Wednesday 18th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.109.
What is the fascination with mammary glands? Why do they serve a purpose in everyone’s fantasies?

Mistresses real chesticles…

If a a female has large or small ones there is a person whether it be the opposite sex or same sex that always loves to look or feel them.

Granted like other parts of the body not everyone is born beautiful but there is always some one out there that will find you gorgeous for what ever reason.

When a man dresses like a female he always thinks that the boobs are part of the transformation but it not always the case. Not all women have large boobs.

Some of the worlds most attractive models/celebrities are flatter chested.

Kathy’s Fake Chicken Fillets (Bra Implants)

When they do dress up and look at themselves with implant in their bra it really doesn’t look or feel right because that’s not how they were born.

Flat chested or smaller breasted women look perfect for their body shape.

I’m not against plastic surgery but some of these women should take note of the doctors/surgeons advice as the implants are made to certain shapes for certain body types.

So for a guy to think dressing as a female must have implants to complete the outfit think again. Implants must look natural whether they are false of surgically placed…

If you would like a transformation or to talk about it, contact me and we can converse in more detail.

 

 

10 Mar 2020
March 10, 2020

Maid Service Madame?…

Tuesday 10th March 2020

Daily Blog NO.101.
Maid service means a totally different thing now a days to what it would of done back in the day.

To find a anyone let alone a mistress that would accommodate any such fetish back then you have to look in a telephone box window.

Its a shame that regular society looks on fetishes as seedy and a back street game as if the vanilla type of person would only open up their mind they would see what they are missing out on.

Husband Maid Kathy

I have only heard of a small percentage of husbands that are allowed to dress up at home from their secret wardrobe full of maids uniforms that have everything sewn on it to look as girlie as they possibley can.

The wifey will go out with the girls and say to him (who she has named him a maids name EG: Lucinda to feel the part and as a code for chores time).

“Right Lucinda, I’m out for a couple of hours. I have wrote your chores down for you and I expect them all to be done by the time I get back. I have left the envelope on the bed with your uniform that I have picked for you today. I will expect you to have lunch ready for me on my arrival. I may bring back my friends and embarrass you but then again i may not. That is for you to worry about in the mean time”.

For many husband Maids that would be very exciting and thrilling but it rarely happens because a vanilla female expects her partner to be the alpha male and to dress up is pathetic in their eyes.

Such a shame as i can imagine that would be a perfect life for him in his fantasy world…

If you would like to be my fantasy husband maid then contact me and we can discuss it further.

 

20 Feb 2020
February 20, 2020

What Is The Attraction To Voyeurism?…

Thursday 20th February 2020

Daily Blog Extra
If you see a couple in the street walking along holding hands the natural instinct is to look. To see, in your mind if they are compatible within looks or not, but opposites attract in most cases.

To see 2 friends say “hi” and kiss each other on the cheek is normal but to if they were to embrace one another and connect lips for an intimate full-on kiss then they are bringing public attention to themselves and it is inevitable that people will look.

To be told what to do or be watch is just as fun…

Depending on what your fetish is then people will look more than others. To be part of an audience the atmosphere can get very intimate throughout the room/area. Not by touching each other but by lots of people getting hot under their own collars.

If the performance you are watching whether it be live or online it can be very realistic. This is what makes it more inviting to watch because you can imagine in your mind you being in the male or females place.

Voyeurism can be put into context in a lot of ways. Couples like to be watched in a public place or taking a risk to get caught in a place they shouldn’t be. Inside or out depending on the moment of what they are doing.

If you’re on a night out and you meet someone that likes a 3 way to evolve.  One watches while the other 2 play and then you all change places as time goes by. When it comes to a couple that has been together for a long time inviting a 3rd person in can be very risky.

Think about it for a while before doing this as it can break up a good thing instead of helping the matter. If you are single and into Voyeurism, it can be a fun experience as a lot of sexual experiences can be in life…

If your sexuality is urging you to widen your horizons then contact me and I will see what I can do…

14 Feb 2020
February 14, 2020

Body Hair…Why We Need It?

Friday 14th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.76.
We are all born with a certain amount of hair all over our bodies. Then as we get older it grows to what our bodies require it to.
A lot of the time women are battling their body hair as the media says females should be hair free and smooth…but who makes this ruling?

A few years ago Julia Roberts gave up shave, waxing or whatever she did to her armpits and wore a red sleeveless dress to the Notting Hill Premier opening in 1999.

She is mostly known for her acting career but also this moment in history. I typed into google, actress with hairy armpits and Julia Roberts was first on the list.

A hairy bottom on a sissy is not acceptable to the male eye

Why is society so against hairy females? It is a very natural thing that happens to us all so why do a good percentage of us dislike it on a woman and in general.

I’m a hairdresser (if you hadn’t realized already lol) I love controlling, styling and manipulating it on the head but I am not a fan of it on my body.

I will in the winter grow it a bit when it gets to a certain length it feels unclean (even though I shower 1-2 times a day) to be clear of it completely feels much more hygenic.

This is why I say to a good majority of my clients. Male grooming is a common thing these days. To be completely waxed/shaved or partially waxed/shaved is up to the individual.

Say example you drop something that you’re eating on your chest hair if you are sitting there shirtless or shirt open. To clean up a substance is much harder to do in a hairy area than a trimmed or hair-free area.

A hairy chest is acceptable if you like that sort of thing

Also the same in your manly area. Another reason also if you are looking to extend length (individual personal preference only) then trimming back the bush adds instant length.

Being that this is valentines day I should have mentioned this a couple of blogs ago so you be ready to woo your partner/date with a couple of extra inches (even though you had that hidden away in the bush that you were keeping for many years lol).

It is not down to me to say what you should and shouldn’t do but anyone that goes commando will understand that catching your pubic hair in a zipper can be very eye-watering painful (unlike the film ‘Something about Mary’, scrotum skin caught in the zipper) hilarious film but even I cringed at that moment and I don’t have a scrotum (well I didn’t the last time I looked lol)

So although hair is there for a reason (to keep germs out of orifices) personal preference is always a must to feel comfortable with yourself.

If you are requiring a body grooming session contact me and we can converse more on the topic.

I will look forward to hearing from all you neanderthal men or very hairy women lol

 

 

Tuesday11th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.73.

Why when there are so many nice flavors in the world that we choose to taste our on bodily liquids?

Is it because it’s forbidden in normal society or is it because we do it because we can. It’s because it’s our own and we can do what we wish with it.

So then why is it we want to taste other peoples. Total strangers that we have never met before. Who we have to trust that they are safe and clean but in the heat of the moment for some of us that goes out of our minds till after the act has been performed.

Playtimes have come along way since the year dot when everyone was doing the natural thing and making babies but nowadays we all want to see who can get the biggest butt plug in the smallest hole and cross-dressing to the opposite sex and do anything and everything that anyone can think of.

To many people tasting anything that comes from themselves or anyone else would make them instantly gag. Then there are some that would consume anything you put in front of them.

If you are controlled by a mistress then you as the client put your trust in her to abide by your rules that set out at the beginning of your journey together.

Anyone that she chooses to bring into the arrangement then she should make sure that she is confident that they are clean of anything unwelcome.

It still doesn’t answer the question of this blog… I don’t think there is an answer that is right or wrong.

We are all different and like different things, tastes, etc so as I mentioned previously every answer is correct in your own way…

I will look forward to your inquiries on this topic from all those that have strong stomachs…

 

26 Jan 2020
January 26, 2020

Barber Chair, BDSM Experience…

Sunday 26th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.57.
When looking for a mistress that will tick all your boxes of requirements it can take some time if your very much niche driven.
Especially when you require the hairdressing fetish to be involved.

Normally if a mistress is offering the hairdressing or barbering fetish then if you go for a haircut, 9 out of 10 times you have to wear a hat when leave and get to a real barber immediately after to save embarrassment.

My Stare Is Stronger Than Words

To be stripped naked and then strapped and cuffed to an old school barbers chair before your hair is skillfully sculpted into a style that pleases you is rare as well unique.

I  know of 1 hairdresser in London that does this but only head shaves and nothing else. So if you are happy with no hair on a wintery cold day then she is the one for you.

When visiting Mistress Lucys BDSM Spa (i call it that as I do lots of different beauty services as well as barbering and BDSM) You would come to my home.

A discreet street that is quiet and friendly with lots of free parking on the nearby road. It would be like coming to visit a friend with a dark side.

You would be shown upstairs where I have an open-planned (3 bedroom and a bathroom knocked into one space) entertainment room that gives a big airy (excuse the pun) space to have some fetish fun in.

I have an old school barbers chair, Portable backwash basin and a portable setting dryer (for all those sissy maids).

Hanging up I have numerous capes and aprons of all colours and different materials that I am making and adding to every week.

I am not a mistress that starts the session straight away as that could un-nerve you and ruin the whole experience. We will sit on the settee in the waiting area and chat for a while to chill and relax.

Then when I see you are at ease I then will say “Give me your money and get naked”. I’m joking but if you haven’t offered the tribute by the time we start then I hint by just say “pop it on the table before you get undressed”.

In some cases, if you would like it to happen, I will undress you in a mistress fashion but on the first time, we meet I am very mild so you can get used to me.

Once you have taken off your dignity (clothes) and left it on the settee I may circle you and look you up and down without a word.

Then cuff your wrists and ankles whilst your standing in the middle of the cold drafty room just to see your togger shrink (I’m joking the heating is on to keep the temperature at a comfortable level) but I will still have you stand in the middle of the room to make you feel slightly uncomfortable from my stares at your body parts.

The adrenaline rush that flows through your veins gives you a thrill ontop of the barbers experience excitement = very hard…imagination.

When I beckon you over to the chair with my eyes you shuffle over in anticipation whilst thinking “WHAT THE HELL IS SHE GOING TO DO TO ME”.

A Chair To Serve Many A Service

To the individual fetishist the thought of experiencing their niche is what really excites them. Everything else that happens is a bonus.

As you sit down on to the cool PVC seat the hairs on your body start to tingle but when you lean back on the upright part of the chair then the hormones start dancing.

The vision of your naked body in the barber’s chair reflected back at you is very off-putting but you cant help but stare.

The small white lights that frame the mirror give your skin a warm haze of delightment which funny enough you find very easy on your eye.

As you sit and wait for Mistress lucy to wash her hands in the cloakroom behind you, you gaze around the mirror at the aprons and capes hanging up.

So many textures and colours, that is going to be gliding over your bare flesh and roughing up your natural body hair. OOOh by now Mr P is really twitching uncontrollably.

The loud footsteps of the powerful lady herself edges closer towards you which breaks your concentration on your thoughts.

She stands behind you, raises her hands to your head and starts to lightly run her fingers through your unruly hair. This ignites what can only be the strongest feeling you have in your body.

You have to close your eyes and think of mickey mouse in large wellington muddy boots (or if that turns you on then something else that turns you off).

When she picks an apron to wear to shield herself from you over gown mop style hair she turns her back to you. You cant help your manly instincts but to look at her bottom that is hidden from her tight trousers but the outline is still visible.

“Mickey Mouse, Mickey Mouse,” you say to yourself as you don’t want it to be over before it’s even started.

The apron was all glossy and black, made out of thick PVC material with cream attachments around her neck and ties for the waist area to keep it close to her body for extra protection.

Pretty In Pink

Mistress choose a pink satin cape to protect you that had a tight pink collar (to match the material). It was very unique and never like you had seen before.

You weren’t against the colour but somehow how it complimented your skin tone which made you smirk to yourself.

As she swished the cape up and over your head to cover you from the front. The satin material softly caressed your thighs and then chest as she attached the collar under your chin and tightly around your neck.

Together with the cuffs on your wrists and ankles, you were definitely going nowhere this afternoon.

As she reached into her boxes of dark and wonderful playthings she pulled out some soft black rope to attach the cuffs to the chair.

From what you saw in the boxes it made you have an idea of what could be happening later or on another session.

As your hair fell from her fingers with each section that she took some brushed against the cape and apron. Hair in motion generally fascinated you but this time you couldn’t stop looking at it.

The way it flowed in the air and attached itself to mistresses apron at her chest. She caught you looking, so for punishment without mentioning anything she leant down and grabbed forcefully your dancing member to break your stare.

It shook you up a bit as you were in your own little world of what was inside mistresses blouse. From that moment onwards you stayed alert as another grab like that the fantasy was over.

The time passed so quickly with everything that happened. It astonished you how it all flowed so well and how mistress knew from your body language what to do and when to do it in the right way and manner.

The ending was teased to perfection and left you quivering for moments after with goosebumps.

When you were allowed to be released and you were in the shower washing away all your naughty thoughts of the session you felt a haze of euphoria flow over you.

An experience that you had been looking for for ages, even years. Once you have a mistress that makes you feel that way, keep her for your own little your moment.

As if not, Mistress Lucy Is unique and you will never find another mistress like her…

www.onlyfans.com/mistresslucylew – For more risky videos and photography that are not allowed on here

 

 

19 Jan 2020
January 19, 2020

S.P.H is not for everyone…

Sunday 19th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.50.
Do you have a small one??????? Well if you have you may be interested in what I have for you.

S.P.H means (for those who don’t know) Small Penis Humiliation. Unfortunately, we aren’t all born with massive phalluses but trust me a big one is not every girl’s dream.

The Smallest Chastity device ever

In a naughty video maybe your make loads of money but in real life, a female would more than likely run a mile if your hung like a donkey with a girth of a small person’s arm. Women aren’t that big inside.

Now don’t worry if your not of any size as there is loads of fun still to have for you. Learn to accept how your built and then life will look so much rosier.

The humiliation side of this fetish can be mild or as extreme as you require it to be but don’t take any of the humiliation personally as it is all roleplay…unless you want to then that’s down to you.

EXTRA…

If you are comfortable with photography and video shoots I would like to hear from you as I am always looking for unique individuals.

The smaller the better in this case. I am not here to exploit you but to help you with your business or make you a side business.

So contact me and we can converse more

 

19 Jan 2020
January 19, 2020

Chastity or Castration?…

Saturday 18th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.49.
When an individual is thinking of the topic chastity they think of it for a reason and the reason is very personal to them.
For whatever reason they want this to happen they have to do research and homework on it before it can take place.
Chastity can be taken light-heartedly or it can be taken very seriously. It depends on your reason for proceeding with this transition.

Metal Chastity Cage

There are many ways your can experience can take place:

Temporary Chastity – This can be mentally being told not to do something or have you pathetic member tied with a lace or silicone band and then removed at the end of the session.

Periodic Chastity – This is when you will have to purchase a chastity device yourself because it needs to fit your size relatively comfortable for the time you are locked in it.

Long term Chastity – Now this has to be taken much more seriously because long term can mean 1 month to much longer. Depending on what your mistress whats to do.

Permanent Chastity – This should not be taken light-heartedly because this is life-changing.

Cute Little Sheep Barrrrh…

The Permanent chastity can go to the extreme leaves of castration (in human terms is vasectomy or hysterectomy). Depending on how you look at it.

Many couples make a decision to stay loyal to each other and so make a pac between them and their love will keep that pac in place.

As in others will do something physical as in apply chastity with a device. Male and female chastity devices are obviously different and they are out on the market to purchase.

A different type of chastity that is extremely permanent is Castration. It can be performed at the doctors/hospital in a day surgery appointment.

Like animals, a couple of snips and jobs down but it needs to be done by a professional. Other ways are like the sheep, elastic band around the testicles and leave it there until they drop off.

A painful way but if it means no more lambs then it has to be done.

I am not saying I will castrate you but if you would like a chastity session contact me and we can converse some more…

17 Jan 2020
January 17, 2020

Popers or Natural???

Friday 17th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.48.
Prolong…
I would like to mention as this will include other topics that I blog about in the future.
Some topics will be hard to find images for, such as this topic or the person I have included in the blog I have not had permission to use their photography.
So if you see that I have not added any images please use your imagination as you read through the content.
Thank you for your time…

Everyone’s pain threshold is different as we are all individuals. The world would be boring if we all were the same.

When anyone is introduced to the world of BDSM depending on who is your first mistress, it all depends on how your vision begins.

We all grow with experience and follow the road that turns us on. As if you find out you don’t like a certain thing you’re not going to want to re-enact it again.

On a first time appointment, I always ask what they like and dislike even though they have let me know beforehand. It’s nicer to talk face to face at the start of a booking, it calms your nerves.

Also, your views on what you would like to experience on that day may differ from when you emailed or text me your requirements.

Poppers react to the individual completely different. It can relax one person and then again it can make another using the same brand a sissy girly way.

I prefer a client to be natural if they are experiencing pleasurable pain. As the poppers can mask the realistic uncomfortableness and then when the enhancer wears off your left with an uncomfortable pain for days afterward.

If your natural then your feeling is fully open to your mind and you know how to guide it for no irregular discomfort afterward.

The choice is totally up to you but as long you have no abnormal side effects then I don’t mind you bringing them with you.

I never have them for you during the session as I don’t want the blame for any allergic reaction.

If you would like to have a session of topic with me then contact me and we can converse further…

11 Jan 2020
January 11, 2020

New Hairdressing Fetish Cape And Haircut…..

Saturday 11th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.42.
Over the past year, I have decided to cut my own hair because I have not found a hairdresser competent enough to please me. In this time I have been able to design what I think is a style that suits my hair type and face/head shape.

It’s taken me a few haircuts to find what I am happy with but I think I am finally there.

My style is a basic clipper cut, contouring from NO.1. to NO.8. guard. We all have different skull shapes unique to the individual which unfortunately some hairstyles doesn’t look as good with some shape heads as others.

I have developed a bony head with my weight loss and change of eating recently.  I  have got to accept that I won’t get the smoother no.1. blend silhouette as I would have had years ago.

Before My Haircut

Oh well, That’s life. That’s what happens when growing older but I’m still happy.

I have to be in the mood to cut my hair otherwise I don’t feel that the outcome is what I particularly like and aim for.

So as you can see from the photographs that I woke up in the mood to go that bit shorter this time.

The reason being is that when my hair gets to a certain length when I wake and my crown sticks up, it lays very strange at times.

So the only way to sort it out is to have a shower which I love to do every morning but it then plants that seeds in my mind that I need a haircut very soon.

This firstly happened yesterday morning when I greeted the postman by not having the chance to looking at myself before answering the door to him.

After My Haircut

He probably didn’t notice but I sure did when I went to check after I closed the front door.

Also lately I have been looking out for some different hairdressing capes, to my disappointment I have not found anything but the normal production line cotton, cheap nasty looking plastic or children’s capes.

So as I mentioned in a previous blog that I have bought a sewing machine with vouchers that had been tributed to me on amazon.

So last night I started on my first design of BDSM, hairdressing, Fetish Capes. Although I didn’t need to use the sewing machine for what I wanted to do. At least it was a start.

Now I haven’t seen anything like this online or anywhere as I have been looking for a while now. So, as far as I know, this is my unique design and there will be more from where that came from in the near future.

Whatever material I can make into a cape and whatever I can attach to it to make it fetish I will give it a jolly good go and I won’t give up till I succeed.

What you see me wearing when I cut my hair today is my first attempt at this design but as I make many more I will get better and the end result will be more to what I really want and at a satisfactory standard. I do have high standards in a lot of things.

So keep watching this space for more weird and wonderful Fetish items.

If you would like an experience in my BDSM Hairdressing Salon contact me and we can converse more about the topic.