Monday 23rd December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.23.
As I sit here in my office at home with my array of Christmas goodies on my side plate and my vegan oat coffee I look over my emails and come across this particular one which basically asks ‘How serious are you about your career in Mistressing?’
I was a little shocked by this question as I was briefing over my emails, not fully taking anything in seriously as they were mostly junk mail from companies trying to sell me something.
So had to double back on the email and read it through again.
They wanted to know how I can take it seriously as its pathetic how men dress as women etc… “Oh dear,” I said to myself as I could see I would need to blog about this topic to put things straight with anyone else that thought this.
So just to clear this up once and for all so everyone knows what I am all about.
I am a down to earth person that doesn’t take any crap from no one but on the other hand, I am trustworthy and never judge a human being whatever their colour, creed, age or appearance.
Now if you are disrespectful to me in a very disrespectful way then that’s a different matter. My punishment to you will be personal because you have chosen it to be that way, not me.
If a guy has a fetish of dressing in silky knickers and stockings or wants to have a full transformation I will be very serious and embrace his fetish the way he requests.
Unlike some Mistresses who will take your money, titivate with you and then send you on your way on the dot when your time is up.
I am completely different…As I could make a lot more money than I do but then I would then be in the category of a conveyor belt mistress, which I definitely am not.
I concentrate on quality over quantity. I prefer to get to know you first then I am able to give you much more of a customized service.
Sorry for sounding so formal but this is the only way I know how to explain this to you without sounding shabby if you know what I mean.
I have taken many on journeys of transformations in many different fetishes. Doesn’t matter to me how mild or extreme you are, you are all welcome.
I do like to stick to one ruling though and that is my age preference of over 35 years old.
The reason being is that younger guys in my experience don’t take the fetish world seriously. To them, if they are paying for a service it has to include a partially naked or naked mistress that will perform personal services with them or to them during the time that they have booked.
I am not that type of Mistress. I turn away at least 3-4 or more phone calls or texts a day because of this.
For the amount of polite and pleasant potential and regular clients I receive, overrules the young pathetic inquiries.
As we say in the industry “It comes with the job” which is very true…
If you would like to a customized journey with a genuine, non-judgemental and down to earth mistress then i would love for you to contact me in your own convenient time.
If it is out of my hours then please email me and I will pick up my correspondence at the nearest possible time.
Sunday 22nd December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.22.
You may think the title of this blog is strange but it’s true. Marmite is an acquired taste, you either love it or you hate it. The same with tattoos.
Over the decade’s tattoos have become a personal thing to the one wearing them or it can be a tribal or gang-related mark that was not your choice.
Either way, the ink that is drawn upon you is permanent and should not be taken lightly when performed.
Many have had drunken holidays when they were younger and when they come back to reality, they regretted the art piece that they had chosen.
Like the numerous tattoo fixing television programs that can make you laugh and think “Reeeeeally” or situations that bring a tear to your eye because they want a permanent reminder of a past love one.
Either way, when deciding on your first piece of ink do your homework on your artist before you choose them for sure.
Like Pinterest or facebook, you have probably seen bad tattoos and amazing tattoos. Not all experienced artists are fantastic in their work.
I looked around for at least 6 months before having my first tattoo over 10 years ago. It’s not fantastic now like it was back then but my views have changed on what I would like it to look like.
I will get it re-inked and have the design made much better and clearer but I will never change the actual subject that I had in my mind for it.
Every tattoo I have has a meaning close to my heart and will stay with me forever.
We can never turn back time and when we have an experience in our life that we decide on keeping with us, what better way than to have a memory on your body which we have the option of keeping in sight or out of sight of others.
Once we start we can’t stop. It’s an addiction that I am proud to reveal. Urges are far and few between these days to get more work done but I will continue at some point in the near future.
Tattoos are mind-blowing when down well. So don’t fall into the trap of a bad artist because ink removal is costly and very painful.
It does not permanently take it away because you are then left with a nasty burn mark from the laser afterward.
What would you prefer? A Fabulous tattoo that you are proud to show off to the world or a nasty laser burn mark that you are embarrassed to expose to anyone that may see it by mistake.
It’s your choice…
If you have a tattoo fetish then i would love for you to contact me and we can talk about this further…..
Saturday 21st December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.21.
To anyone that doesn’t know about corsets, they come in female as well as male versions.
A corset is worn outside the clothing and is normally a plain material either cotton, PVC, Leather or faux leather.
A basque is for under the clothing. They are lace or a prettier material that underwear is normally made of.
The reason I say they will change your life is that they will change your look as well as your stature in every way.
If you don’t have a waist that is noticeable then you definitely will with a corset or basque.
It will take away your relaxed spin and make you stand, sit and walk with much more control.
Your breathing will slightly change EG: You will be much more aware of how you are taking each breath instead of taking it for granted.
I have dressed many guys in corsets and they are astounded about how they make them feel when laced in one.
It doesn’t have to be for a male to female transformation.
It can be for fetish play or whatever you choose the reason to be.
One thing I will say is when a guy is laced in a heavily boned corset they actually say that their admiration for ladies that wear them becomes greater than before.
Knowledge is powerful and fun at the same time.
So if you fancy experiencing being laced in one of my corsets then do contact me and we can converse much more.
You never know…You don’t know if you will like it til you try it. I will look forward to your inquiries…
Friday 20th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.20.
As a child, I would be taken to the local hairdressers every 6 weeks and have the page boy haircut. This was something like Joanna Lumley in the Avengers (for those who can remember that far back).
I didn’t know any different so I didn’t mind. It was the local trend at the time and it suited me so I stayed with it.
George was my regular hairdresser for at least 10 years and I would change my style as and when I was able to look after it myself better.
The one-length bob was my favorite style for a good while, Mary Quant fashion hairstyle.
As there are so many variations of it in so many different ways I would always find a look I liked.
I would get up 1 hour earlier than normal to blowdry my hair before school as if it wasn’t dried properly it would not sit right throughout the day.
When I left school I decided to go short as the other children at school would make fun of my ears as they protruded out further than anyone else.
This was the reason I kept my hair long to cover them. So when I started work I decided to go for a whole different look to make me look older.
My first real job was in a hair salon so I could have any style I wanted and it would go with the workplace.
Throughout my hairdressing career, I have been anything from black lopsided bob to short bleach-blonde crop.
The blonde I couldn’t keep for more than 2 recolors as I was very dark and it would take a lot to bring it to the nice ashy soft blonde that I wanted.
The last straw to the blonde phase was when I woke with a lot of hair on my pillow where it had broken off one morning.
Hence the 1/2 to a bolding fade haircut. This was the easiest hairstyle to manage but the fiercest hairstyle to carry off.
I knew I could carry any style off but its whether the people I worked with could look at me with it.
When your used to seeing someone with hair and then all of a sudden they don’t have any yes it is a shock to the system.
I was more shocked the next morning when I woke and scratched my head. Very worried at first then when I had surfaced from my deep sleep and looked at myself in the mirror I then realized that it wasn’t a dream.
Throughout the years, I have gone from long to short and over 2 – 3 more times in conjunction with changing my hair color.
To change your hair colour too often is not good for your hair. Eventually, it will give in and break off or go a strange candy floss texture and frizz up to something you won’t be happy with.
To find a hairdresser to cut my hair these days is a nightmare. They either are fantastic for 2 – 3 haircuts and then the 4th cut its like they go phyco on me and do as they please or just do a really bad cut that I have to redo myself and shorter.
So now I just do it myself. It’s a little difficult at first. With getting the hand mirror at the right angle but after 6 months of constant practice, I have it to a tee now.
I do have a long term client that has a short fetish so every now and again I will let him have a play with a longer clipper guard which doesn’t take much or any hair off at all.
Cutting my hair myself keeps me on the straight and narrow of emotions towards hairdressers. As now I don’t have to be annoyed at them anymore.
At least if I feel like a long hair day at any time I have plenty of wigs that I can choose from.
Just be careful of any salon hairdressers or barbers. Don’t fall under the spell-like I did and have to walk around with a horrible haircut until it grew out.
I have 30 years’ experience, so don’t worry your hair will be safe with me.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries. Do contact me and we can converse about this topic or others in greater detail.
Friday 6th Decenber
As I sit here at my office desk tapping away on my laptop with my Christmas lights around my barber’s mirror and the decorated pine wreath with a lit double wick candle nestles comfortably on my coffee table, I listen to the instrumental Christmas tunes on youtube. What a great life I have at the moment.
Thinking about it, 10 years that I have been building up to this point in my career has been a hard struggle some times but its all been worth it.
All the fetishes I have learnt to feel comfortable with over time have added to build my confidence in one way or another.
No one feels confident about a subject they know nothing about. Researching all subjects you practice in is a must to grow your skills to a better standard.
This is why trampling has become of my popular fetishes.
My footwear collection has grown to more than I can imagine. Including flat and heeled boots, anything from ankle to under the buttocks length boots. Shoes from court to strappy sandals, flat to platformed sky scrapper heels.
It can even be performed in bare feet or tights or stockinged feet.
The more slender the heels, I would have to be careful where I would be trampling you as I don’t want to pierce the skin.
Trampling can be on any part of the body including the head. It is scary to a novice client experiencing this but once used to it you become more relaxed.
Be careful when choosing a Mistress for this fetish as there are soft points of the head that can cause injury on impact.
Like any fetish, there are right ways and wrong ways EG: Caning. Anal and sounds but to name a few.
Experience goes a long way in giving you the right sort of pleasure in subjects like these.
Like one client that visited me many years ago…….
He had a thing about Doc Martin Boots. Unfortunately, he did not gift them to me but brought them with him and took them away with him afterward.
He searched for ladies with size 7 feet to complete this fetish for him. I saw him a few times.
He was a chunky chappy which was ideal really as back then I was a little heavier than I am today.
The one rule that you should always abide by when searching for a trampling Mistress. Only choose a lady that is lighter than you, otherwise you will end up in A&E with a cracked rib or hopefully nothing worse.
He would ask me to put the boots on (always with leather-look trousers, not actual leather as the DM boots were Vegan Leather Look).
He would lay on the floor, I would sit on his chest with one boot at either side of his ears so he could rest his head on the top of the toes of the boots.
We would chat a little about what he likes about this fetish and other fetishes.
I then would put the sole of one of the boots on his cheek and put pressure on his head by turning it into the other boot.
The pressure was quite consistent. It would make an indentation to his face but it didn’t last very long.
I would continue this all over this face and head. The boots and soles where immaculate even though they were clearly visible that they had been worn for this fetish many times.
It was only his head and face that he wanted this to be performed on him. He always stayed fully clothed because he wasn’t confident about his body.
He said it was the compact feeling that the boots made to his face that turned him on. The feeling of the indentations of that particular sole of boot that gave him the adrenaline rush.
It was because each person is a different weight and not known how light or heavy they would be putting pressure on his skull at that time.
When your in an industry like this, one comes across so many different weird and wonderful people with so many different weird and wonderful fetishes in so many different weird and wonderful ways that one has to be open-minded.
As I say “It takes one to know one”.
So if your weird and wonderful do contact me and let me know and I’m sure we will have some weird and wonderful conversations about it all………
Wednesday 4th December 2019
The world of BDSM and mistressing is extremely larger than anyone can imagine.
It can range from the mild teasing to things that are best not mentioned as they are on the cusp of being taboo. I don’t want to get myself into trouble.
I will only talk with the clients that are interested in those type of fetishes.
The one topic of fascination that has been popular with my clients is ‘sounding’.
This is normally a medical practice that is performed to gently increase the urethra to take out any obstruction.
Many guys have found this to be an arousing stimulation (obviously not when they are with the doctor but when they are with their mistress).
It tests your will power and how long your hormones will keep you on the edge of climaxing, never tipping you until mistress says you can or lets you.
I am into the art of edging and sensing what your body is saying to me. How you react at every motion I make with the sounding implement. As it stroke the inside of your uretha with the tender loving care that it needs. Heightening your sensitivity with every millimeter it moves. Slipping and sliding with the lubricant will drive you crazy as you’ve never felt before
I have added to my collection of sounding equipment over the years and just recently added some new rosebud implements.
The varieties come in all different lengths and shapes eg: straight, curved, bumpy (I’m using novice language so everyone understands what I mean).
They are all made for extra stimulation including the electric stimulation sounding plug.
So if you are interested in exploring your taboo side with me or even start because you haven’t tried anything like this before, contact me and we can talk further
I will look forward to conversing more with you about the kinky side of your fantasies……..
A while ago I had a phone call enquiry asking about a prolonged Doctors examination. I asked if he could elaborate so I could be on the same wave length as him. I had a idea of what he was mentioning but it is always better to ask. He continued by saying that he had been for annual check ups with the doctor (female) in the past but when it came to the rectum inspection he wished the examination would go a little further.
When he had finished explaining I understood his request to be a role play scenario where I would fist him and relieve him at the end.
I agreed to his requirements and to be truthful it was fun.
Since then I have done many scenario that have been similar. I have not thought much of it to let you know about this until now. I have decided to go full blown with the out fit and props.
I am not a qualified doctor but if you would like to experience a doctor that would like to get to know your in and out sides more intimately then let me know. Look forward to receiving your enquiries.
Well as you may of read about the doctors role play I am now offering Dental Surgery Appointments.
Have you ever been to the dentist and your sitting laid back in the chair with your mouth wide open and she starts asking you questions and she expects you to answer them lol well they all do it.
Maybe you have had an experience where the dentist has been attracted to you and started flirting with you.
Now your in the chair helpless and venerable. She touches your shoulder and whispers in your ear through her cotton mask ” don’t worry sir I don’t bite”. This gets your mind wondering ‘Holy shit what the heck is she going to do??????’ but on the other hand you have noticed she has been look you up and down. So maybe this could be interesting.
She leans in closer to take a better look in your mouth. Her perfume smells good which makes your trousers move. She then says “I will have to give you some pain relief for this sir but everything will be fine don’t worry” So she puts a mask on your mouth for a few seconds to ease you into wooseness.
From then on you cant move as you have realised its a drug that makes you helpless (this is role play I don’t give you any drugs).
You are very much out of it from then on but you can feel what she does to you.
I will let your imagination run wild from there……….I wonder what the Naughty Dentist does to you!!!!!!!!!Look forward to hearing from you.