete the outfit think again. Implants must look natural whether they are false of surgically placed…

If you would like a transformation or to talk about it, contact me and we can converse in more detail.

 

 

14 Mar 2020
March 14, 2020

What Level Is Your Comfort Zone At?

Saturday 14th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.105.
A comfort zone is different for everyone as we all have different weaknesses and strong points.

To take you out of your comfort zone can be uncomfortable for some people but to others it can be the thrill that drives them to their destination.

Adrenaline is something different but it still goes hand in hand with your comfort zone as that is what guides you to the level that you are happy or unhappy with.

Even though you might not be happy having your limits pushed but when you do it takes you to places you may never of been before.

Helping you to experience news ways of enjoyment that you may never of thought you could push yourself to.

Some things may not tick your boxes at first but then you dip your toe into a fetish that you thought was out of your league and you may some what like or not like it…

If you would like to have your comfort zone pushed to another level then contact me and we converse about we can put that into reality

 

12 Mar 2020
March 12, 2020

What Are You Afraid Of?…

Thursday 12th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.103.
When it comes to being frightened of something our bodies can react in so many different ways.

We have in our minds a fantasy that you long to transfer into reality but we are frightened that if we do it may not be the same as in our dreams and thoughts.

To find the perfect person to be that other character in your scenario must be right other wise it will crush the long term imagery that you have yearned for for so long.

PVC, Leatherette, Corsets or Bottoms. What’s your fantasy?

It may be a figure that you have looked up to and you have put them on a pedestal in reality but in your dreams you have wanted to do things to her that you know that she would disagree to.

She’s a figure is of a dominant stature, you would love for her to boss and humiliate you to the point where you actually question your loyalty to yourself.

She manipulates you in a way how she likes things done. She doesn’t care about what you want because all that is important is her needs.

You want to tell her your true feelings but that would ruin the dominant relationship that you have with her.

You have to keep this fantasy with you for as long as you can but the erg is so strong that you cant think of anything else but her.

The one thing that holds you back from bringing your fantasy to reality is…

I will leave you to finish the sentence as every individual has there own fetish fantasy.

if you have a dominant fantasy that you would like to bring to reality contact me and we can converse about it some more.

 

10 Mar 2020
March 10, 2020

Maid Service Madame?…

Tuesday 10th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.101.
Maid service means a totally different thing now a days to what it would of done back in the day.

To find a anyone let alone a mistress that would accommodate any such fetish back then you have to look in a telephone box window.

Its a shame that regular society looks on fetishes as seedy and a back street game as if the vanilla type of person would only open up their mind they would see what they are missing out on.

Husband Maid Kathy

I have only heard of a small percentage of husbands that are allowed to dress up at home from their secret wardrobe full of maids uniforms that have everything sewn on it to look as girlie as they possibley can.

The wifey will go out with the girls and say to him (who she has named him a maids name EG: Lucinda to feel the part and as a code for chores time).

“Right Lucinda, I’m out for a couple of hours. I have wrote your chores down for you and I expect them all to be done by the time I get back. I have left the envelope on the bed with your uniform that I have picked for you today. I will expect you to have lunch ready for me on my arrival. I may bring back my friends and embarrass you but then again i may not. That is for you to worry about in the mean time”.

For many husband Maids that would be very exciting and thrilling but it rarely happens because a vanilla female expects her partner to be the alpha male and to dress up is pathetic in their eyes.

Such a shame as i can imagine that would be a perfect life for him in his fantasy world…

If you would like to be my fantasy husband maid then contact me and we can discuss it further.

 

20 Feb 2020
February 20, 2020

What Is The Attraction To Voyeurism?…

Thursday 20th February 2020

Daily Blog Extra
If you see a couple in the street walking along holding hands the natural instinct is to look. To see, in your mind if they are compatible within looks or not, but opposites attract in most cases.

To see 2 friends say “hi” and kiss each other on the cheek is normal but to if they were to embrace one another and connect lips for an intimate full-on kiss then they are bringing public attention to themselves and it is inevitable that people will look.

To be told what to do or be watch is just as fun…

Depending on what your fetish is then people will look more than others. To be part of an audience the atmosphere can get very intimate throughout the room/area. Not by touching each other but by lots of people getting hot under their own collars.

If the performance you are watching whether it be live or online it can be very realistic. This is what makes it more inviting to watch because you can imagine in your mind you being in the male or females place.

Voyeurism can be put into context in a lot of ways. Couples like to be watched in a public place or taking a risk to get caught in a place they shouldn’t be. Inside or out depending on the moment of what they are doing.

If you’re on a night out and you meet someone that likes a 3 way to evolve.  One watches while the other 2 play and then you all change places as time goes by. When it comes to a couple that has been together for a long time inviting a 3rd person in can be very risky.

Think about it for a while before doing this as it can break up a good thing instead of helping the matter. If you are single and into Voyeurism, it can be a fun experience as a lot of sexual experiences can be in life…

If your sexuality is urging you to widen your horizons then contact me and I will see what I can do…

19 Feb 2020
February 19, 2020

Psychrophilia Is A Strange Fetish or is it?…

Wednesday 19th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.81.
Now I have come across some strange fetishes but this on is mighty weird. I don’t know anyone that likes being cold from this wintery weather we are having but to be cold on purpose is another level altogether.
Sometimes you have to adapt if your in that climate for some reason but to be cold on purpose is a fetish on its own.

Wrapped Up Warm

I had a client contact me a while ago and he asked to be taken to a muddy park on a rainy day (which is quite easy at this time of year) and make him walk across the grass so he unintentionally but intentionally slips over and gets muddy and wet and mainly cold.

Although the medical experts say that it is good for the body if you have injuries such as joint arthritis etc as it helps the blood flow around that area. Throughout my research, for this topic, I have a conclusion that it doesn’t seem long term beneficial but only for extra energy after the cryotherapy has been completed for 3 minutes.

From reading the title of the treatment, I think after being in the -264 degree freeze chamber for 1 minute I would be crying also…

So if you would like a Psychrophilia session contact me and I will sure to arrange it for you.

17 Feb 2020
February 17, 2020

Why Do We Get A Thrill From Exhibitionism?…

Monday 17th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.79.
What is the attraction of doing things in the public eye? When we are carrying on with our regular lives and something happens that makes people that we don’t know stop and stare the adrenaline rush hits our nervous system in such a way that to certain individuals is a sexual excitement rush.

To be humiliated in the middle of a busy shopping area or crowded pub is the most popular choice because you are guaranteed lots of onlookers. Even though it may be staged the best way of getting an instant reaction is acting it out as if it was performed without being forced to do it.

Exhibitionism can be recognized in many ways but you do have to be careful what you do and where you do it to save getting arrested for indecent exposure if you know what I mean.

It can be as innocent as just having a heated conversation with a friend or partner to get your sexual fix or the endorphin rush or as risky as having intercourse in a very public place. As I mentioned before be careful about this one as exposing sexual parts can cause you to offend onlookers or even get the authorities involved…

If you are into the topic of this daily blog then contact me and we can converse more on the subject. I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…

14 Feb 2020
February 14, 2020

Body Hair…Why We Need It?

Friday 14th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.76.
We are all born with a certain amount of hair all over our bodies. Then as we get older it grows to what our bodies require it to.
A lot of the time women are battling their body hair as the media says females should be hair free and smooth…but who makes this ruling?

A few years ago Julia Roberts gave up shave, waxing or whatever she did to her armpits and wore a red sleeveless dress to the Notting Hill Premier opening in 1999.

She is mostly known for her acting career but also this moment in history. I typed into google, actress with hairy armpits and Julia Roberts was first on the list.

A hairy bottom on a sissy is not acceptable to the male eye

Why is society so against hairy females? It is a very natural thing that happens to us all so why do a good percentage of us dislike it on a woman and in general.

I’m a hairdresser (if you hadn’t realized already lol) I love controlling, styling and manipulating it on the head but I am not a fan of it on my body.

I will in the winter grow it a bit when it gets to a certain length it feels unclean (even though I shower 1-2 times a day) to be clear of it completely feels much more hygenic.

This is why I say to a good majority of my clients. Male grooming is a common thing these days. To be completely waxed/shaved or partially waxed/shaved is up to the individual.

Say example you drop something that you’re eating on your chest hair if you are sitting there shirtless or shirt open. To clean up a substance is much harder to do in a hairy area than a trimmed or hair-free area.

A hairy chest is acceptable if you like that sort of thing

Also the same in your manly area. Another reason also if you are looking to extend length (individual personal preference only) then trimming back the bush adds instant length.

Being that this is valentines day I should have mentioned this a couple of blogs ago so you be ready to woo your partner/date with a couple of extra inches (even though you had that hidden away in the bush that you were keeping for many years lol).

It is not down to me to say what you should and shouldn’t do but anyone that goes commando will understand that catching your pubic hair in a zipper can be very eye-watering painful (unlike the film ‘Something about Mary’, scrotum skin caught in the zipper) hilarious film but even I cringed at that moment and I don’t have a scrotum (well I didn’t the last time I looked lol)

So although hair is there for a reason (to keep germs out of orifices) personal preference is always a must to feel comfortable with yourself.

If you are requiring a body grooming session contact me and we can converse more on the topic.

I will look forward to hearing from all you neanderthal men or very hairy women lol

 

 

Tuesday11th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.73.

Why when there are so many nice flavors in the world that we choose to taste our on bodily liquids?

Is it because it’s forbidden in normal society or is it because we do it because we can. It’s because it’s our own and we can do what we wish with it.

So then why is it we want to taste other peoples. Total strangers that we have never met before. Who we have to trust that they are safe and clean but in the heat of the moment for some of us that goes out of our minds till after the act has been performed.

Playtimes have come along way since the year dot when everyone was doing the natural thing and making babies but nowadays we all want to see who can get the biggest butt plug in the smallest hole and cross-dressing to the opposite sex and do anything and everything that anyone can think of.

To many people tasting anything that comes from themselves or anyone else would make them instantly gag. Then there are some that would consume anything you put in front of them.

If you are controlled by a mistress then you as the client put your trust in her to abide by your rules that set out at the beginning of your journey together.

Anyone that she chooses to bring into the arrangement then she should make sure that she is confident that they are clean of anything unwelcome.

It still doesn’t answer the question of this blog… I don’t think there is an answer that is right or wrong.

We are all different and like different things, tastes, etc so as I mentioned previously every answer is correct in your own way…

I will look forward to your inquiries on this topic from all those that have strong stomachs…