Friday 16th October 2020

Blog No.123
To all who have been following my journey through the years, you would of seen my website progression and what a fabulous success it has been. I’m not a film star yet lol but I’m happy what it has given me.

My web designer Peter is a master at his trade and without his help I would not of got this far, thank you Peter your a star.

I think I mentioned a couple or months ago that I am now looking at starting a membership website because this one has restrictions on what I can post in my photography galleries due to no login page.

Every website has rules and limitations granted but at least if you have to login then you have to be of a certain age to do so etc then that will give me a free reign to an extent to post more interesting content.

Also I’m hoping to be able to post videos as well as photos for a small charge. As I am fed up having to cut the costs with other websites and ending up with hardly anything for all the work I put into it.

This is something I will converse with peter about but I’m sure it is possible in one way or the other.

Something else I want to mention…

I am not going to go on about this too much as I know everyone is getting tired of what is going on in the world right now but unfortunately it is ruling our lives. More than what we ever wanted.

As from today I have decided I will not be taking physical meeting appointments for the time being. I have had to cancel 3/4 of my appointments this month.

Either because the pandemic has hit their work and they are frightened of contracting and spreading it or the 3 tier/lockdown has forced them to stay away.

The main thing is, I have kept healthy and virus free all this year and I intend to stay that way. So if I have to put appointments on hold for now then I’m afraid that’s what I will do.

I am still available for phone chat and video calls on WhatsApp and skype if you wish but not to meet.

Do contact me either through text/call or email. All the details are on my Contact Page EG: phone number and link direct to my email address.

“Oh this dam world, its like a rollercoaster ride that I just want to get off of but cant”.

Take care sweeties and stay as healthy as you possibly can.

Hope to hear from you soon 😷

 

15 Oct 2020
October 15, 2020

Corsets and Satin for Mistress…

Thursday 15th October 2020

Blog No. 122
Corsets have always been top priority in my likes list when it comes to outfits and dressing up. All shape changing attire feels fantastic, hugging the body in all ways possible and making  you look like you would only dream about.

The most fabulous thing about them is that they can draw you in at least 3 inches or more on your waist but the only negative thing about them is getting into them.

Its not like a loose fitting t-shirt that slips on very quick and easy. Its more like a 2 person job.

Emerald Stain Heavily Boned Corset

When admiring a statuesque female in a corset, the onlooker normally admires what he can see but never admires her for the before hand task of putting it on.

To get a perfect shape there should be a particular position you should stand in so your maid can pull those laces in to perfection. Making sure each lace is set just right and the underlaying piece of material under the laces is flat enough to join both sides of the corset together.

If it doesn’t and there is a gap then the corset is the wrong size.

When it comes to my appointments it can be difficult to have all the sizes and colours of the corsets in stock for all my clients. So I have to compromise on the clients shape and what garment is chosen.

Corsets can be made in all different materials, anything from latex to lace. I have grown to love satin corsets which helped me make my mind up into purchasing the emerald green satin corset (that you see me wearing in the photo).

I have had corsets from this company before and they are very well made and very hard wearing. They need to be heavy duty really as when your laced into the garment the laces are pulled in very tight around your waist/rib cage and the strain on the eye holes and hook fasteners is immense. It has to be to get that fantastic hour glass shape.

Look fantastic with an Blouse or on its own

We are not all built to a size 0 but not to worry because corsets are also made for the fuller figure, whether it be male or female you will be happy with the shape that it gives you.

Only with the right size corset will it feel like a second skin. If the wrong size is fitted it can feel uncomfortable in a way that you just want it off sooner than later. Also an ill fitting corset it can make your outline look horrendous.

When the bones of the corset draw your waist in the excess flesh has to go somewhere. In most cases it will give you more of a bust than you thought you could ever have, even on a guy.

This is what I was mentioning about a wrong corset size. If you are in the wrong size it can push your excess flesh in the wrong places.

Also the flap of material that is under the laces is there for a reason…

It is there to stop the laces pressing on your skin. As laces pulled tight on bare flesh can cut in/chaff and be extremely painful.

If you needing to wear it for a long amount of hours and your mistress expects you to bend in all different positions then you need to be as comfortable as you can.

Truthfully i think corsets were design by an angel and the devil together because it make the our shapes look heaven sent but it gives naught/wicked thoughts to any onlookers…

 

03 Oct 2020
October 3, 2020

New Toys For Naughty Boys…

Saturday 3rd October

Blog No.121.
When a mistress has near on everything apart from multiplying more of what she has, your always looking out for different things to add to the collection.

This is what I have been doing over time but finding a lot of the same thing. It is not worth purchasing more canes or anal toys for example if it does exactly the same thing as all the other toys I have.

Equipment like all equipment needs to be worn in. So for me to have more things than I know what to do with is a waste of space and money.

Canes – Its all in the wrist and arm action to make an experience different.

Anal – Its all in the technique and how I use the toy on you to make it a different experience each time.

When I take my anal sessions I’m finding that my clients prefer my fingers/hand more than a solid piece of lifeless silicone eased where the sun don’t shine.

I think a lot the time when designers try to invent a new toy they come to the same conclusion. So all they can do is make it in a different colour or make it with different looking knobberly bits on it in a way that has not been made before.

My hands have a lot of experience in giving pleasure so they will be continued to perform the stimulation the way you all like it and better.

Although I have found something that I have seen in the past I over looked it before.
It will make grown men cry and balls shrive back into the body at the sight of it. Oh I love to see subs wince and the thought of what I will do next.

Being that it is made out of clear Perspex it means nothing is hidden and everything…I mean everything is seen.

The only thing I think that it has to be adjusted in the design is it needs a opening for the thallus to be easily put into place. If you are of a different girth to the open itself then it could be rather uncomfortable or damaging when you get excited.

So any small naughty boys out there who have done something you need punishing over, think wisely before taking the next step to you dream.

Don’t shy away from me boy… as you know you like a mature mistress to take a firm hold of you in one hand, given a good strong punishment to you with the other hand. Trust me…your never forget it…

APOLIGISES BUT DUE TO THE WEBSITE NOT BEING A MEMBERSHIP WEBSITE I CAN NOT PUT A PHOTO OF THE TOY AS IT IS TOO REVEALING BUT I HOPE YOU HAVE GOT A GOOD IDEA OF THE DESCRIPTION AS TO WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE.

DO EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT TO SEE A LINK TO THE PRODUCT I HAVE SHOWN ON A DIFFERENT WEBSITE…

Thursday 13th August 2020

Blog No.120
I have send many clients with all sorts of problems with erections. Whether it be premature ejaculation to erectile disfunction.
Please don’t be embarrassed if you have one of these problems it is easily cured.

I have many years of experience. I am a very patient and sympathetic person.

Many may laugh and say ‘your not with the right woman’ but it is not as easy as that.

It can steam from a lot of things.

PREMATURE EJACULATION

This can be a case of your mind over acting or denying yourself of a ejaculation for a length of time because your saving yourself for that moment you have planned.

Either way it is all in the mind of yourself.

EJACULATION DISFUNCTION

This is a little more complicated as it could be many reasons that it wont happen or it takes along time to happen.

I have had many clients visit me with this problem.

They say “oh I’m sorry but he doesn’t work very now”. This could be because of age, medication or mind set.

I don’t like to call me a Erection Therapist but i am beginning to think I am one.

I have developed a skill that has been 99.9% a cure for many problems.

Now don’t think because this is an escort site that I would perform oral or something like that (i don’t do that as you should understand by now).

That would be far to easy and to be truthful but it could be very much a hindrance to the problem more than a solution.

There are many ways to cure many problems.

What to expect on an appointment…

As like always I like to sit and speak to all my clients, offer you a drink when you first turn up to my home.

It eases you from a nervous build up from the time you first saw my profile.

I like to understand your problem (don’t take that the wrong way as anything that is not comfortable in your life is classed as a problem what ever the topic of the problem is).

It helps me come to a conclusion of your condition. Every topic has a conclusion and without that I can not plan the beginning and middle part of your session.

All problems steam from something that happened in your life. Then once you have calmed and feel at ease with me we can then begin.

There is no one way to begin as everyone is unique and different in their own way.

A Therapy appointment is always best to be a 2- 3 hour time frame as then you have time to relax and slow down your mind.

The mind is a very powerful thing. If your thinking of other things then you will not have a very enjoyable time.

I like to start my sessions with massage. It can be anything from 10 minutes to 90 minutes etc depending on your level of relaxation.

Some clients take longer than others to wined down. depending on how busy your life style is.

So whatever you feel you would like to come to visit me about, whether it be something bothering you or something that is taking over your life contact me and we can converse and talk it through.

I will look forward to hearing from you…

Wednesday 18th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.109.
What is the fascination with mammary glands? Why do they serve a purpose in everyone’s fantasies?

Mistresses real chesticles…

If a a female has large or small ones there is a person whether it be the opposite sex or same sex that always loves to look or feel them.

Granted like other parts of the body not everyone is born beautiful but there is always some one out there that will find you gorgeous for what ever reason.

When a man dresses like a female he always thinks that the boobs are part of the transformation but it not always the case. Not all women have large boobs.

Some of the worlds most attractive models/celebrities are flatter chested.

Kathy’s Fake Chicken Fillets (Bra Implants)

When they do dress up and look at themselves with implant in their bra it really doesn’t look or feel right because that’s not how they were born.

Flat chested or smaller breasted women look perfect for their body shape.

I’m not against plastic surgery but some of these women should take note of the doctors/surgeons advice as the implants are made to certain shapes for certain body types.

So for a guy to think dressing as a female must have implants to complete the outfit think again. Implants must look natural whether they are false of surgically placed…

If you would like a transformation or to talk about it, contact me and we can converse in more detail.

 

 

14 Mar 2020
March 14, 2020

What Level Is Your Comfort Zone At?

Saturday 14th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.105.
A comfort zone is different for everyone as we all have different weaknesses and strong points.

To take you out of your comfort zone can be uncomfortable for some people but to others it can be the thrill that drives them to their destination.

Adrenaline is something different but it still goes hand in hand with your comfort zone as that is what guides you to the level that you are happy or unhappy with.

Even though you might not be happy having your limits pushed but when you do it takes you to places you may never of been before.

Helping you to experience news ways of enjoyment that you may never of thought you could push yourself to.

Some things may not tick your boxes at first but then you dip your toe into a fetish that you thought was out of your league and you may some what like or not like it…

If you would like to have your comfort zone pushed to another level then contact me and we converse about we can put that into reality

 

12 Mar 2020
March 12, 2020

What Are You Afraid Of?…

Thursday 12th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.103.
When it comes to being frightened of something our bodies can react in so many different ways.

We have in our minds a fantasy that you long to transfer into reality but we are frightened that if we do it may not be the same as in our dreams and thoughts.

To find the perfect person to be that other character in your scenario must be right other wise it will crush the long term imagery that you have yearned for for so long.

PVC, Leatherette, Corsets or Bottoms. What’s your fantasy?

It may be a figure that you have looked up to and you have put them on a pedestal in reality but in your dreams you have wanted to do things to her that you know that she would disagree to.

She’s a figure is of a dominant stature, you would love for her to boss and humiliate you to the point where you actually question your loyalty to yourself.

She manipulates you in a way how she likes things done. She doesn’t care about what you want because all that is important is her needs.

You want to tell her your true feelings but that would ruin the dominant relationship that you have with her.

You have to keep this fantasy with you for as long as you can but the erg is so strong that you cant think of anything else but her.

The one thing that holds you back from bringing your fantasy to reality is…

I will leave you to finish the sentence as every individual has there own fetish fantasy.

if you have a dominant fantasy that you would like to bring to reality contact me and we can converse about it some more.

 

10 Mar 2020
March 10, 2020

Maid Service Madame?…

Tuesday 10th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.101.
Maid service means a totally different thing now a days to what it would of done back in the day.

To find a anyone let alone a mistress that would accommodate any such fetish back then you have to look in a telephone box window.

Its a shame that regular society looks on fetishes as seedy and a back street game as if the vanilla type of person would only open up their mind they would see what they are missing out on.

Husband Maid Kathy

I have only heard of a small percentage of husbands that are allowed to dress up at home from their secret wardrobe full of maids uniforms that have everything sewn on it to look as girlie as they possibley can.

The wifey will go out with the girls and say to him (who she has named him a maids name EG: Lucinda to feel the part and as a code for chores time).

“Right Lucinda, I’m out for a couple of hours. I have wrote your chores down for you and I expect them all to be done by the time I get back. I have left the envelope on the bed with your uniform that I have picked for you today. I will expect you to have lunch ready for me on my arrival. I may bring back my friends and embarrass you but then again i may not. That is for you to worry about in the mean time”.

For many husband Maids that would be very exciting and thrilling but it rarely happens because a vanilla female expects her partner to be the alpha male and to dress up is pathetic in their eyes.

Such a shame as i can imagine that would be a perfect life for him in his fantasy world…

If you would like to be my fantasy husband maid then contact me and we can discuss it further.

 

20 Feb 2020
February 20, 2020

What Is The Attraction To Voyeurism?…

Thursday 20th February 2020

Daily Blog Extra
If you see a couple in the street walking along holding hands the natural instinct is to look. To see, in your mind if they are compatible within looks or not, but opposites attract in most cases.

To see 2 friends say “hi” and kiss each other on the cheek is normal but to if they were to embrace one another and connect lips for an intimate full-on kiss then they are bringing public attention to themselves and it is inevitable that people will look.

To be told what to do or be watch is just as fun…

Depending on what your fetish is then people will look more than others. To be part of an audience the atmosphere can get very intimate throughout the room/area. Not by touching each other but by lots of people getting hot under their own collars.

If the performance you are watching whether it be live or online it can be very realistic. This is what makes it more inviting to watch because you can imagine in your mind you being in the male or females place.

Voyeurism can be put into context in a lot of ways. Couples like to be watched in a public place or taking a risk to get caught in a place they shouldn’t be. Inside or out depending on the moment of what they are doing.

If you’re on a night out and you meet someone that likes a 3 way to evolve.  One watches while the other 2 play and then you all change places as time goes by. When it comes to a couple that has been together for a long time inviting a 3rd person in can be very risky.

Think about it for a while before doing this as it can break up a good thing instead of helping the matter. If you are single and into Voyeurism, it can be a fun experience as a lot of sexual experiences can be in life…

If your sexuality is urging you to widen your horizons then contact me and I will see what I can do…

19 Feb 2020
February 19, 2020

Psychrophilia Is A Strange Fetish or is it?…

Wednesday 19th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.81.
Now I have come across some strange fetishes but this on is mighty weird. I don’t know anyone that likes being cold from this wintery weather we are having but to be cold on purpose is another level altogether.
Sometimes you have to adapt if your in that climate for some reason but to be cold on purpose is a fetish on its own.

Wrapped Up Warm

I had a client contact me a while ago and he asked to be taken to a muddy park on a rainy day (which is quite easy at this time of year) and make him walk across the grass so he unintentionally but intentionally slips over and gets muddy and wet and mainly cold.

Although the medical experts say that it is good for the body if you have injuries such as joint arthritis etc as it helps the blood flow around that area. Throughout my research, for this topic, I have a conclusion that it doesn’t seem long term beneficial but only for extra energy after the cryotherapy has been completed for 3 minutes.

From reading the title of the treatment, I think after being in the -264 degree freeze chamber for 1 minute I would be crying also…

So if you would like a Psychrophilia session contact me and I will sure to arrange it for you.