Monday 20th December 2021
Blog No.158/ Blogmas No.20
Everyone that has a beating heart has the means to accommodate this fetish. We all have different colours of it and it has a valued purpose to every one of us. Some of us lose it through illness, stress, or skin complaint, and others get rid of it because they hate it.
Have You Realized What iI Is Yet?
Yes, you guessed it… Body Hair. Hair is Loved in so many different ways that it can cause all sort of emotions in individuals.
What Type Of Hair?
Hair in general comes in so many different forms that when on different parts of the body it sets off many emotions. Hair can be on the head, facial hair (men or women), Body hair (as in all over the body in a lite form on women or men) forearm hair armpit hair, pubic hair leg hair, toe hair. It doesn’t matter where the hair is there will always be someone somewhere that will love your hair.
Why Does It Arouse Us?
Attraction is in the eye of the beholder. It all steams done to how we were brought up as a child. If you were used to seeing your family members with natural hair then you will accept hair in all its integrity. If your mother was again hair on women or untidy hair on men then you will grow up absorbing these ways.
Hair around the world…
In many parts of the world, the cultures are all for nature’s way regarding body har on both sexes. They may not have the means to shave or wax and so the hair grows freely. So women may grow better chest hair or beards than men or vice versa but even still it is accepted.
Why Do We Have Body Hair?
Hair is strategically placed on our bodies when the animal was created in the year dot. Animals over time have kept their hair but as the human being has evolved we have naturally reduced the amount of hair to be acceptable in many ways. Some of the individuals of the female species have chosen to remove their armpit, pubic, and leg hair to be more attractive to the opposite sex…but is that proven to be attractive to the opposite sex? That is the question. The real reason hair is placed on our body is to protect certain areas as a hygiene barrier.
Overtime man has developed a fascination for the female hair pattern on various parts of her anatomy. The attraction is down to individual fantasy. Whether it is above board and in a visual type of way. By stroking the hair on her head or is it in a sexual desire to taste or feel the hair on his face. Either way, he has a Trichophilia fetish and he has it bad.
Hair Fascination Can Be Addictive…
Depending on what type of hair fetish you have it can control your imagination to an extent that you look at everyone you meet in your everyday life. You may have been attracted to your partner because of the hairstyle or body hair. Keeping your fetish alive can be testing at times especially if your partner has had a change of heart and decided to shave or cut it off to remodel her/himself. At that point you need to look elsewhere to get your fix.
Mistress Lucy’s Hair…
Over the years I have always kept my hairstyles natural or coloured, short or shaven. As I have grown older I have found that a shaved style does not suit me as well as when I was slim and younger. So i am going into phase 2 of my career and I am growing it longer. How long is a different matter, I’m not sure.
My subs and slaves seem to be a fan of the longer look with all the creations of my wigs and hairpieces that i put together in my many alter egos.
Shall Mistress Grow her hair…or not?
I did manage to grow my hair before I came to Northampton back in 1999. I grew it for my wedding. I did not feel like me. As I felt it had to be in a long hairstyle for the style of the dress. I loved the dress, off-the-shoulder, big long skirt with a bustle at the bottom of the spine. Absolutely beautiful. Size 8/10 I managed to get down to (but that was through stress. I wanted the day but
I was not happy with the guy. That’s another story for another time). Made from brush silk. When I think back I wish I had had it the way I wanted it but I did not have the persona that I have now. A lot has changed since then. It did not last. Hence the move to Northampton in the year 2000.
So I would like to grow my hair again but without hair colour. I think being able to set it and put it up in all different ways would be fun. I also could get my hairdressing kinksters to have a better time in session than they are already. I could be their model by washing, blowdrying, setting, perming ( water as a makeshift perm lotion and neutralizer) Colouring ( using conditioner as a makeshift colour). I have hair long enough to do this now.
If you have a hair fetish of any kind (only head and body hair, NOT pubic hair) then CONTACT ME and we can discuss your requirements.
Wednesday 26th February 2020
Daily Blog No.88.
When clients come to me they come to put their fantasies into reality but some have a massive shock when I turn out to be an action mistress than just a whatever mistress.
The difference between the two types of mistresses are that the whatever mistress takes on board what you say but does nothing about it and does what she wants in the session.
A action mistress is someone that listens and hears what you say and then at some point in your relationship with her she remembers what you have said and acts upon that fantasy.
I had a appointment today just like that. He had come to me for at least 5 sessions of 3 hours and I have got to know him very well.
He comes to me for his hairdressing fantasies. On the first time he came to me he mentioned about having a hand cuffed head shave. Now his hair was reasonably long for a gent of his age but this was so he could have a blow-dry and roller sets in a sissy fantasies.
After a few sessions he found he was very comfortable with giving me ides on what he would like but nothing to scripted. So I could guide the session how I wished.
So today he came in and we chatted as normal. He undress down to nothing and sat in the barbers chair. I turned into mistress as soon as he sat down looking at him straight in the eye into the mirror to make him feel uneasy.
I reached out to his am as I grabbed the handcuff that was already attached to the arm of the chair. I cuffed him on both wrists and went back around to the back of the chair and stood with both my hands on his shoulders for a few seconds to unease him a bit more.
Still in silence I then reached for my leatherette apron and proceeded to put that on. He didn’t know what I had in mind but he knew it was a haircut as he was looking a little wind swept and untidy.
I started this haircut like a normal haircut, trimming my way around what need to be tidied. All of this time it was in silence, no talking. Then out of the blue I stopped what I was doing and went to look in my big black naughty box.
I came back with a roll of PVC tape. I proceed to wrap it around his head and over his eyes so he could not see but could hear what I was doing.
An expression on his face, even if you cant see it all tells a lot and at this point he let out a big sigh as if to say “Holy shyte what is she going to do?”
I then went over to m trolley and opened up the drawer and got out my clippers and all 8 guards. I lined them on the counter so I could see them as I used them one by one. from 8 down to the shortest I think he should be.
Once he heard the buzz of the clippers he remembered what he had said to me on the first session. As I skimmed the no .8 over the top of his head he moved like he was startled.
As I went to take the no.7 and then the NO.6. and 5 he was getting more and more tense in his relaxed body. When I finally decided on what number guard to stop at I took off the blindfold to let him see what his haircut was like.
Now because he had a blind fold on I could only do the top and partial sides leaving the back of the neck and ears long.
He was horrified that I had the balls to go ahead with this erotic in his mind but not so erotic fantasy in real life. He sat there gob smacked not knowing what to say. That was good because I didn’t want to talk as it would of ruined the atmosphere.
We still had an hour to go of the end of the session but I said to him that he looked pathetic with a shaved head and that I cant stand looking at him. So I dismissed him and he went on his way.
When telling an action mistress what your fantasies are, just be careful what you ask for…As in my case you will get it at some point in our journey together…
If you are brave enough to contact me to tell me your darkest and deepest fantasies, go on…I dare you.
I will look forward to receiving you inquiries…