15 Jan 2020
January 15, 2020

Feet and Hands…Why?

Wednesday 15th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.46.
We have to deal with what we are born with according to some people’s views. Plastic surgery can change any part of the human body apart from feet and hands

If a female has a size 8 feet and she would rather have a size 5, that is not possible. To reconstruct every bone of the foot it’s impossible.

Mistresses Natural Finger Nails

Exactly the same as hands. We have to deal with what we are born with.

It doesn’t matter what we look like or if we have big or small hands and feet, there will always be someone out there that likes you for being you.

Hands and feet are beautiful parts of the body according to some men or women. Hands are very expressive when talking.

If you have feelings for your partner then to hold their hand is a sign of affection but to a hand kinkster hands can be much more meaningful than just a body part at the end of your arm.

The nails, length, and shape of fingers, palm of the hand, how well they are kept or even unkept nails and hands. Basically everything about hands.

Now feet are a league of their own. You can have a fetish for immaculate feet where the nails are perfectly painted and the soles of the feet are soft as the Caribbean sand or you can absolutely love the texture and feel of unkept feet with hard skin, long toenails and even what’s in between the toes.

A Lucky Sissy Maid Was Allowed To Worship Her Mistresses Tired Stocking Feet

I have had a client ask for my feet to be in my trainers with damp soaks for 3 days so he can lick my feet clean.

I obviously declined on that occasion because that can be bad for the skin for that length of time.


leave my feet for 4 weeks without pedicuring them and then when I do take the hard skin off my heels for him to lay underneath my feet and for the shavings to go in his mouth.

For one thing that is one of the most unsafe and unhygienic fetishes I have heard of and you can get all sorts of infections of the mouth that way.

I am very clean so I know he is safe with me but even still….no

So as I have mentioned kinksters love your hands and feet whatever the state they are in and even request them to be in the worst state than you can imagine them to be…

If you have a hand or foot fetish contact me and we can converse more on the topic

13 Jan 2020
January 13, 2020

Why Is Punishment An Addiction?….

Monday 13th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.44.
Punishment brings back memories of your past in a way you will never forget. Some times it is hurtful punishment when it’s not your fault and other times its pleasurable punishment. This is when it turns into a fetish that you crave that feeling again and again and go back for more.

Do you want to feel the backside of my cane boy!!!!

It can be a feeling of being at school and being naughty just so a teacher you fancy will take to you as an individual because you have been disrupting the piece during class time.

She calls you back after class to give you a telling off and a time to come back for detention.

In the olden days when caning or a ruler over the hands or backs of legs was aloud for the high pain threshold children, they would be naughty just so they could feel the sting of the cane etc on across the palm of their hand.

If they had been very naughty they would be invited to the headmistresses office for a bottom caning that may only be 5 strikes of the thin long implement but the sting that it would produce would stay with you for days.

Punishment is all in the mind.

Or the straps across your weak feeble bottom!!!!

When someone tells you that you have done something wrong that is only what they interpret as being wrong.

To you, you misbehave because you want to have that sting in your cheeks feeling again like you did when the whip caressed your bare skin with Venum in its vicious tongues

That feeling that lasted longer than the moment it happens so you can re-en-act that precise moment in your head over and over again.

Punishment is an addiction in a way that you will only understand because every reason is unique to the individual.

If this topic is one of your fetishes do contact me to talk it over more about putting it into reality…..


12 Jan 2020
January 12, 2020

Women That Like To Dress Like Men…

Sunday 12th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.43.
There are many types of women in this world that are very happy in their own skin.

As the media says “A female should look like this and do it like that” but it’s not an everyone’s opinion of what a woman should be like.

What your reading is the views of the reporter who put the article together. Its what he/she thinks in their mind what a female should be like.

I am only talking from what I feel like on this topic. So please don’t take any of the following statements to be against anyone.

I am a very independent and dominant female. Whatever stage of my life I have been in I have always put my look together on the basis of what I have felt like at that present moment.

I do have my girlie moments when I choose to put a dress or a skirt with a feminine blouse and heels but I’m still me underneath it all.

female uniform in a masculine world

Some ladies feel more comfortable in trousers or jeans and like to look more on the masculine side but this doesn’t mean they are butch, lesbian, bisexual or gay. Whatever you want to call it.

Now, look at me…to anyone that doesn’t know me they would firstly judge my appearance and assume what they think I sexually am in their eyes.

Very short hair, masculine features, No makeup, non-feminine outfits (not like a sexy, girlie, female is interpreted EG: Pinup girl or Escort)

Now you would be wrong. I am very straight with no tendencies towards women.

I may look at a woman in a nice outfit and admire her but that is it.

I have a male partner that I have been with for 9, coming up for 10 years. He likes me the way I am because I am genuine and not fake in my nature.

I am not saying this to put a point across but to really mention that no one should judge anyone before you know all the facts about them.

Just because a female likes the basics of life doesn’t mean she bats for the other team. I say this in the nicest possible way with a comical twist to my manner to make this topic light-hearted.

So let’s all appreciate all walks of life and treat them as equals as we are all human beings just like the next person…



11 Jan 2020
January 11, 2020

New Hairdressing Fetish Cape And Haircut…..

Saturday 11th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.42.
Over the past year, I have decided to cut my own hair because I have not found a hairdresser competent enough to please me. In this time I have been able to design what I think is a style that suits my hair type and face/head shape.

It’s taken me a few haircuts to find what I am happy with but I think I am finally there.

My style is a basic clipper cut, contouring from NO.1. to NO.8. guard. We all have different skull shapes unique to the individual which unfortunately some hairstyles doesn’t look as good with some shape heads as others.

I have developed a bony head with my weight loss and change of eating recently.  I  have got to accept that I won’t get the smoother no.1. blend silhouette as I would have had years ago.

Before My Haircut

Oh well, That’s life. That’s what happens when growing older but I’m still happy.

I have to be in the mood to cut my hair otherwise I don’t feel that the outcome is what I particularly like and aim for.

So as you can see from the photographs that I woke up in the mood to go that bit shorter this time.

The reason being is that when my hair gets to a certain length when I wake and my crown sticks up, it lays very strange at times.

So the only way to sort it out is to have a shower which I love to do every morning but it then plants that seeds in my mind that I need a haircut very soon.

This firstly happened yesterday morning when I greeted the postman by not having the chance to looking at myself before answering the door to him.

After My Haircut

He probably didn’t notice but I sure did when I went to check after I closed the front door.

Also lately I have been looking out for some different hairdressing capes, to my disappointment I have not found anything but the normal production line cotton, cheap nasty looking plastic or children’s capes.

So as I mentioned in a previous blog that I have bought a sewing machine with vouchers that had been tributed to me on amazon.

So last night I started on my first design of BDSM, hairdressing, Fetish Capes. Although I didn’t need to use the sewing machine for what I wanted to do. At least it was a start.

Now I haven’t seen anything like this online or anywhere as I have been looking for a while now. So, as far as I know, this is my unique design and there will be more from where that came from in the near future.

Whatever material I can make into a cape and whatever I can attach to it to make it fetish I will give it a jolly good go and I won’t give up till I succeed.

What you see me wearing when I cut my hair today is my first attempt at this design but as I make many more I will get better and the end result will be more to what I really want and at a satisfactory standard. I do have high standards in a lot of things.

So keep watching this space for more weird and wonderful Fetish items.

If you would like an experience in my BDSM Hairdressing Salon contact me and we can converse more about the topic.

Friday 10th January

Daily Blog Extra
Everyone likes to be touched in one way or another but not everyone likes to be tickled. It is an acquired feeling and like marmite, you either love it or hate it.

This is a difficult topic to find a photograph for. So please use your imagination to imagine what it would feel like to be tickled while you read through my blog.

This is a known fetish where individuals long to be tickled to the extreme sense of laughter.

Touching on the sensitive parts of their body gently at first and building up to a feeling of extreme hilariousness and maybe even wetting themselves a little or a lot.

If tickled in the same area for too long your body gets used to the feeling and after a while, it is not ticklish and you become immune to the touch.

To change frequently to different parts of the body keeps the tickle sensation much more alive but do be careful where you tickle as it can trigger a fitting sensation on rare occasions.

Although, tickling yourself is impossible because the brain is too clever. The brain will not tell your body part that you’re going to tickle yourself but if someone else is tickling you you won’t know where and when it is going to happen.

So then when it happens the brain will send that trigger to tell you to react in a certain way.

Now touching a body part EG: the back can be very sensitive. When giving a massage to your partner, running your hands of the area can turn into tickling without you even trying.

If they are extra relaxed then their nerve ends can be brought closer to the surface of their skin which will make them much more sensitive to your touch.

So whoever your touching and teasing be kind to them as without you realising it can turn into a tickle in a split second.

The body is an amazing but comic thing sometimes but very enjoyable if you’re in the right frame of mind.

If you are interested in a tickle torture or massage session contact me and we can converse more on the topic…



08 Jan 2020
January 8, 2020

Why Do We Need Breasts?…

Wednesday 8th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.39.
There are so many reasons why men and women have breasts. The reason men have undeveloped breasts and only nipples are because we are all developed in our mother’s wombs that way. We are all born with nipples.

Women’s breast grow more than mens because we have the hormones estrogen and progesterone. Men do produce a small amount of estrogen but not as much as women.

Natural Female Breasts

That is why we increase breast growth through our younger years, up to our late teens

Nowadays the culture of transgender beings is brought more to our notice than back in the day.

This has helped men who have tendencies to like dressing in women’s clothing to be more open with their thoughts than hiding and be a closet kinkster.

A good percentage of guys make amazing looking females because they don’t have female cellulite which can be a big hindrance to us ladies when sculpting ourselves to the shape we dream about.

How To Do It The Wrong Way…Still Hairy

Having breasts helps with the hourglass curve of a media produced woman.

We should all be happy with what we were born with but we never are. The media are at fault with this because they stereotype the ideal womanly shape when really a female can look fantastic whatever her shape may be like.

For example, if a female has a small frame and develops A cup breasts through puberty then that is what her body is telling her she should make look good.

Yes, we can put implant/chicken fillets (as they are comically called sometimes) to boost our shape in a nice top but why are we doing that?

Natural Male Breasts

To impress who? If your doing it for the opposite sex then eventually when you do sleep together they are going to find out your true size or be very shocked when they go to feel your breast and it comes away in their hand.

What’s more traumatic for your new partner? Seeing you in your contented way because you’re not worrying if one chicken fillet is high than the other or be as fake as possible and being a major disappointment and never having a 2nd date with anyone?

Your choice……

Now If it’s for playtime or you have decided to change sex then fake implants and padding is a must.

A Good Looking Fake Breast Implant

The person you will be meeting will know that you are a part-time TV and will obviously know that your breasts arent real as you have a day job as a manly man lorry driver. So chicken implants is the only option.

When dressing up in playtime it can be equally as convincing if put together correctly.

I tend to think when men dress men up as women they lose that feminine touch that only a woman know-how to.

As in how to put make-up on, what goes together with what in an outfit, different shades of colours and the condition of your wig and how it is  put on.

Also when a guy dresses as a female they have to remember to shave everywhere. That is what gives it away sometimes.

To vanilla men breasts on a woman are just for playing with in a sexual act apart from feeding their offspring.

So breasts are great in all ways whatever size you have

If you would like to have a male to female transformation session contact me and we can converse a little more….






Wednesday 8th January 2020

Daily Blog Extra

When having a once in a lifetime moment we all like to take photos to remember it from. So to all you Sisy maids and kinksters that love to wear women’s clothes to look better than ever, why not have a photo shoot.

It will include a full transformation with a natural-looking wig (many to choose from), Makeup and outfits that will make you look unrecognisable.

Kathy, The Shy School Girl

It is always best to let me know your chest, waist and leg measurement together with your footwear size. This is so I can make sure I have everything I need for your experience.

It also includes any photos that you would like or they can be put on my website for you to browse them whenever you want to.

Discreet Photography

I have many backdrops that can set the theme of whatever you wish.

The way I take my photos can be in a discreet way ( partial body shoots) or an open way (meaning your face is on show) but the way you will be made up you won’t have anyone recognise you.

If you have any birthmarks or tattoos you want to be hidden then it can be by clothing or theatrical makeup or camera angle.

Either way, your comfort is my top priority.

Within the time you are here, you can have a session of your choice. Whether it be BDSM or hairdressing etc the choice is yours.

For a 4 hour appointment, It will be a tribute cost of £300. If we go over time do not worry as if we are enjoying ourselves I will not mind spending more time together. Call it a girlie day of pleasure.

So if you are interested please contact me and we can discuss the finer details at our leisure…



06 Jan 2020
January 6, 2020

Capes, Aprons and Hair Nets Galore, Oh My….

Monday 6th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.37.
The hairdressing industry has been around for centuries but only if you really love something that makes you tingle inside does it become a fetish.

I never in my wildest dreams would think that it would be my most popular fetish I offer when I started mistressing.

The multitude of colours and types of materials there are to make capes out of is unreal.

This is why I have a sewing machine from a client who tributed me Amazon Gift Vouchers. I bought it because I can’t find the type of capes I’m looking for and I would prefer to design and make them myself.

Then the world is my oyster as they say. Anything that I can make a cape out of I will.

Now the same goes for aprons and hairnets. It’s only a shaped piece of material with a hem around it. So why in hells name are they so expensive!!!

Well, I don’t need to worry about that as I am going to have as many capes, aprons and hairnets as I possibly can make.

The more I make the better I get at making them. Oh, my life is getting much more fun every day that passes by…..what next!!!!!

If you have a Hairdressing fetish do contact me and we can talk more girlie fun…


Sunday 5th January 2020

Daily Blog NO.36.
When we all were at an age that we had no choice but to wear a nappie we didn’t think that it would evolve into a fetish that we loved so much.

Everyone has had a situation in their life where they have either wet them by mistake or did it on purpose. Either way, we all know what it feels like.

To the fetish community of ‘Diaper Lovers’, they wear the fluffy, cosy nappies 24/7 or near enough to that amount of time.

Adult Diapers and Plastic Panties

The feeling of relieving themselves on the spot where ever they may be and it not leaking through to their normal clothes is so exciting that they do it anywhere and everywhere.

This fetish is not to be mistaken for Adult Baby Minding as they do not like to wear rompers and baby grows but just wear the nappie of their choice under their own regular adult clothes.

The thrill of going into a shop and asking “Which aisle are the adult nappies keep in?” is enough to start the adrenaline pumping through their veins.

Just to see the look of humour or disgust on the sales assistant face while you look at them all glazed eyes is fun its own way.

It is surprising in a way how many are in the Fetish Diaper Community. It is so easy to hide what we don’t want anyone to see.

We may keep our trouser belts down a little lower than normal. So if we bend over, the person behind us can see a Thomas the tank engine or my little pony picture on the edge of our nappies.

To horrify a vanilla stranger is all part of the fun because if we were all the same the world would be so dam boring.

If you have this fetish or something like this then contact me and we can talk a little more…


02 Jan 2020
January 2, 2020

Basic To Boujee On A Budget…..

Thursday 2nd January 2020

Daily Blog NO.33
Nowadays when it comes to any product you can buy cheap and expensive but is the quality there?

I have developed a new fetish of my own when it comes to wigs. Over the past few months, I have collected around 25 wigs of all different colours textures and styles.

Human hair lace frontal wig which can be coloured, permed and is heat resistant. Set on medium rollers and backcombed into style.

The cheaper wigs without lace are the very first ones that I purchased because of curiosity and when delivered was very disappointed but put it down to experience.

Now they have developed a new type of wig that is a reasonable price but looks expensive. Well, all depends on the wig how you style and dress it.

When i receive any wig through the post i like to wash and condition it. Maybe leave it in a plastic bag with the conditioner on it for a day or so. Some hairpieces if they are bad I have left in the conditioner for 1 week. Wow, what a difference. Much softer and the shine is lovely.

I then will detangle and blowdry it. Human hair wigs are easier to manage but fake hair wigs are more tangled and have to have more care of them.

I then look at the hair and what style it is already to what style I will cut it into.

Fake budget colourful lace frontal wig made to look better than it is

Cutting wigs are different from cutting a human beings hair. For one, the model canvas head I have attached to my office desk is not always the same shape as the wig. So I have to physically put on the wig to guide where the ear tabs need to be and sculpt it around my shape head.

There is a difference in peoples head sizes but our ears are roughly in the same place. So I know I’m cutting them in the right place.

Its amazing how a wig can change a face shape and appearance. Just like make-up that can make you look like another person completely.

I love doing transformations, its so much fun seeing the clients face when I reveal their female persona to them.

As I have always said “Every human being has male and female tendencies in them”.

Human Hair Lace Frontal Wig. Can be bleached, coloured, permed and is heat resistant

So even if a man looks very manly. He will still pass as a female when transformed. As there are a few manly looking women out there.

I don’t mention this to offend in anyway but I’m just stating the truth.

So the conclusion to this blog today is that you don’t have to go over your budget to have a beautiful wig.

I do do a wig transformation service if you have a tired-looking wig and would like it to be made over to look a million dollars (or pounds in our case).

Contact me and we can talk further. I don’t have fixed prices I just cost the job for the individual client. This can be done during a hairdressing fetish appointment.

I will look forward to hearing from you….