17 Feb 2020
February 17, 2020

Why Do We Get A Thrill From Exhibitionism?…

Monday 17th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.79.
What is the attraction of doing things in the public eye? When we are carrying on with our regular lives and something happens that makes people that we don’t know stop and stare the adrenaline rush hits our nervous system in such a way that to certain individuals is a sexual excitement rush.

To be humiliated in the middle of a busy shopping area or crowded pub is the most popular choice because you are guaranteed lots of onlookers. Even though it may be staged the best way of getting an instant reaction is acting it out as if it was performed without being forced to do it.

Exhibitionism can be recognized in many ways but you do have to be careful what you do and where you do it to save getting arrested for indecent exposure if you know what I mean.

It can be as innocent as just having a heated conversation with a friend or partner to get your sexual fix or the endorphin rush or as risky as having intercourse in a very public place. As I mentioned before be careful about this one as exposing sexual parts can cause you to offend onlookers or even get the authorities involved…

If you are into the topic of this daily blog then contact me and we can converse more on the subject. I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…

15 Feb 2020
February 15, 2020

Why Does Punishment Hurt So Much…

Saturday 15th February 2020

Daily Blog NO. 77.
Punishment hurts in so many different ways, you are having it performed on you because you have done something wrong.
Many like to have this one to them to give them pain because it’s their fetish, kink, turn on.

The punishment all depends on the wrongdoing they have done. We are not talking about crime but a milder version. Although if people that had done something drastically wrong came to a mistress and not wasted taxpayers’ money by going to court etc it would teach a lot of people not to do it again.

The punishment, in that case, would be bounded and gaged corporal punishment to the highest level on whatever part of the body that committed the crime.

Your Choice…

For example, rapists then 500 thrashes on their member of the hardest strokes, Stealing then (depending on the offense) 50 to 1000 strokes to the palms of both the hands. Injury by kicking, 200 or more thrashes to the soles of the feet.

You may think that the rapist should get more thrashes but if you have ever been thrashed or hit on the member then you know even 10 thrashes is painful enough.

The punishment is worse when the individual is tied up and restricted, which they should be as I can imagine that they wouldn’t want this to happen to them on this level even in a kinky session.

The choice is a prison sentence or a trashing of excruciating pain for 30 minutes plus on the body part that did the crime.

The person who will perform the punishment will be the person (or a close relative of the person if death or disablement takes place) who had the crime committed on or against them.

Brutal but justifyingly satisfying I think.

Pain, as I have mentioned before in a previous blog, can be satisfying if you come to a mistress for pleasurable BDSM etc…

I have asked many of my extreme clients why they like the pain to such an extreme level  They have replied, to bring back memories and to help them go deep into their subspace where extreme pain can only take them…

If you would like a role-play scenario then contact me and we can converse more on the subject.

I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…



14 Feb 2020
February 14, 2020

Body Hair…Why We Need It?

Friday 14th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.76.
We are all born with a certain amount of hair all over our bodies. Then as we get older it grows to what our bodies require it to.
A lot of the time women are battling their body hair as the media says females should be hair free and smooth…but who makes this ruling?

A few years ago Julia Roberts gave up shave, waxing or whatever she did to her armpits and wore a red sleeveless dress to the Notting Hill Premier opening in 1999.

She is mostly known for her acting career but also this moment in history. I typed into google, actress with hairy armpits and Julia Roberts was first on the list.

A hairy bottom on a sissy is not acceptable to the male eye

Why is society so against hairy females? It is a very natural thing that happens to us all so why do a good percentage of us dislike it on a woman and in general.

I’m a hairdresser (if you hadn’t realized already lol) I love controlling, styling and manipulating it on the head but I am not a fan of it on my body.

I will in the winter grow it a bit when it gets to a certain length it feels unclean (even though I shower 1-2 times a day) to be clear of it completely feels much more hygenic.

This is why I say to a good majority of my clients. Male grooming is a common thing these days. To be completely waxed/shaved or partially waxed/shaved is up to the individual.

Say example you drop something that you’re eating on your chest hair if you are sitting there shirtless or shirt open. To clean up a substance is much harder to do in a hairy area than a trimmed or hair-free area.

A hairy chest is acceptable if you like that sort of thing

Also the same in your manly area. Another reason also if you are looking to extend length (individual personal preference only) then trimming back the bush adds instant length.

Being that this is valentines day I should have mentioned this a couple of blogs ago so you be ready to woo your partner/date with a couple of extra inches (even though you had that hidden away in the bush that you were keeping for many years lol).

It is not down to me to say what you should and shouldn’t do but anyone that goes commando will understand that catching your pubic hair in a zipper can be very eye-watering painful (unlike the film ‘Something about Mary’, scrotum skin caught in the zipper) hilarious film but even I cringed at that moment and I don’t have a scrotum (well I didn’t the last time I looked lol)

So although hair is there for a reason (to keep germs out of orifices) personal preference is always a must to feel comfortable with yourself.

If you are requiring a body grooming session contact me and we can converse more on the topic.

I will look forward to hearing from all you neanderthal men or very hairy women lol



13 Feb 2020
February 13, 2020

Different is Individually Perfect…

Thursday13th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.75.
What people like is not always the same. Just like why should everyone go with the flow of how everyone else looks.
I love to be different. Different is perfect to me. I don’t like being the center of attention but just to be me and be who I am comfortable with is the ideal way we should all be like.

As you have noticed I have been having a journey with my hair and what I like it to look like lately.

Since I have been old enough to be able to decide on my own look of the style I have always had a different hairstyle every hair cut.

Hair is the sign of being healthy,i have choose to cut mine because it grows to fast

Since I have been in the adult industry I have been much bolder with my hair or lack of it.

I have been a bit sheepish about going too short because of my age but age is just a number and I really don’t feel like my age, far from it. So what the heck lol

At the weekend, I took the top to a no.2 and the sides to a 1/2 blend. I have been looking at it for the last couple of days thinking “why am I not happy with it? There’s something that doesn’t look quite right.”

So today I contacted a friend as I couldn’t do what I wanted to be done and he could. I said to him when he turned up “just shave it all off completely. I have a well-shaped head and no scars so it will look great” so he did.

Wowee… it’s fantastic, A bit chilly in this weather but I can wear a hat for now and I have a white scalp (i will have to go on the sunbed a bit more to get it tanned lol)

I understand its not everyone’s cup of tea but I can wear wigs of all colors and styles.

I have shaved my hair off for the fetish look for my fetish photography and videos. The Images have come out amazing…

So if you like my new look or don’t then do please let me know as I appreciate feedback in all aspects.

Look forward to hearing from you…

12 Feb 2020
February 12, 2020

What Keeps you Slippery?…

Wednesday 12th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.74.
There are so many lubrications to choose from but what keeps you slippery at the most important time of play?

There are many slippery substances out there but do look at the ingredients before using them as if they contain the following it can cause irritation if you have sensitive skin in that area:

Slippery When Playing

  • glycerin
  • nonoxynol-9
  • petroleum
  • propylene glycol
  • chlorhexidine gluconate

The better ones in my mind can be Ky-Jelly, Trex Vegetable Fat or anything that is water, oil or silicone-based.

Everyone has their own preferences for different activities but there are certain liquids or gels that work better with other toys or gloves.

Trex is good if performing anal glovework but it’s hard to wash off because its lard based. Use fairy liquid if your washing toys and shower gel if you’re washing the body.

Ky Jelly is ideal for sensitive skin and it is versatile, Nice and slippery for contact playtime and also ideal for toys and apparatus.

I can only say about the experience I have had as a mistress but everyone has there preferences.

The main priority is to have plenty of safe slippery fun as no one likes afterburn of chaffing…


Tuesday11th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.73.

Why when there are so many nice flavors in the world that we choose to taste our on bodily liquids?

Is it because it’s forbidden in normal society or is it because we do it because we can. It’s because it’s our own and we can do what we wish with it.

So then why is it we want to taste other peoples. Total strangers that we have never met before. Who we have to trust that they are safe and clean but in the heat of the moment for some of us that goes out of our minds till after the act has been performed.

Playtimes have come along way since the year dot when everyone was doing the natural thing and making babies but nowadays we all want to see who can get the biggest butt plug in the smallest hole and cross-dressing to the opposite sex and do anything and everything that anyone can think of.

To many people tasting anything that comes from themselves or anyone else would make them instantly gag. Then there are some that would consume anything you put in front of them.

If you are controlled by a mistress then you as the client put your trust in her to abide by your rules that set out at the beginning of your journey together.

Anyone that she chooses to bring into the arrangement then she should make sure that she is confident that they are clean of anything unwelcome.

It still doesn’t answer the question of this blog… I don’t think there is an answer that is right or wrong.

We are all different and like different things, tastes, etc so as I mentioned previously every answer is correct in your own way…

I will look forward to your inquiries on this topic from all those that have strong stomachs…


09 Feb 2020
February 9, 2020

Is Very Short Hair On A Female Acceptable?…

Sunday 9th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.71.
Disclaimer: I am not ill or a lesbian or anything like that. I am a healthy, heterosexual female that is confidently comfortable having very short hair.

I have always had short hair I would say most of my adult life. I have gone ultra-short twice in the past. Once for a good cause and the other because I wanted to start fresh because of having to much color build up on the hair I had at the time.

It’s amazing though because stereotypically a woman should have long hair because that’s what the statistics say that the opposite sex likes.

These days anything goes and there will always be someone out there that finds every look of a human being attractive in some way or another.

Each time I have needed a haircut I have always had visions of just thinking “dam it” and shave it all off but always thought its not the right thing for an older woman to do.

I’m not a normal female (as everyone that knows me will agree). I am a straight female but I have a mistress personality but thinks like a guy.

As I have decided to delve deeper into the fetish scene than I ever have done in the past I have taken a few moments over the past week to see how big the bald female haircut is and whether I should do it for the 3rd time.

Click on image to see the full photograph

Whilst cutting my hair yesterday as it needed it drastically because I looked like an overgrown tennis ball ( the sides grow outwards now that it’s short) I kept thinking about taking the NO.1. all over.

I decided on a NO.1 at the side and a NO.4 on top (as you can see in the video I uploaded on onlyfans) .

I woke this morning having this very strong feeling of shaving my head again.  The reason it has been playing on my mind is that I have characteristics in my hairline at the front that will not sit right if not cut short enough.

So this evening I took the clippers to my hair again (what I have left of it) and took it to a NO.2. on top and a 1/2 blend at the sides.

I had a shower afterward to wash away the tiny clipper cuttings of leftover hair. It felt great with the water flow over me from above (i have a waterfall shower head from the ceiling) very cleansing.

All I can say to everyone who is against or dislikes ultra-short hair on women “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”.

Hair does not make a woman beautiful its the person she is that shines through much more…




08 Feb 2020
February 8, 2020

What A Fun Day I’ve Had Today…

Saturday 8th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.70.
Well as I said I was going to spice things up in the last blog and so I jolly well did…

Today I woke ready to have a full-on fetish photo shoot. I laid in bed (as you do) giving yourself a few minutes to fully open my eyes.

I then thought about all the wonderful things that I could include but had to keep it simple as this one was a full-on wig and makeup etc shoot.

I picked my wig and picked my corset then I thought about what I wanted to portray in the images and went from there.

Size 8, Thigh High Boots for Sale

When I was fully dressed, apart from the tattoos I did not recognize myself but that was the aim of the shoot. Not to be in disguise but to see how different I can imagine myself to be like.

The way I took the photos and then edited them as I went was just like a professional photographer. It’s amazing what a mobile phone can do these days,

I have been thinking of getting a proper more expensive camera but why should I if my phone does exactly what I want.

Also, I know how to operate my phone. I’m useless with technology as in gadgets etc. if it works great but if it goes wrong I stand there scratching my head lol

So I managed to get a good 50 images taken today and now I have to edit them properly and decide on the best ones to put onto only fan www.onlyfans.com/mistresslucylew which is where you will be able to see them.

As I mentioned in my last blogs that I can not showcase them on here as they are of adult fetish nature which is against the ruling of my website. Only fans are a subscription-based website that can showcase many different topics without question.

I have managed to sort an acceptable one for here as a teaser for you but the others you will have view on only fans.

A PVC and Rubber Haircut

I also cut my hair today. It grows so fast. every 10days I have to cut it. It must be the plant-based eating plan I’m on. Its like compost to plants.

I decided to dress in PVC during the haircut so it would help you concentrate…not. It is 30 minutes long but I will see if I can upload all that video or if not I will have to shorten it in some way.

I hope I can as its a good video. I went a bit shorter this time as it grows so fast.

Well, I hope you enjoy the outcome of my day’s input and do let me know your feedback as it would be great to know what you think.

Anything you would like to request contact me and let me know and I will see what I can do.

If you would like to buy the size 8 thigh-high boots in the image then contact me and we can converse more about it.

Friday 7th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.69.
Disclaimer: I have received consent at the beginning of each session before we have started to use the substances in play.

Well, what a topic of discussion today. It will bring a lot of tears to many people’s eyes that read this. As they may or may not have had an experience with one of these substances in the past.

Well, What Are You Waiting For…Hot Or Cold????

It may have been by mistake by not washing their had properly before going to the toilet or visited a mistress that has the same ideas as me.

I have had a few experiences of fun (fun for me not so much for them lol) with subs that have not behaved and needed punishment whilst in my care.

Depending on the thing they have done wrong, it all depends on what substance I will use.

Sometimes they don’t even know it is happening until their areas are reacting.

As the saying goes ‘Great Balls Of Fire’ or it may be ‘Iciballs (icicle lol get it lol).

They are warned before we start (as I have mentioned in the disclaimer) so I know they are not allergic to anything in the cream.

It is all good to have fun at the time but not to have an allergic rash that they have to seek medical help over afterward.

To feel the slow build-up to coolness on your balls is very invigorating and yet once arrived at the peak of the moment it can be a feeling of euphoria in the strangest way.

This type of play with either the cold or heat cream is a particular niche for a very individual person…

For more fun and risky photos and videos take a look at my only fans page www.onlyfans.com/mistresslucylew

A lot of content exclusively for only fans as my website is restricted to what I can show because it is a non-login website.

06 Feb 2020
February 6, 2020

What Is Happiness To You?…

Thursday 6th February 2020

Daily Blog NO.68.

The word ‘Happy’ has so many meanings as each individual has their own special meaning.

To me, happy is be able to have enough coming in to pay the bills and extra leftover for luxuries but to others, it could mean family or relationships.

I am true to myself. That is what makes me happy…

I know money is not everything as material things are just objects but being able to pay your way keeps the unwanted letters from coming through your letterbox.

Many lucky people have won the lottery and think they are set up for life. Depends on how you spend it is to how long it lasts you,

If you are wise and not over-excited about what you can afford then you will be set up for a good many years.

I think the meaning of being happy is loving yourself and being comfortable in your own skin whatever you look like and then others will like you for being you.

For many years when starting in this industry I was trying to be like someone else and not my true self. As time passed and I began to understand what I wanted out of life I then relaxed and the true me shone through…

Other ways to make you happy is looking at my onlyfans page www.onlyfans.com/mistresslucylew 

There are many risky photos and videos that you will not see anywhere else on the internet. Exclusive to Onlyfans subscribers…