Monday 27th December 2021

Blog No.165

This blog will resonate with everyone as everyone has the urge in one or another. The question is which way is the best way?
There is no best way as we are all unique and different In our own way. 

How many ways are there to have the feel-good factor?

Well, there are 8 ways to find the feel-good factor. Some you may be unaware of and some maybe new to you. Either way do try them out if you can as they are very toe-curling.
If there is anything that I have left out by all means let me know. I may learn something from you.
  1. Sexual intercourse
  2. Oral
  3. Tantric Massage ( this is far different from regular hand relief)
  4. Hand relief
  5. Wet dream
  6. Imagination – Talking about erotic experiences etc or sitting and thinking about naughty things
  7. Anal – prostate massage
  8. Your own Fetish
I will explain what I mean about certain ways of ejaculation and then it may open your mind or it may be something you know about already.

Sexual intercourse…

This is an obvious one that we all know about or if you don’t you shouldn’t be on my website. It is the man and woman expressing their feeling for each other in a physical way. Whether you’re in a relationship, one-night stand, or arrangement. Either way, it should always be of the consent of 2 people.
Oral Sex…
This way may not be for everyone and if not…why the hell not? To some, they think it is an unhygienic form of pleasure but when performed correctly and you have the trust of that person is absolutely cosmic.
It is a very old way to pleasure each other. As they say, “How did we eat food before knives and forks were invented?” This is exactly the same thing. Before toys and sexual aids, it was only what we were born with that we can use to pass the time of a spare moment. 
When it comes to the technique I’m not experienced in that field due to my celibacy for many years but when I did and with the right person I enjoyed it many a time.
I will say this now because I’m sure many of you reading this will have the urge to ask for this from me. Please don’t as I will only decline your request and become very offended. As you should know that I am an old-school non-sexual mistress from reading my likes list on my fetish page. If I would like to offer that type of thing then it would be on there but it is not. I am celibate because I choose to be.
All I can say is… be slow and gentle with your partner. If you are doing anything wrong then they will tell you and guide you. Do not be offended if the person you are with does not like what you’re doing. We are all different and like to be treated in our own personal ways. Learning is the art of the game and practice is the fun part. 

Tantric Massage…

Mistress Lucy’s BDSM Massage

This is a world that you never turn back from. A massage is only Tantric when the person who is receiving it has a connection with the person performing it. I say this because if the receiver is not feeling aroused from the moment he/she lays on the massage table then the massage becomes a Swedish massage.
From the first touch, the connection between you both should be sexual in a way that it sends vibrations through your whole body and arouses parts that will eventually harden and make you uncomfortable to lay on your front.
The warmth will of her hands enlighten your whole being. Now at this time, your imagination will come into play. You will have to control your willpower from cummin too soon. It is always best to finish at the end so you are at your peak of arousal. No one likes to finish early. Especially if you are enjoying yourself. 
The only way to control your flow is by think of something to calm you down EG: your mother-in-law or something that will turn you off. Then once you have calmed down to a point that you don’t want to touch her. You then know that you can build yourself up in your imagination again. 
Although by then you will be handcuffed to the bench/bed so you won’t have the option to touch her (well in  Mistress Lucy’s company that will be the way).

Hand Relief…

I didn’t finish the last section on Tantric Massage because tantric hand relief follows on from the massage. Now if your Mistress/Therapist knows what she is doing when starting a tantric massage then she has complete control over your body, of the intensity that she wants to build you up to or slow you down. As I mentioned before you also need to control your mind as you also have the power to cum sooner if you want to. 
Let her control your mind, body and soul is always best for you to have the full experience in the best possible way.
The tantric hand relief is never a rush job. It must always be a slow build-up to the point of tipping you over the edge but slowing you down just before you get there. I find it can only be done twice before the sensation disperses. Then it will be a very hard job to bring it back even if he wants it to.  
A nice slow oily and slippery finish, touching every millimeter of his length and girth will give him an orgasm to remember, and will definitely be back for many more experiences.
The same for the females. T.L.C is always a must. All females are like a beautiful rose. The petals are fragile, so tend with care. Be aware if you don’t then the thornes will appear and she will show you a lesson that you will never forget. a painful one I can imagine.

Wet Dreams…

Pinky and Perky

I think the term ‘Wet Dreams’ comes from a teenage phase that we all have experienced. Waking up with a moistness in our underwear (if you wear any in bed that is) and trying to remember what we have dreamt about. Wow, the topic of dreaming is a completely separate blog that I will do another time. I have often woke up and felt good about myself in that way but I can not for the life of me remember what I dreamt. Which is very frustrating as from the naughtiness that am feeling I want to know why I am feeling this way. So for all you kinksters reading this, dreams that make you wet between your legs can be of anything, not just sex or oral. If can be about females in boots or bare feet in sandals. maybe something that is on your mind but out of your comfort zone as in activities out in a field. Absolutely anything. So just be sure to have a packet of wet wipes in your bedside cabinet just in case. As it could be anytime. Wet dreams are spontaneous and could catch you unaware.


The imagination is a very unforgiving part of our body. I say this because whatever we wish to think we can keep it to ourselves. It is also a very powerful muscle. I say muscle because it has the strength to physically make you cum without touching yourself. If you can think of a moment that you felt extremely aroused you then can turn yourself on and re-live it in your mind. Building up your emotions to the extent that the blood will rush to your sexual parts and you will either have a full liquid cum or feeling of cumming and not produce anything liquid. Both ways are as powerful as the other if not more. Another subject is denial. That can do all sorts to your mind and body and soul if you are deeply involved in it but that will be another blog. That’s an intense fetish for sure. 


Customized Pleasures…

This is a very involved topic as it can be performed in many different ways. Not just angles but ways of bringing you to boiling point. This can be a very enjoyable time or if performed with too much force and not enough patience on a non-experienced person it could put them off for life. 
I had an experience in my early years that nearly did put me off of all sexual activities for life. All I can say is I underestimated how excited he was and didn’t think he was going to put it there. I had no prior knowledge as he hadn’t mentioned it beforehand. The pain was nothing like I had experienced before. He injured me quite badly and going to the no.2 for 6months after was a painful healing process.
So to all you guys and gals that enjoy giving anal please talk about it with them before creeping up behind them. Be very sympathetic when doing it as I wouldn’t wish the pain I experienced on my worst enemy. 

Your Own Fetish…

Now the last one is left to your own devices. Everyone has their own preferences. Whether it be a knee or armpit fetish or even consuming shavings off the bottom of your mistresses feet (yes I have done that one before aswell). Your own personal fetish takes you to a subspace that no other fetish can. A fetish grabs you by the short and curlies and will never let you go. You may have times when you forget about it. Then one day something may happen and it reminds you of it again. Then the stirring in the loins wakens up and then you can think of nothing else until you sort it out.


Well if you are still reading this and got to the conclusion then you are either sitting there with a very hard arousal and you need to sort it out soon or your eyes are out on stalks because your concentration has gone into overload or both. Either way, thank you very much for still being here and if you ever need a Mistress, Therapist, or both do please CONTACT ME and we then can converse about what your brain or Percy needs (or both). 
Take care in all you do, stay safe, and talk soon… 
26 Dec 2021
December 26, 2021

Z is for Zelophia

Sunday 26th December 2021

Blog No.164/ Blogmas No.26

Can you believe it is all over and done with, Christmas I mean… These 26 days of blogmas have gone by so very quickly. It has been fun and we are all that little bit more knowledgeable on certain subjects. Well, today’s fetish is, as you see from the title Zelophia. It was a baffling one for me as in many cases I don’t like to be this fetish. It depends on the circumstances are I suppose.
What Is Zelophia?
It is when you are jealous and love the feeling. As I say a strange one but there are kinksters that like that feeling.
It mixes in well with voyeurism. As if you are observing your partner with another person then that could be exciting in many different ways. You could be jealous of the way that he touches her/him. The way he gives her/him oral. They may react completely differently to the new play partner than they react when your alone together. Introducing new play partners into the relationship can spice it up a bit. The one thing that is a fine line between fun and reality is if she/he prefers the new partner.  
Like voyeurism, a 3-way can bring jealousy into the situation as well as other emotions. This is why having a 3-way is probably better to have it with 2 people that are out of the relationship. Then your relationship partner will not get jealous. Women do not like getting jealous of their other partners in that way. It can play havoc with everything and then when you plant that seed in the brain it never goes away. Instead of just keeping warm and then disappearing it grows on thoughts and in the imagination. 
I Don’t Get Jealous…
I used to be very jealous in my younger years when I was immature and didn’t know much about the worldly things of life
I’m a Scorpio and they are known to be very persuasive and controlling. Well, I am one of those things which makes me a very good mistress. 
Over the later years of my life, I have developed a way of thinking that changes everything and helps me to stay on an even kile to carry on everyday life even if I have a matter that is bothering me.
When I was in a relationship I would say to myself “As long as he doesn’t bring any STDs back to me and treats me right when we are together then I’m not worried about what he does when he is away from me. If he falls in love with someone else or chooses to walk away, it’s his loss. There is only one of me. Sooner or later he will realize that he misses me but you can’t undo what’s been done.”
If he thinks of me that way then ok but if not the life goes on. We are all here on this earth to look after ourselves. We are in control of what we do, how we do it, and who we do it with.  We may meet people along the way that may think they can control us and change our mindset but when you realize that it is wrong or right you will take the pathway that you are comfortable with. 
This was a difficult fetish to write about at first but then when I started to type it was easier to put together than I thought. Sometimes mentioning past experiences may help someone that is going through a troubled time when they come across my website. 
They may be looking for something to fill the gap in their life that they are lacking in. Many a time when you come to see me or even just have a therapy session on the phone it can help you fulfill that fantasy/gap that has been trapped in your mind for a long time. Trust and enjoyment go hand in hand when finding the right mistress.
I’m not going to make this too deep in thought but I am a therapist of many subjects and if we have come to a crossroads in life that we feel we don’t know what way to turn reading someone else experiences and mindset could help you make your mind up sooner than you thought.
Contact Me…
If this resonates with you then i would like to hear from you. CONTACT ME and we then can converse about your requirements and how we will sort out whatever it is that you are needing.
Just to make you aware… 
If you are new to my website please look at my FETISHES PAGE < (click here) first before you ask for what you are looking for. I AM NOT AN ESCORT. So please do not ask for anything to do with personal services.
If you abide by my rules and are respectful towards me then I will be able to help you with what I can.
 What The Future Holds For The Mistress Lucy Blogs…
I have mentioned this in a few blogs this month but for all that have not managed to read them, let alone the 163 other blogs apart from this one ( you don’t know what your missing, good toilet or bedtime reading lol) then I will recap. 
I will continue to do a blog for the rest of this month ( 6 days) Then January onwards, I will put together 2 blogs a week of random subjects. 
It could be what I have experienced in sessions ( identities will be covered in photography when needed and names will be changed for obvious reasons). Maybe topics that I feel are relevant to fetishes of general. 
Even topics to help us understand our bodies better. We take our bodies for granted on many occasions and expect what we want at that time, that hole will consume that toy and don’t know why it won’t or expect us to want to do a certain thing to a certain person but when it is about to happen we just can’t do it due to morals, trust or its just plain disgusting to us.  
This is a non-login website so I will have to judge the subject and PG it when I need to if you know what I mean.
Well, I think I have covered enough for today ( i love blogging for you and I could carry on with much more information. Perhaps I should write a book of my memoirs).
So take care in all you do. It looks like we are heading for rocking January unfortunately so look after yourself and I will talk with you again tomorrow… 


25 Dec 2021
December 25, 2021

Y is for Yeastiality…

Saturday 25th December 2021

Blog No.163/ Blogmas No.25

It is now Christmas day which means lots of lovely treats, sandwiches and cakes, pies and trifles. I hope once you read today’s blogmas that you won’t be put off of all those baked yummy goods.
What Is Yeastiality?
Well, my good little kinkster Yeastiality is having intimate times with baked goods. Yes, you guessed it. Sticking your todger in a cherry pie. Just like the film ‘American pie’. He got very curious (as you do or do you?) as to what a juicy, soft, filling of a cherry pie would feel like if he submerged his hard thallus inside it.
Unfortunately, he got caught by his dad (how do you explain that one with cherry sauce dripping off your pubic hair !) Sorry, but I couldn’t resist saying that. A totally hilarious film for the subject it was about. I only watched it once as when you know what’s coming (excuse the pun) it’s not so funny a second time around.
I also ask myself the same question but if the kinkster can not get a female to act out his fantasies with then why not???? As they say “No cherry pies were hurt in this experiment and they weren’t wasted as I’m sure they were consumed….or maybe not.  As a prank, they could have offered the pie to a family member when they went home. That would be quite funny. Thinking about it if he really had a good time with the pie it would be completely demolished and would not be recognizable as a pie anymore.

Can’t Beat A Good Glazed Doughnut…

As I am typing this I am physically giggling to myself lol I have a wicked imagination sometimes, well all the time actually.
If you are not a fan of cherry pie then maybe an apple pie or even a ring doughnut. Maybe a mini one depending on the girth of your throbbing erection. It’s only what I have been told…I don’t actually know this information…or do I !!!!!!!
On that note…
I will bid you a Happy Christmas. Enjoy all those baked goods that will be on offer to you and let your imagination run wild whilst chopping through the succulent sweetness but do have respect for your elders. As granny doesn’t want to be munch through the black forest gateaux with yummy desperation to find a short and curl sitting on the cherry 2 inches from the end of her nose.
As we all know dentists are expensive and so are false teeth. If they drop to the floor as her bottom jaw falls to her chest in shock horror, they may bounce and break. You don’t want to cover that cost. Do you????
Contact Me…
So If you are in knead of a cherry or apple pie experience or a ring doughnut, BDSM fantasy put into reality CONTACT ME and we can converse about your requirements and I will see what sweet concocktion I can whip up for you.
So cake care in all you do and stay safe this holiday. As you don’t want to trifle with stupidity and wreck the rest of your festive cheers. As you would feel a right doughnut if you do.
24 Dec 2021
December 24, 2021

X is for X-rated…

Friday 24th December 2021

Blog No.162/ Blogmas No.24

Although It’s Not An X-rated Image It is As Risky As I Can Be, As This Is A Non-Login Website…

Wowee Who would have thought that December could have passed so quickly. I must admit it has been difficult to fit the daily blogmas and my website work on the same day but I got there, well nearly there. As we still have today and tomorrow of Blogmas and then 6 days of December from then on. I will see about 2 blogs a week from January onwards. Random subjects but will still be interesting. 
Now I know I have mentioned that other letters are difficult to find a fetish for but this is really difficult as nothing came up when I googled it. So all can think of is X-Rated. 
18 Plus…
X-rated is, as we all know not for under 18 years olds but I think and I know you think that kids know a lot more than we let on. I’m not going to go on like that as I will show my age but times have changed.
What Is Classed As X-Rated?…

Hog Tied And Waiting To Be Roasted. Risky In Words And The Rest Left To Your Imagination…

Laws these days are good for one and not for another. it’s the same as when adult websites will not allow BDSM photographs but they will allow females with all showing all their wares on non-login websites. This means underage kids can look at it all   Crazy but it will still get through the rules in one way or another. 
Different Opinions As To What Is Explicit And What Is Normal…
As I am in the industry I feel that BDSM and naked male bodies are normal to me (I have a different normal to everyone else) but to someone that is a regular lifestyle and X-rated viewing is a luxury at weekends maybe would think it is not normal. I do not mix with females in my line of sessions. There are more guys that are interested in seeking a mistress to session with than females. Then when they do contact me I am very wary and give them a lot more questions to reply to than I would a guy.
Contact me…
On this point, I would mention to contact me and we can converse about your fetish but I don’t take part in anything that you would call X-rated. If it is along the line of BDSM or anything on my likes list then do CONTACT ME and yes we can converse about it. 
I will look forward to any one of you that abides by what I have requested and hear from you soon…
24 Dec 2021
December 24, 2021

W is for Waist Sculpting And Worship…

Thursday 23th December 2021

Blog No.161/ Blogmas No.23

“Please accept my apologies as this Blogmas is late but I have had a build-up of things to complete and I was unable to fit this in in the time frame of the 23rd December. Please enjoy and let me know what you think if you wish.” 

When looking for fetishes for certain letters of the alphabet it is testing, very testing indeed. I didn’t want to do just normal fetishes but I couldn’t think of anything else apart from whipping which is part of corporal Punishment and wrestling which is something I don’t offer. Then I thought… Waist sculpting is a fetish for small waists.
When It was First Brought To Our Attention…

Thursday 23rd December 2021
Blog No.161/ Blogmas No.23

Waist sculpting is a very old fetish that goes back to Greek times and before. The terminology for sculpting garments changed through the centuries
The first recorded corset-style garment was recorded in Crete, Greece 3500 BC, and worn by the Minoan people. The garment was worn to accentuate the curves of the torso and uplift the bustline as they did not have bra’s in those days. As a young woman would grow through her teens and into her adult life she would be made to wear a corset continuously so her form would grow in the shape of the cotte. Both Minoan men and women were trained this way. The particular cote that you see in the image is called a ‘Zona’. which was only designed for women at that time.
In The Later Centuries…
In the 12 century, the boned stiffness was sewn into the dress that madam would require. In this era, there were no undergarments such as corsets. The dress would have customized boning where the torso needed it to make the female look her very best. 

Thursday 23rd December 2021
Blog No.161/ Blogmas No.23

Skipping a few centuries as trust me I love doing this research and I could write a book on corsetry and waist sculpting but this is a blog, not a lecture or book so I need to keep it compacted and to the point without boring you too much”. 
In the 17th Century, a female-boned undergarment was introduced as an easier way to sculpt the waist and keep it minimal. This was known as a ‘Stay’. It was a very basic design but because it was at the beginning of something big in the fashion world there was plenty of room for improvement. It was designed without a front closure and only laces at the back for tightening and keeping in place. Being that it was a foundation garment to be worn under the lady’s clothing it had to be minimal but sturdy.
In the 18th Century, the stay evolved into becoming known as a corset. This was much more structured and the design became a little more adventurous. As from then on it became a fashion that everyone wanted to wear, even men. 
The Last Few Centuries…

The 17th, 18th, and 19th Centuries have become a mixed fashion evolvement. As you see from the image,  the stay has changed and is now known as a corset. Going from a classic form to an underbust and overbust and many more exquisitely detailed designs that have been used as undergarments and over the top of clothes to make a statement in an outfit, you would feel confident in.
In all of these cottes, stays, and corsets they have all been abiding by the one job that they have and that is to give the form a better silhouette and make the individual feel better about themselves.
I am a big fan of corsets, I have been for years. Although on me I am not a lover of waist sculpting in the long term. I do love to wear them to sculpt the body I do have right now. I
It doesn’t matter what size you are, if you feel good in all you wear then the confidence will radiate from you. 
Corsets come in all sizes so if you want to wear one to give you a better shape and to make you feel good then go ahead and do it. 
Life is far too short to worry about what people think. Yes, there may be someone else that looks better than you but if you’re comfortable in the skin that you were born in then that is all that matters.
Don’t Ever Forget…
You are unique and beautiful in your own way. So love yourself and then your find everyone else will be drawn to you.
Contact Me…
If you feel you would like to have some training on corsetry and what you need to feel and look better then, by all means, CONTACT ME and we can converse about your requirements.

Disclaimer – The information for this Blogmas was taken from numerous amount contacts that I have added the sources for you to look at if you wish.

22 Dec 2021
December 22, 2021

V is for Voyeurism and Vicarphilia…

Wednesday 22th December 2021

Blog No.160/ Blogmas No.22 

Time to get Christmassy

As I sit at my laptop with my mug of coffee and 2 mince pies (sorry just eat them) and chocolate biscuits trying to feel Christmasy, I think of how I am going to put today’s blogmas together.
A Combination of The Two Fetishes Flows Perfectly…
Vicarphilia is a very different type of fetish but it’s one that we all have in our list of likes without knowing it. It’s the desire to listen to naughty stories of people’s experiences or to converse with a friend/mistress/therapist about sexual adventures. This combined with Voyeurism is a perfect combination for today’s blogmas.
Why do we love watching…
Watching any sexual/fetish act is arousing in the mind of the kinkster. We all have our own fetishes that we like more than others. These would be more arousing to us than the less interesting topics. 
Voyeurism also can be a learning process as well as a topic of interest. If the couple that is performing in front of you are expecting you to join in in due course, then observing how and what they are doing will give you an insight into how they would like you to do things. Not every technique is favorable to everyone.
At the end of your time together is a perfect time to talk about and go through what happened, how you felt whilst you were tending each other, etc… This can also be a very sexy time for all of you. Maybe acting out what your trying to say may give you all an opportunity for round 2. Everyone needs a breather in between ejaculations. Respect each other’s time and requests and you could have yourself a long term relationship with a very handy couple of friends.
Therapy Service Only… 
If you are in need of a Vicraphilia Therapist then do CONTACT ME and we can arrange a date and a time to converse about your request. This type of therapy is ideal on the phone or WhatsApp/skype video calling.
My tributes are dependant on how long you would like but we can discuss that when you contact me. 
21 Dec 2021
December 21, 2021

U is for Urolagnia…

Tuesday 21th December 2021

Blog No.159/ Blogmas No.21

This may be a familiar fetish with yourself or not, even so, when you realize what it is you will understand why less than 5% of the world have enjoyed it or not enjoyed it. The fetish called Urolagnia is commonly known as water sports.
An interaction that could offend some people if their partner was to accidentally do it during their intimate time together or may enjoy it. There are many things that can be involved in this fetish topic but I will only be talking about a couple of them today.
Sexual Act…
It can be known as a sexual act if the person consents to it happening or it can be an insult that is performed to show hatred. When you are involved in such an act you much make sure that the person’s urine does not make contact with you if you have a cut or an open wound.
Urine is not hygienic to consume and can transfer germs from one person to another via the open wound. Yes, it can be exciting to have a woman squirt on you but that is something completely different.
Female Squirting…
Female squirting is in with this fetish but it is a weaker fluid than urine. The gland tissue that produces fluid (located at the G-Spot) guides the fluid to the urethra but it back steps to the bladder when the woman has a moment of extreme excitement. This is the same as when a guy produces pre-cum before ejaculating.
The First Time It Happens…
When it happens to a woman it is a bit confusing at first. When a guy experiences it from a woman he becomes either excited and interested even more or disgusted until he understands what it really is. Even when he understands what it is he still may be degusted depending on what fetishes he is into.
A Word Of Advice…
If you have a partner that squirts, enjoy it when it happens (obviously have loads of towels ready to save the area you are laying in from getting soaked, and then you will have to sleep elsewhere) as it will not happen every time. Please don’t expect it to happen every time. Most females, don’t know when it happens until it does. Also, don’t be disappointed in your partner if she can not do it when you want it to happen. Most females can not do it on command. If they do then it is not true squirt. It is pure urine. 
When will it happen?…
If you are treating your female right and touching her right she will be much more relaxed and then her body will reward you for what you would like to see. One thing there is to take into consideration…if she has a bad day at work or she is stressed in any way then her body will shut down even if she wants to have intimate time with you to try to destress her. Sometimes the human body does not always have contact with the brain when you want it to. 
Have patience…
You can not rush a feeling. When it is ready to give your lady a ride of her life, not even she will know until it happens. So as I say have patience and in time you will be gifted when you’re not expecting it. 
Everyone loves nice surprises. So embrace it when it is given to you. If you don’t embrace it and show her you’re not excited by it then just be ready for a cold shoulder from her. Turning the sexy mood off in an instant is a very good way for cutting short your intimate time. Also, that may end your intimate time permanently because a woman never forgets a brush-off.  As a female is very good at making things seem ok but deep down she will wait for the right time to get her revenge. 
Don’t contact me for this fetish…
Now although I always say at the end of a blog “Contact me if you are interested in this fetish”. For this fetish, I will be happy to do a therapy session (talking and explaining) with you to improve your intimate time but I am not offering a service of me doing this fetish.
I thought I would mention this in case you had other ideas. So do CONTACT ME if you need some therapy. 
20 Dec 2021
December 20, 2021

T is for Trichophilia…

Monday 20th December 2021

Blog No.158/ Blogmas No.20

December 2021

Everyone that has a beating heart has the means to accommodate this fetish. We all have different colours of it and it has a valued purpose to every one of us. Some of us lose it through illness, stress, or skin complaint, and others get rid of it because they hate it. 

Have You Realized What iI Is Yet?
Yes, you guessed it… Body Hair. Hair is Loved in so many different ways that it can cause all sort of emotions in individuals.
What Type Of Hair?
Hair in general comes in so many different forms that when on different parts of the body it sets off many emotions. Hair can be on the head, facial hair (men or women),  Body hair (as in all over the body in a lite form on women or men) forearm hair armpit hair, pubic hair leg hair, toe hair. It doesn’t matter where the hair is there will always be someone somewhere that will love your hair.
Why Does It Arouse Us?
Attraction is in the eye of the beholder. It all steams done to how we were brought up as a child. If you were used to seeing your family members with natural hair then you will accept hair in all its integrity. If your mother was again hair on women or untidy hair on men then you will grow up absorbing these ways.  
Hair around the world…
In many parts of the world, the cultures are all for nature’s way regarding body har on both sexes. They may not have the means to shave or wax and so the hair grows freely. So women may grow better chest hair or beards than men or vice versa but even still it is accepted. 
Why Do We Have Body Hair?

I Don’t Have Much Hair Here (I’ve been tweezering for 20 years)

Hair is strategically placed on our bodies when the animal was created in the year dot. Animals over time have kept their hair but as the human being has evolved we have naturally reduced the amount of hair to be acceptable in many ways. Some of the individuals of the female species have chosen to remove their armpit, pubic, and leg hair to be more attractive to the opposite sex…but is that proven to be attractive to the opposite sex? That is the question. The real reason hair is placed on our body is to protect certain areas as a hygiene barrier.
Trichophilia Fantasy…
Overtime man has developed a fascination for the female hair pattern on various parts of her anatomy. The attraction is down to individual fantasy. Whether it is above board and in a visual type of way. By stroking the hair on her head or is it in a sexual desire to taste or feel the hair on his face. Either way, he has a Trichophilia fetish and he has it bad. 
Hair Fascination Can Be Addictive…
Depending on what type of hair fetish you have it can control your imagination to an extent that you look at everyone you meet in your everyday life. You may have been attracted to your partner because of the hairstyle or body hair. Keeping your fetish alive can be testing at times especially if your partner has had a change of heart and decided to shave or cut it off to remodel her/himself. At that point you need to look elsewhere to get your fix.
Mistress Lucy’s Hair…

I Became A Princess For Day…So Not The Real Me…

Over the years I have always kept my hairstyles natural or coloured, short or shaven. As I have grown older I have found that a shaved style does not suit me as well as when I was slim and younger. So i am going into phase 2 of my career and I am growing it longer. How long is a different matter, I’m not sure.
My subs and slaves seem to be a fan of the longer look with all the creations of my wigs and hairpieces that i put together in my many alter egos.
Shall Mistress Grow her hair…or not?
I did manage to grow my hair before I came to Northampton back in 1999. I grew it for my wedding. I did not feel like me. As I felt it had to be in a long hairstyle for the style of the dress. I loved the dress, off-the-shoulder, big long skirt with a bustle at the bottom of the spine. Absolutely beautiful. Size 8/10 I managed to get down to (but that was through stress. I wanted the day but

My Traveling Days – Blonde Didn’t Last For Long (bleach not healthy for my hair)

I was not happy with the guy. That’s another story for another time). Made from brush silk. When I think back I wish I had had it the way I wanted it but I did not have the persona that I have now. A lot has changed since then. It did not last. Hence the move to Northampton in the year 2000.
So I would like to grow my hair again but without hair colour. I think being able to set it and put it up in all different ways would be fun. I also could get my hairdressing kinksters to have a better time in session than they are already.  I could be their model by washing, blowdrying, setting, perming ( water as a makeshift perm lotion and neutralizer) Colouring ( using conditioner as a makeshift colour). I have hair long enough to do this now. 
Trichophilia appointments…
If you have a hair fetish of any kind (only head and body hair, NOT pubic hair) then CONTACT ME  and we can discuss your requirements.
19 Dec 2021
December 19, 2021

S is for Sadism…

Sunday 19th December 2021

Blog No.157/ Blogmas No.19

Tonight I am going to enjoy this fetish as I am this fetish. It is part of what I do and i enjoy doing it. To accept becoming a sadist Mistress you have to know the different levels of pain.

What is Pain?…

So…What Are You Waiting For?

The definition of pain is totally down to the individual. To one person it can mean getting a tiny splinter and to another, it can mean taking a hard beating at a corporal punishment session.

What do I like about being a sadist?…

The feeling of being in control is what I love about my sessions. Guiding the level of pain at certain times so I can take the sub on a rollercoaster of a journey. Increasing the intensity whether it is electrics, vibration, or touch. The feeling that travels through the subs body is what makes me thrive at that particular time. I don’t plan anything. This is why I am happy that I have got to my level of  profession that I can change on the spare of the moment what I do. If I plan a session in my head then the client changes his mind or the body language guides me in a different direction I have no choice but to go that way. 
Are You A Masochist Who Is In Search Of A Sadist To Control You Levels Of Pain?
If so CONTACT ME  and we can converse and see what type of pain I can inflict on you… Pleasurable pain obviously.
18 Dec 2021
December 18, 2021

R is for Restriction…

Saturday 18th December 2021

Blog No.156/ Blogmas No.18

Restriction is a small word for such a big fetish. To Anyone that doesn’t know much about it, they would think wrong things about it. If you are really into it then it can be very arousing and erotic if you are in the right frame of mind.

Mental restriction…

I Will Restrict You, Mind, Body, And Soul…

For someone that is not familiar with their mistress, mental restriction is the best way to ease their uncertainty. To tell them to put their hands in a certain position is much more comfortable for their ease so that if they don’t want to continue or feel they need to move their arms ect they can.

Cuffs and Rope…

When they are happier in your presence then cuffs and rope can

Restrictive Hogtied…

be introduced. A connection between the mistress and sub is essential for the session to flow just right when using physical restriction equipment. Depending on the type of cuffs you can have the wrists and ankles immobilized separately or hogtied and have them linked together. This all depends on the mobility of the subs joints. I am all for pleasurable pain that lasts for hours but not pain that they have difficulty with for days after the session has ended.

Suspension restriction…

Now, this is very exciting to use in a session. Again depending on the sub’s mobility and fitness is depending on what position you are able to suspend them in. I have hooks in the ceiling of my dungeon so this is possible. Like Japanese rope art if you suspend the sub in a beautifully decorative way the sub’s limbs will be restricted but they

Nipple Chopsticks May Not Seem Much But Have You Tried Them???

have no cushioning from the rope on their body. So if the sub is inexperienced this could be very uncomfortable for them. The heavier the body the more painful the rope will be on the flesh. Restrictive rope art is much more pleasant on a bench as your body weight will not discomfort you at all.

Smaller Restrictive Equipment…

When a sub needs to be put in restraints it doesn’t only have to be cuffs or rope there are lots of other ways. Cuffs can mean Metal Thumb Cuff, Metal Handcuffs ( police role play), Leather Cuffs, Armbinder, Humbler, Ball Crusher of multiple materials, Testicle Weights, Chastity Devices of all shapes and designs. The list can go on. 

Leather Body Bag With Detachable Hood…

Restriction is applied with this body bag. From your neck to feet it has multiple leather strapping to further restrict all movement. If you have an itch then you have to sort it before your incased. To have your full body in restrictive wear it can be very exciting to have your control taken away. To be teased from all angles and not be able to do anything about it can blow your mind. If you have fully given your whole being to your mistress for the session it makes the time

Full Restrictive Leather Body Bag With Detachable Hood

together that bit more intense. Leather has no give in it, unlike faux leather or material. So if you are getting your body bag customized then be sure to add on a few inches in places so it fits you with no sore patches. 

Lucy’s Fetish Closet…

If you wish to have one of these leather body bags including a hood yourself CONTACT ME and we can discuss your requirements as they are customized. If you wish to change the design that is possible.

Restriction is For Everyone…

Even if it does not appeal to you there are ways around these things to take part in this but by your rules. I do my session by asking and fully understanding what the client wants first before even walking into the dungeon. Restriction can take place anyway. It does not have to be a BDSM setting. CONTACT ME if you are interested and we can discuss it further.