Thursday 15th October 2020
Blog No. 122
Corsets have always been top priority in my likes list when it comes to outfits and dressing up. All shape changing attire feels fantastic, hugging the body in all ways possible and making you look like you would only dream about.
The most fabulous thing about them is that they can draw you in at least 3 inches or more on your waist but the only negative thing about them is getting into them.
Its not like a loose fitting t-shirt that slips on very quick and easy. Its more like a 2 person job.
When admiring a statuesque female in a corset, the onlooker normally admires what he can see but never admires her for the before hand task of putting it on.
To get a perfect shape there should be a particular position you should stand in so your maid can pull those laces in to perfection. Making sure each lace is set just right and the underlaying piece of material under the laces is flat enough to join both sides of the corset together.
If it doesn’t and there is a gap then the corset is the wrong size.
When it comes to my appointments it can be difficult to have all the sizes and colours of the corsets in stock for all my clients. So I have to compromise on the clients shape and what garment is chosen.
Corsets can be made in all different materials, anything from latex to lace. I have grown to love satin corsets which helped me make my mind up into purchasing the emerald green satin corset (that you see me wearing in the photo).
I have had corsets from this company before and they are very well made and very hard wearing. They need to be heavy duty really as when your laced into the garment the laces are pulled in very tight around your waist/rib cage and the strain on the eye holes and hook fasteners is immense. It has to be to get that fantastic hour glass shape.
We are not all built to a size 0 but not to worry because corsets are also made for the fuller figure, whether it be male or female you will be happy with the shape that it gives you.
Only with the right size corset will it feel like a second skin. If the wrong size is fitted it can feel uncomfortable in a way that you just want it off sooner than later. Also an ill fitting corset it can make your outline look horrendous.
When the bones of the corset draw your waist in the excess flesh has to go somewhere. In most cases it will give you more of a bust than you thought you could ever have, even on a guy.
This is what I was mentioning about a wrong corset size. If you are in the wrong size it can push your excess flesh in the wrong places.
Also the flap of material that is under the laces is there for a reason…
It is there to stop the laces pressing on your skin. As laces pulled tight on bare flesh can cut in/chaff and be extremely painful.
If you needing to wear it for a long amount of hours and your mistress expects you to bend in all different positions then you need to be as comfortable as you can.
Truthfully i think corsets were design by an angel and the devil together because it make the our shapes look heaven sent but it gives naught/wicked thoughts to any onlookers…
Monday 6th April 2020
As the title says…Times are changing whether we like it or not. It is out of our hands, we have no choice and we are going to have to get use to it.
So it has made me come to a conclusion. The adult industry is not completely wipe out but appointments wont go back to the way they were before.
For mistresses and industry workers that have their regular clients we are not going to feel the brunt of the problem but for escorts ect that rely on appointment meetings they are going to think of another way of bring in the money.
Everyone that has started in this industry has always started as an escort to see what pathway is calling them.
For me it was the domination right from the early days. The escorting wasn’t what particularly like to do as it wasn’t the healthiest way to bring in the mortgage but at the time I had to.
Over time I found my vocation and continued to build my client bases and begin to enjoy what I offered more and more with each appointment.
So as I stand now I feel all that I have built up over the 10 years or more is gradually having to change to more of an online business than a meeting business.
As I mentioned in my last blog about only fans, I will be concentrating on building that up to a healthy business but I have had to change one thing that I have stood by for a long time.
To build an thriving onlyfan business it will not entice clients in the way have been before. Meaning an old school mistress.
My rules I have stood by will have to change from non sexual to sexy photography and videos.
You will be able to see parts of Mistress Lucy and see what I do in my isolation period that you wouldn’t normally of seen before.
The very sexy photography and videos will not be for everyone to see. This will be on request only.
I will be offering customised videos and photography that will keep you going through your horny moments of quarantine.
So click here > ONLYFANS PROFILE and then you will see what your missing, trust me you wont be disappointed.
In the mean time if you do want to talk then click on this link > contact me then email, text or call me, whatever you wish and we can go from there…
Friday 3rd April 2020
As the days have past and it has now been near on 2 weeks of this lockdown, how time goes so quickly when your having fun…in some cases.
I have decided to be a bit more lenient on my online entertainment.So as you all know me as the strict old school mistress that wouldn’t show a knee cap, let alone a stocking top I think its about time you took a look at my only fans website.
As the lockdown is going on for a lot longer than any of us was expecting the fact of £16 ($20) per month is not a lot to have your addiction of Mistress Lucy satisfied.
As I have mentioned before I put a lot more content on there than I do here because I am not able to put videos on here.
It will be a mix of myself, activities of hairdressing etc and clients that have given their permission for me to use their images.
Also this is a non login website I am limited to what content I can put on here.
So if you would like to see a different side to me than you normally have done then only fans is the place to join.
Go on, you know you want to…
If you do not want to then that’s fine but anything else that is personally customised for yourself that you would like to participate in (photos, voicemails, phone chat, video chat) will be charged accordingly.
This is charged by a bank transfer only. I would normally accept amazon vouchers but due to the financial situation of the world at the moment I am only accepting cash.
If you can not do it through bank transfer(depending on what part of the world you are I) then the other way Is through only fans as a tip.
It is a very safe way of transferring money. I have been dealing with them for a while ow and have had no problems.
The only thing I would say is if you have an international lock on your debit/credit card for my English fans then you will need to call your bank and get it lifted. I had to do the same when I called the co op and nationwide.
Any problems in joining just le me know and I will help you. Everything is a little confusing when you dot know how.
So I will look forward to receiving your emails when you contact me…
Monday 31 March 2020
It is very difficult to blog about anything else but what’s going on in the world at the moment because it is taking over our lives right now.
So I would just like to say thank you so much to everyone that has been so kind and generous towards me.
When I published my last blog on ‘Mistress Lucy’s Grand Sale’ I had an amazing response but in a way that I wasn’t expecting.
All my clients (more friend than anything now) said that they would send me the money that I was requesting but for me to keep the items as they will need to use it when thy come to visit me again.
Even as far as America got in touch with me because he had read a Twitter feed that I had posted a long time ago, continued to follow my day to day going on’s and felt that now was the time to email me and express his views.
I was so over whelmed because all my equipment has sentimental value to me, much more than cost value.
So as I mentioned in the previous blog, I am not giving up mistressing but I may just have to get a part time evening job to tide me over.
Until we all get back to our regulars ways again and thing’s will not be so rule educed we will have to bare with it.
It may seem like time is dragging as the days go by because you not used to having all this spare time but make use of it in wise way.
Get to know your loved ones that you are isolated with. You didn’t have the time before because working hours but now you have enjoy it.
So once again thank you so much for supporting me with your kind wishes and generosity and by all means keep in touch.
Also for some light entertainment take a look at my only fans profile as there is a mix of a lot of photos and videos that is exclusively to that website.
I am unable to have videos on here, this is why I have choose a different platform to show case them on.
Take care sweeties and I will look forward to hear from you when you can…
Saturday 11th January 2020
Daily Blog NO.42.
Over the past year, I have decided to cut my own hair because I have not found a hairdresser competent enough to please me. In this time I have been able to design what I think is a style that suits my hair type and face/head shape.
It’s taken me a few haircuts to find what I am happy with but I think I am finally there.
My style is a basic clipper cut, contouring from NO.1. to NO.8. guard. We all have different skull shapes unique to the individual which unfortunately some hairstyles doesn’t look as good with some shape heads as others.
I have developed a bony head with my weight loss and change of eating recently. I have got to accept that I won’t get the smoother no.1. blend silhouette as I would have had years ago.
Oh well, That’s life. That’s what happens when growing older but I’m still happy.
I have to be in the mood to cut my hair otherwise I don’t feel that the outcome is what I particularly like and aim for.
So as you can see from the photographs that I woke up in the mood to go that bit shorter this time.
The reason being is that when my hair gets to a certain length when I wake and my crown sticks up, it lays very strange at times.
So the only way to sort it out is to have a shower which I love to do every morning but it then plants that seeds in my mind that I need a haircut very soon.
This firstly happened yesterday morning when I greeted the postman by not having the chance to looking at myself before answering the door to him.
He probably didn’t notice but I sure did when I went to check after I closed the front door.
Also lately I have been looking out for some different hairdressing capes, to my disappointment I have not found anything but the normal production line cotton, cheap nasty looking plastic or children’s capes.
So as I mentioned in a previous blog that I have bought a sewing machine with vouchers that had been tributed to me on amazon.
So last night I started on my first design of BDSM, hairdressing, Fetish Capes. Although I didn’t need to use the sewing machine for what I wanted to do. At least it was a start.
Now I haven’t seen anything like this online or anywhere as I have been looking for a while now. So, as far as I know, this is my unique design and there will be more from where that came from in the near future.
Whatever material I can make into a cape and whatever I can attach to it to make it fetish I will give it a jolly good go and I won’t give up till I succeed.
What you see me wearing when I cut my hair today is my first attempt at this design but as I make many more I will get better and the end result will be more to what I really want and at a satisfactory standard. I do have high standards in a lot of things.
So keep watching this space for more weird and wonderful Fetish items.
If you would like an experience in my BDSM Hairdressing Salon contact me and we can converse more about the topic.
Thursday 2nd January 2020
Daily Blog NO.33
Nowadays when it comes to any product you can buy cheap and expensive but is the quality there?
I have developed a new fetish of my own when it comes to wigs. Over the past few months, I have collected around 25 wigs of all different colours textures and styles.
The cheaper wigs without lace are the very first ones that I purchased because of curiosity and when delivered was very disappointed but put it down to experience.
Now they have developed a new type of wig that is a reasonable price but looks expensive. Well, all depends on the wig how you style and dress it.
When i receive any wig through the post i like to wash and condition it. Maybe leave it in a plastic bag with the conditioner on it for a day or so. Some hairpieces if they are bad I have left in the conditioner for 1 week. Wow, what a difference. Much softer and the shine is lovely.
I then will detangle and blowdry it. Human hair wigs are easier to manage but fake hair wigs are more tangled and have to have more care of them.
I then look at the hair and what style it is already to what style I will cut it into.
Cutting wigs are different from cutting a human beings hair. For one, the model canvas head I have attached to my office desk is not always the same shape as the wig. So I have to physically put on the wig to guide where the ear tabs need to be and sculpt it around my shape head.
There is a difference in peoples head sizes but our ears are roughly in the same place. So I know I’m cutting them in the right place.
Its amazing how a wig can change a face shape and appearance. Just like make-up that can make you look like another person completely.
I love doing transformations, its so much fun seeing the clients face when I reveal their female persona to them.
As I have always said “Every human being has male and female tendencies in them”.
So even if a man looks very manly. He will still pass as a female when transformed. As there are a few manly looking women out there.
I don’t mention this to offend in anyway but I’m just stating the truth.
So the conclusion to this blog today is that you don’t have to go over your budget to have a beautiful wig.
I do do a wig transformation service if you have a tired-looking wig and would like it to be made over to look a million dollars (or pounds in our case).
Contact me and we can talk further. I don’t have fixed prices I just cost the job for the individual client. This can be done during a hairdressing fetish appointment.
I will look forward to hearing from you….
Friday 27th December
Daily Blog NO.27.
Branding…What is it and why do it? This can be performed in many different ways and for many different reasons.
It can be done through physical action EG: a shown tattoo/invisible tattoo or a burn mark/mental branding.
It all depends on the personal situation the branded is in.
When it comes to being owned by the mistress you show undying loyalty to, you both have to come to an understanding which is going to be convenient for both of you.
If the branded is in a relationship then a visible tattoo is not going to work. Yet a temporary/invisible tattoo or a mental branding will work.
A temporary tattoo is drawn on with lipstick, lipliner or eyebrow pencil can easily be wiped off with a wet wipe at the end of the session.
An invisible tattoo is permanently drawn on in white or light ink in a place that is not visible on a regular place. If you were to have it on your arm and although it is not visible without a tan when you go on holiday and catch some colour in a hot country then it may show up more than you imagine it to.
Mental branding is a verbal agreement that is not legal but stays between the mistress and sub.
No one is marked in any way but your mistress will say things to you that if you do not do as you are told there will be consequences.
To some of the more extremists a burn brand or a visible tattoo with an appropriate image that signifies your bond between the mistress and sub can be very possible.
I have also seen examples of piecings as a brand. You have to be very true to your loyal choice to have this done as this is more painful than a tattoo.
There are many more extreme ways to brand your body but to extreme for me to mention.
Think before you act on any of these things as once done they will physically or mentally scare you if taken away…
Over the years I have developed more of a transformation fetish then had I had realized. Starting as a child dressing up and being someone I want to grow up to be. Now it has developed in changing men into women with the full temporary procedure.
It is very hard to find a decent human hair wig for a responsible price. I don’t mind spending a pretty penny on good quality products but these days the advert is completely leading you up the garden path. You think you’re getting one thing and something completely different is delivered and worse in some cases.
I have managed to receive 1 human hair wig as a tribute gift but since then I have been looking and with no avail to find another of the same quality and better.
Yet I have been having fun with this one. Styling, cutting and colouring it in all the colours I that catches my eye.
I have as you can see in the image that my next colours are either violet gem which is more of a purple colour or I can choose baby blue.
When changing colour on hair (from experience) you have to think of the colour spectrum. If I was to put on baby blue after the red which still has undertones of the bright pink from before it won’t look baby blue but more of a purple tone.
So I am best to wait for a fresh blonde human hair wig. Then the baby blue will have a neutral base to go onto and then it will shine through at the colour I have chosen for it to be.
There is an art to colouring even if you’re not a qualified hairdresser but just doing your own hair at home.
I have had many a clients come to me with colour correction. It shows one colour on the box and then their hair turns out something different.
Reason being as I was saying before. Colour Spectrum. Everyone has tones in their hair EG: red, gold, ash etc and they are always there if you don abide by the rules.
That’s why it is always best to leave the hair colouring to a professional if you don’t know what you’re doing.
Apart from human hair wigs, I do buy acrylic wigs that look equally as great as the human hair wigs but I can not change the colour or put hot straighteners on them.
Now you know why I prefer human hair wigs. Then I have free reign to do as I please with them.
Also if they have mesh on the perimeter of the wig they can be fixed to your head like your own hair. This is so I can give you a full hairdressing experience without cutting or doing anything to your own hair.
See, I think of everything I possibly can to fulfil your Hairdressing/Sissymaid fantasies.
All enquires welcome but please abide by my age preference of 35 years old and over.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries.
It’s amazing when you put your mind to something and how you can really make it happen. Give it time, determination and will power and anyone can do anything.
I have been mistressing now for 10 years or more and I have met some amazing people. All walks of life in every way but I have never met someone as determined to change their life around like Kathy, one of my sissy maids.
On Monday 12th November 2018 I met a client that I had no thoughts about when he contacted me the week before to make the BDSM inquiry.
The first session went well as to be expected. First sessions are always a get to know each other time, especially if you are looking for a long term mistress, which he was.
Every sissy maid I have on my books I always gives a name of identity to make them feel extra special to their mistress.
The progression I have seen in Kathy over the months has been fabulous. Combined with healthier eating and exercise, the shape transformation and weight loss have been extraordinary.
In the 1 year she has been with me she has lost 5 stone and 15 inches off various parts of her body. In November 2018 her waist was 55″ and 12 months later it’s now 49″. That has been the main area that she needed to lose it from.
I always say if you’re happy in yourself then it doesn’t matter what size you are as long as your healthy but she needed to lose weight to improve her health together with other things in her life.
The main aim of a sissy maid is to please her mistress which is correct but everyone is different. I have rules for everyone but I customize them to the individual.
What is good for one is not going to be great for another. I have sculpted Kathy into a new person that she is happy and comfortable in.
The future brings many things to help her progression but they will only happen when I see that she is ready for the next steps.
So if you reading this and have a feeling you would like a life-changing experience or something similar don’t hesitate to contact me.
I am open to many things in this world but just remember who you’re talking to. Manners, etiquette, and respect are always a must in the mistressing industry. If you are not prepared to abide by the rules then it’s not for you.
Look forward to receiving your inquiry……..
When I need to go on a specific shopping trip I always insist on having a maid to carry my bags.
Northampton is not the best place to buy what I need but I have regular shops I go to if I can’t find what I want online.
This occasion was different as I didn’t need anything for myself particularly but one of my long term maids (that i named Kathy) needed to be spruced up as we have a few photo sessions that she needs to look good for. It has been a while and I don’t like shabby looking maids.
Some time throughout that day Kathy would get a bit too comfortable in conversation with me. So I then would have to put her back in her place. I am a down to earth Mistress when spending longer than normal times with me it can become a rather enjoyable experience. Also if it is away from my establishment and in certain environments then I do relax a little more and enjoy our time together but It does not matter if we were in a public place or not I am still her Mistress and she should not forget that.
I do not expect to be called Mistress in public, Lucy is fine but the respect should still be there.
We were out for 5-6 hours and bless her little feet, I did wear them out. Carrying all those bags tired poor Kathy out.
I did see one pair of boots that I tried on and I said that I would allow her to buy them for me as a tribute gift if the fit was comfortable enough but unfortunately, they were not.
As we were coming to the end of our shopping trip I had to nip into the supermarket where I allowed her to pay for my grocery shopping instead.
She was very grateful and will look forward to the next time I allow her to tribute me again.
As Kathy had been disrespectful to her Mistress earlier that day her punishment would be equivalent to the sharpness of Mistresses tongue that put her back in her place. The punishment would be 10 hard strikes of the Head School Mistresses Cane to her bare bottom with no breathers in between. In the normal session, Mistress would allow her enhancers to help her take longer and harder punishments. As this was a short, sharp and to the point punishment it was administered raw and without any help.
No one forgets one of Mistress Lucy’s punishments as I do not allow disobedience or if you do forget then you are quickly awakened the second time and then you remember how your bottom felt after the first punishment.
Gluten for severe punishment if you’re a repeat offender.
My motto is and has always been ‘Be Careful What You Ask For’…….If you don’t believe me, come on then……..try me….if you dare!!!!!!