Wednesday 18th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.18.
The Hair Fetish has been around since the year dot but is only brought to people’s notice when a mistress offers that service openly.
Since I have noticed the inquiries I have been getting for some time have been because I have short hair.
Each appointment can vary from domination because they like my look or giving me a head massage to have the opportunity to feel my hair.
Old Fashioned Barber
Either way, I am happy as short hair always falls back into place when finished being touched.
A woman’s hair can show a lot about her personality. Many females are frightened to cut too much off their hair because they feel it is their strength and to cut it would turn the opposite sex off them.
All I say is if your with a partner that only likes you for your hair and not you then your with the wrong person.
I am just me in general. No airs and graces and if a client thinks my look is too butch or masculine for them then, no worries just pass on by and thank you for taking the time to look at my website or profile.
Short Hair Can Make The Outfit/Uniform
Power is in confidence and if you don’t feel confident with short hair then don’t have it.
The reason I particularly like short hair on me is that I feel it suits my features and it is so much better and easier to handle.
I used to have long hair when I was younger but now I don’t have the patience to grow it.
That is why I love wigs or all colour and style. I can wake up one day and feel like being a black bob style or another day a blonde, style.
Isn’t the freedom to do as you please with your style amazing???
If you feel the need to be in the presence of a short-haired Mistress then contact me and we can converse some more…….
Sunday 15th December 2019
PostmasNO.15.
When a client inquires about Breath Control they nearly always ask about smothering and facesitting. To an experienced player in the BDSM world, they will understand that facesitting has nothing to do with a sexual act of oral.
I do ask if the client is good at underwater swimming. This shows that they can hold their breathe for a quiet a while.
Latex Smothering/Breathe Control
To perform a session of breathe control it’s not just sitting on their face and watching television.
Like any bespoke fetish, there is an art to it.
Smothering is also a form of breathe control but it is much more intense.
it is completely covering the head to make you feel totally intoxicated with the situation.
Feet Breath Control
It can be performed with any part of the body that will cover the nose or mouth or both.
In some extreme sessions, it can include the neck and airways. I have to be careful how I say this for acceptable wording but you know what I mean.
Everyone has their own particular way they like their fetishes to be performed.
The items of clothing can make a big difference also. EG: In a cotton shirt/skirt/trousers or jeans can very breathable but PVC or Latex is not.
So if you would like me to test your airways contact me and we can converse about this topic and more…
Saturday 14th December 2019
Postmas NO.14.
Good morning everyone,
This is a bit of a different blog today as I’m a day behind even though this blog is dated yesterday.
Sorry, I did not update my blog when I had decided to pack up from upholstering my BDSM furniture last night/this morning but it was gone 2 am and I was very tired.
My brain has to be in blog mode to produce an interesting blog and when Mistress Lucy has a tired mind is not an interesting mind.
I started at 12noon and (still not quite finished now) worked on it until the early hours of the morning. I’m a perfectionist (to best of my ability), that’s why it takes me so long and also upholstering, is not my profession.
So for those who have been following my blogs even before December, your know that I have been looking for a carpenter to make me a spanking bench of which I was hoping for a customized one so that I could have it just the way I want it.
Time after time people who were so-called carpenters would contact me and say “Yes sure I can do that for you” and in the end fail to produce.
I think I had roughly 8 carpenters that were complete fails.
In business, if you do a good job then your client ( hence myself) will advertise your good name and then you will get more work.
People don’t seem to think this way. Still, I didn’t get exactly what I have wanted but it will look just as good and will do the job that I want very well.
One day I was looking on eBay at some other things and came across this advertisement for a carpenters bench. Very chunky and not really what I was looking for, so dismissed it.
As a few days passed I was still looking for a bench but everything looked commercialized.
Anyone that knows me knows that I am not commercialized and like to be uniquely different.
Kneeling Stool/Coffee Table
I went through my checklist of what I was expecting my ideal bench to perform for me and funny enough this bench ticked all my boxes.
The things I wanted for my bench were the following:
- To be able to take any size and weight of person I have for any appointment.
- So that I have one piece of furniture to accommodate my BDSM and Massage clients.
- If I wanted to have attachments to it I could EG: Gyno supports, Stocks, St Andrews Cross (but my version), etc…
- If I wanted to have a cage underneath the table part then I could.
When having a piece of furniture made out of wood it is very versatile to do as I please with it.
Although metal is great and it really looks the part all I can do is hang things off of it and attach this to it (as I do not have welding skills) but I feel that it is not as sturdy as a solid wood frame.
To have anything like A St Andrews Cross or Stocks etc attached with wood I can attach with sturdy bolts and take off if I require.
I do like to put my own twist on things on many occasions.
So as you can see from the images I have attached to this blog the end result I like Is unique but clean cut.
Sometimes when having so much equipment it is difficult to be clean-cut in the design of my entertainment room but in my furniture, I will be this way.
Having many pieces of furniture will clutter up the floor space. Being compact will give more space to move around in.
I use my entertainment room as a photographic studio also. With backdrops for the male to female transformational photos as well as other things.
So I hope you enjoyed this update and when I have received the next delivery of spray glue I can start on the larger bench.
As the bench I did yesterday is the kneeling stool to the spanking part of the bench.
Big and bulky is the best type of multi-use furniture so it can take anything I want to do on it.
So do contact me and we can converse more. I will be looking forward to receiving your inquiries on any service that I offer……
Friday 13th December 2019
Postmas NO.13.
When anyone looks at a person in uniform it shows that they admire the authority that they could put upon you.
It depends on the type of uniform as to how much authority they have but a female in uniform shows a different type of authority.
Female supremacy is the correct title she is worthy of.
WRAC Original Uniform – Do As I Say Or Else….
The power has to be within her otherwise she will blend into the surroundings and no one will take a blind bit of notice.
She must stand proud of your sexuality as a woman, a proud powerful woman that if she wishes she could have any man at her beck and call.
To do what she wants him to do when she wants him to do it. He would/could be her sub, slave, and servant and he will love to do anything she wishes of him.
Now a uniform doesn’t have to be anything of recognition. It could be just the way she decides to put her attire together.
A Practitioner To Inspect Your Health
Too many media minds think heels are the top desire to see a woman in to look powerful but this is not always the case.
If a dominate female ozzes power within herself then she could be in leisurewear and trainers and the sub will still kneel at her feet and worship her because he is assured of her power and stature by the way she controls him.
Any mistress of recognition would not be in leisurewear and trainers if not at the gym. These garments have a time and place to worn and its not within session time.
If you like a powerful female in uniform contact me and we can converse some more….
Thursday 12th December
Postmas NO.12.
When I was a child to get a ruler across the palm of the hand for back chatting the teacher was a common punishment. Before then you would receive the cane if you were naughty.
Your Be Lucky To Feel The Strike Of Cane Boy…
Now in modern-day times, it has become an acquired fetish. As I say “it’s like marmite, you either love it or hate it”.
Life would be boring if everyone was the same and to be unique like everyone is we all have our own customized quirky fetishes.
All fetishes steam from somewhere. It could be from childhood or an experience you have just encountered in your past.
Corporal punishment is somewhat pain most would say only for punishment, if need be.
Yet others love the sting of the cane as a powerful looking mistress raises her arm in the air to bring it down to strike the bare cheek of your quivering bottom.
See This Crop… Well, You Will Feel It Soon If You Disrespect me.
Depending on what you’re being reprimanded for is dependant on the implement that is about to be used.
Cane, Crop, Whip, Straps, Spanker, or hand they are all collectively used for Corporal Punishment.
Now I would like to show you images of my experience but this is not acceptable on free, open websites.
So I will do my best to find some acceptable photography that I can use.
Levels 1 to 3 of Corporal Punishment is used internationally but where ever you may go to experience this it will always be administered in so many different ways.
Each mistress is completely different, EG: you request 4 mistresses to perform 10 strikes of the cane.
Studded Wooden Spanker… Oh What Fun
You give no rules and leave them to do as they please and how they do it you will never know until the first strike.
First of all, to say to a mistress to have free reign in corporal punishment is dangerous and secondly, you have not requested which cane she can use.
Each type of cane has a different feeling when used, for the mistress and sub.
When deciding on a mistress for your chosen fetish always do your homework on her beforehand.
As it can be a costly mistake to your wallet if you don’t.
So if you feel your bottom is in need of a tingling sensation then contact me and we can converse further into the matter.
Wednesday 11th December 2019
Postmas NO.11.
As like the last postmas blog this theme is very much the same but slightly different.
I do like dressing my maids up to the best they can possibly look but I also like having different looks myself.
A MIstress Not To Annoy. Behold If You Do…..
When I was a young gal I had gorgeous hair that I would grow into a bob and take pride in maintaining it to the best of my ability.
It always shone in the sunlight and everyone would admire it from near and far.
As the years pass by and my hair ideas began to change I decided to take it to shorter lengths.
Ever since then I have always dreamt of having the same length hair again but never had the patience to grow it.
I love the buzz of the clippers when they run over my skull and at the nape of my neck. It’s such a fantastic feeling. A bit like G.I.Jane (for those who remember that film).
So when I became more interested in the transformation of men to women I started my search for that ideal wig that I could put on when I felt in need of longer hair That gave me that same feeling of my real hair.
Strict and Sexy At The Same Time…I Think!!!!
At last, I have found a human hair wig in my colour. My natural shade of colour has grown lighter over the years but I still like what I have found.
It is a dark brown with a reddish tone which is what my natural colour is or was. Although the wigs look black in the image.
As soon as Amazon delivered it to me I quickly unwrapped it and put it on. I wasn’t sure at first as stored in a bag it was all crumpled and misshaped but once I had moved the parting from center to a side parting, wet and styled it I was very happy with it.
What do you think? Do let me know by email or text is fine.
Do remember…….It is a wig and my natural hair (for those who prefer me with shorter hair) is always going to be in a short style.
There are many wigs that I have got that I can also wear of all different lengths and colours.
Some in natural shades and some in wild and brightly wacky colours. I a strict Mistress but I do have an adventurous side to me.
I May Look Softer But Try Me, I Dare You……
So if you do see something you like me in (that I will be modeling at some stage in the near future in photos on here) and would like me to wear for your session. Then let me know.
Wigs are not just 30 seconds put on. The ones I have are lace frontals (which means the lace mesh hairline is gelled down to the skin to look very realistic). So it takes me around 30 – 60 minutes to get ready with a wig.
I am really into my transformation makeup now as so I can do amazing shades of eyeshadow to match the wig.
Do keep an eye out for my photography updates in the near future.
I will look forward to all your hopefully kind comments on my different looks……..
Tuesday 10th December
Postmas NO.10.
First appearances go along way in everything everyone does. Business or pleasure, it doesn’t matter. If you like something or someone the first time you see them either in person or online you know that you want to know more about them.
I was told many years ago “it doesn’t matter what you wear, it’s you they are coming to see”. That is true but also very wrong.
A Mistress Who Is Serious About Her Fetishes
Anyone that thinks that way will not do well in anything in life.
I always say, everything about an appointment matters. The place you have the client visit you at. The atmosphere in the room you take the appointment in, scent, sound, and vision are so extremely important.
I never have anyone else in the house when I take an appointment. Reason being that if the client hears something in another part of the house he is going to be on edge and unsure. This makes bad chemistry for a well flowed and comfortable appointment.
You may say it is not safe to be alone with a stranger…
A Stern PVC Look That Works Well
True but I always go with my instincts. If I don’t feel comfortable with the first emails, text or greeting I have on the phone with a client then I say “Sorry I’m not interested”.
Some females just take the appointment because they want or need the money.
Yes, we all need the bills to be paid but I don’t feel I need to take every appointment that contacts me.
The more experienced one becomes the more of a bespoke niche you can offer. Finding something that no one else offers is perfect but difficult.
So if you are a refined gentleman that is looking for that particular something in the fetish world please contact me and we can converse more of an in-depth nature.
I will look forward to hearing all about your wild and wonderful fetishes.
Sunday 8th December
Postmas NO.8.
We all love a shiny object but to the Magpies, they can’t keep their eyes off shiny things.
Shiny And Mesmerising Is What The Attraction Is
I have nicknamed my clients that are attracted to Black Shiny PVC and metal objects Magpies.
They love to worship shiny shoes or boots. Even to maintain and polish them for their mistress.
To admire the workmanship of the material that makes the footwear shine so much that they can see their faces in them.
When it comes to metal objects this is slightly different. It’s not the polishing of the items but to feel the metal object hanging from a part of their body.
Then to see the reflection off of the angles of the mirror images in the metal ring, cage, etc…..
Shiny And Metal, A Dream Come True
It excites them like no other fetish they could ever imagine.
We all have our own personalized fetish that no one will understand why we like it but we just know we do.
Light reflection is a big thing with a Metal Magpie. They have to have as much light in different ways shining off of the object that they can see. It makes it so much more exciting to look at.
Are you a magpie? If so, then let me know which one you are as I have only mentioned 2 kinds. There are so many.
I will look forward to hearing from you…..even if it’s not this fetish then let me on to what really raises your temperature on these cold winter days.
Friday 6th Decenber
Postmas NO.6.
As I sit here at my office desk tapping away on my laptop with my Christmas lights around my barber’s mirror and the decorated pine wreath with a lit double wick candle nestles comfortably on my coffee table, I listen to the instrumental Christmas tunes on youtube. What a great life I have at the moment.
Knee-length, PVC, Black, Shiny Boots With Rose Emblem On The Sole
Thinking about it, 10 years that I have been building up to this point in my career has been a hard struggle some times but its all been worth it.
All the fetishes I have learnt to feel comfortable with over time have added to build my confidence in one way or another.
No one feels confident about a subject they know nothing about. Researching all subjects you practice in is a must to grow your skills to a better standard.
This is why trampling has become of my popular fetishes.
My footwear collection has grown to more than I can imagine. Including flat and heeled boots, anything from ankle to under the buttocks length boots. Shoes from court to strappy sandals, flat to platformed sky scrapper heels.
It can even be performed in bare feet or tights or stockinged feet.
The more slender the heels, I would have to be careful where I would be trampling you as I don’t want to pierce the skin.
Trampling can be on any part of the body including the head. It is scary to a novice client experiencing this but once used to it you become more relaxed.
Mistresses Fishnet Stocking Feet
Be careful when choosing a Mistress for this fetish as there are soft points of the head that can cause injury on impact.
Like any fetish, there are right ways and wrong ways EG: Caning. Anal and sounds but to name a few.
Experience goes a long way in giving you the right sort of pleasure in subjects like these.
Like one client that visited me many years ago…….
He had a thing about Doc Martin Boots. Unfortunately, he did not gift them to me but brought them with him and took them away with him afterward.
He searched for ladies with size 7 feet to complete this fetish for him. I saw him a few times.
Black Platform, Skyscrapper Heeled Shoes With Black Latex Stockings
He was a chunky chappy which was ideal really as back then I was a little heavier than I am today.
The one rule that you should always abide by when searching for a trampling Mistress. Only choose a lady that is lighter than you, otherwise you will end up in A&E with a cracked rib or hopefully nothing worse.
He would ask me to put the boots on (always with leather-look trousers, not actual leather as the DM boots were Vegan Leather Look).
He would lay on the floor, I would sit on his chest with one boot at either side of his ears so he could rest his head on the top of the toes of the boots.
We would chat a little about what he likes about this fetish and other fetishes.
I then would put the sole of one of the boots on his cheek and put pressure on his head by turning it into the other boot.
The pressure was quite consistent. It would make an indentation to his face but it didn’t last very long.
I would continue this all over this face and head. The boots and soles where immaculate even though they were clearly visible that they had been worn for this fetish many times.
It was only his head and face that he wanted this to be performed on him. He always stayed fully clothed because he wasn’t confident about his body.
Flat DM Like Boots
He said it was the compact feeling that the boots made to his face that turned him on. The feeling of the indentations of that particular sole of boot that gave him the adrenaline rush.
It was because each person is a different weight and not known how light or heavy they would be putting pressure on his skull at that time.
When your in an industry like this, one comes across so many different weird and wonderful people with so many different weird and wonderful fetishes in so many different weird and wonderful ways that one has to be open-minded.
As I say “It takes one to know one”.
So if your weird and wonderful do contact me and let me know and I’m sure we will have some weird and wonderful conversations about it all………
Wednesday 4th December 2019
Postmas NO.4.
The world of BDSM and mistressing is extremely larger than anyone can imagine.
It can range from the mild teasing to things that are best not mentioned as they are on the cusp of being taboo. I don’t want to get myself into trouble.
Hygiene is always a must with any toy
I will only talk with the clients that are interested in those type of fetishes.
The one topic of fascination that has been popular with my clients is ‘sounding’.
This is normally a medical practice that is performed to gently increase the urethra to take out any obstruction.
Many guys have found this to be an arousing stimulation (obviously not when they are with the doctor but when they are with their mistress).
It tests your will power and how long your hormones will keep you on the edge of climaxing, never tipping you until mistress says you can or lets you.
I am into the art of edging and sensing what your body is saying to me. How you react at every motion I make with the sounding implement. As it stroke the inside of your uretha with the tender loving care that it needs. Heightening your sensitivity with every millimeter it moves. Slipping and sliding with the lubricant will drive you crazy as you’ve never felt before
Electric Sounding Stimulation
I have added to my collection of sounding equipment over the years and just recently added some new rosebud implements.
The varieties come in all different lengths and shapes eg: straight, curved, bumpy (I’m using novice language so everyone understands what I mean).
They are all made for extra stimulation including the electric stimulation sounding plug.
So if you are interested in exploring your taboo side with me or even start because you haven’t tried anything like this before, contact me and we can talk further
I will look forward to conversing more with you about the kinky side of your fantasies……..