Wednesday 11th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.102.
Not ever one needs toys to receive enjoyment out of their pleasure but it helps for a bit of a change every now and again.
Custard Massage
As they say ‘Hands were here before any invention’ which is very true. Hands can do alot of wonderful things but the toys ad implements are there to enhance what the hands can do.
Whether your fetish is normal massage with a oil enhancer or a custard enhancer it is still going to get you to your pleasurable end result if you so wish.
It all depends which path you are in the mood to take as to what the third party you invite to join you…
So if your a kinky pervert or a vanilla gent that knows what he wants and sticks to it, either way contact me and we can converse about your niches that get you there.
Tuesday 10th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.101.
Maid service means a totally different thing now a days to what it would of done back in the day.
To find a anyone let alone a mistress that would accommodate any such fetish back then you have to look in a telephone box window.
Its a shame that regular society looks on fetishes as seedy and a back street game as if the vanilla type of person would only open up their mind they would see what they are missing out on.
Husband Maid Kathy
I have only heard of a small percentage of husbands that are allowed to dress up at home from their secret wardrobe full of maids uniforms that have everything sewn on it to look as girlie as they possibley can.
The wifey will go out with the girls and say to him (who she has named him a maids name EG: Lucinda to feel the part and as a code for chores time).
“Right Lucinda, I’m out for a couple of hours. I have wrote your chores down for you and I expect them all to be done by the time I get back. I have left the envelope on the bed with your uniform that I have picked for you today. I will expect you to have lunch ready for me on my arrival. I may bring back my friends and embarrass you but then again i may not. That is for you to worry about in the mean time”.
For many husband Maids that would be very exciting and thrilling but it rarely happens because a vanilla female expects her partner to be the alpha male and to dress up is pathetic in their eyes.
Such a shame as i can imagine that would be a perfect life for him in his fantasy world…
If you would like to be my fantasy husband maid then contact me and we can discuss it further.
Sunday 8th March 2020
Daily Blog No.99.
Since I have decided to shave my head a lot of different questions have come into my thoughts. One of them is ‘Does Hair Give You Confidence?’
You have heard a lot about me and my experiences in my hairstyles recently because it is something I am passionate about.
08/03/20
It has been and is my trade for the past 30 years and when something is in your system then that is what rules your life.
Going back to the question in the title of this blog…Hair is just a sign of whether your health or not.
As we get older all of us have hair thinning troubles but that doesn’t mean we are unhealthy it just our hair pattern as we get older.
The hair that we still have grows at a good rate depending on what we eat and what country we live in.
09/12/19
I say this because like plants we need to have food, water and sun. Other countries have longer and warm hours of sun than we do in England (where I am based) which means everything grows better there.
To consume a healthy plan of food is not always the case of a plant based plan and only that. We all need a treat every now and again and unfortunately tasty treats are not always the healthiest.
So when a plant is feed the right amount of nutrients, watered correctly and is kissed the right amount of times by the sun it grows its absolute best way it knows how to.
When it comes to humans if we have deficiencies and neglect ourselves then our hair will grow but not so fast and not as healthy.
07/12/19 – Human Hair Wig
So when we ask ourselves the second question that steams from the first question ‘Where does our confidence come from?’ the answer is definitely not all due to our hair.
Confidence comes from within not from your hairstyle. As you can see I have shaved my hair off (well its growing back a bit now but I would do it again any day) and I am still confident in all I do.
This blog could go on forever and a day as it is something else that I am passionate about together with hairdressing.
I may make a E-book about my lack of confidence experiences because it has been a 10 year or longer recovery phase that I have been through.
I would love to share it with you and help anyone that needs a boost of confidence ect to build your self love up like I love life right now.
If you would like to contact me about anything at all then I would love to hear from you…
Saturday 7th March 2020
Daily Blog Extra
When looking online one day I came across a n article that a mistress had wrote about selling her used items. The most popular things were stockings and panties.
So the question I asked myself was ‘Why buy used items when new ones are a cheaper?’.
The conclusion I came to was that the sent of a female that you are drawn towards to is so much more attractive than a regular used item.
Well Worn Mistress Stockings
The thought that she has been working hard in the stockings. The odour that she will be produced whilst she has her feet in the shoes will be perspiring thermions that will soak into the sole of the nylons.
That is what will get you all hot under the collar and will make your trousers move in such a way that they will feel tight very quickly.
May be its ladies panties that you like. Cotton, lacey, silky or mesh material.
Full, midi, mini or thong, what is your turn on? Your imagination runs wild thinking of her lady parts moving around on them as she walks and goes about her day.
Tiny Well Worn Panties
The longer she’s in them the more of an aroma of her busy day will soil them. You long to have the scent of her in your nostrils so it an send signals to parts of you that you need to touch.
The sociology of why the scent of a female is such a must is that it is a customised reason for the individual.
We are all different and we like what we like. There is a reason for everything but for some of us we don’t why we like something until we delve deeper into our sub consciousness and toye with the emotion that will tell us the reason why.
So if you would like a used item from Mistress Lucy then contact me and we can converse further on what your need is requiring…
Friday 6th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.97.
When I first started in the fetish industry I never thought that I would develop a relationship with my equipment like I have done.
There are certain items that I love more than others because they have just been more attractive to my eye and have performed well.
Mr Whippy In Well Deserved Hands
My canes have been the most appealing because they are a gorgeous piece of wood to handle.
Whether they are Bamboo, Rattan or Walnut with a lacquered finish for hygiene, they only perform as well as the handler.
My fist cane (2011) was a cheap bamboo cane that I got online. I didn’t know a lot about the punishment niche so I got what I could afford at the time.
It worked well for me then but as the years past and I developed a deeper relationship with corporal punishment.
So I decided to invested in better quality canes that where much more beautiful to handle and to look at.
I don’t like to give my canes the proper names that people know them by but I do give them nicknames that resemble how they perform under my control.
My greatest love is Mr Whippy because he is a fine and a magnificent performer.
Thin in length but very strong. Pliable and versatile to what my wrist requires of him.
He can give a sensual sting to the flesh that will leave a pinking of the area or a cracking impact that will leave a welting to the skin in 1 strike.
Continuous strikes from a powerful swing can guarantee scaring.
Mr Whippy will only give you what you deserve or what your boundaries will allow.
The one thing I know with him is that he means business when he has his mistresses fingers wrapped around his base..
So if you have been a naughty boy that need to be put in his place contact me and it can be arranged.
Thursday 5th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.96.
When a sub is looking for either a first mistress because they are new to the industry or a new mistress because their previous one had retired ect they could be looking for a long time to find her.
To find the right one takes time and a check list of priority things that must be compatible with yourself. If these things don’t marry up then it could be a disaster waiting to happen.
The Stare Says It All
So the quay factors of finding a compatible mistress are:
- She offers what you are expecting from your mistress.
- You have to be attracted to her in some way. If not sexual then a bond between you that draws you to her for every time she summons you to serve her.
- How long has she been in the fetish/niches industry so that you will enjoy your experience in the session. Inexperience can ruin or even put you completely off a fetish that you have longed to enjoy.
- She is in a comfortable traveling distance from you.
- She entertains in a location that you are totally relaxed in.
If all of these add up with the response you receive from her then your in a win win situation. For you to be totally comfortable with your mistress you have to be yourself 100%.
As if you are on edge and worried about something then it will unbalance your mind within your subspace. Which will end in a half hearted session on your side.
It is the same for a mistress when receiving inquiries. I, myself have to go through a check list in my mind.
The main reason being is this is my home I am inviting you into. I have had a couple of very disrespectful clients that decided to act completely different on arrival to when we where conversing on the phone.
That is a very silly way to be because when I sense you are not the person I require in my company then I wrap up a session very quickly and without you knowing it your dressed and being guided to the front door and your walking away from my establishment and will never be seen here again.
Over the years I have met a lot of lovely and kind clients that I honestly could call friends.. I say this because those type of people respectfully know my boundaries and never cross them.
If I decide I would like to do something that I am comfortable with doing I will then always proposition them or mention it before it happens. I also need to know their boundaries. Once I do then we are on a happy level…
Tuesday 3rd March 2020
Daily Blog NO.94.
The word vintage is so fashionable these day that if you like new things your so off trend its untrue.
The unfortunate thing about vintage items is the companies are making them new and classing them as vintage and then still pricing them as vintage items. If you know what I mean.
Vintage fetishes are unique
For example, old school barbers with the whirly candy stick (as I call it) out side the door to attract passers by was a regular and average thing back in the day.
The comb over hair style was for the poor old guys that didn’t want to show their bold patch. So they would desperately hold onto their hair on a windy day in case it flapped like they were waving to the passer by on the other side of the road but now a days even the tiny children are carrying off the same stke.
To mix new and vintage is nice but it has to be put together just right otherwise it looks out of place.
When it comes to vintage fetishes such as hairdressing the ladies hairdressing is a whole different fetish on its own.
Setting rollers, hair nets and seated setting dryers in rows of 4 to 6 will bring back memories for lots of ladies that were growing up in that era.
In the fetish world men have a fantasy of being able to dress in the pretty capes and have their hair in rollers with pink hair nets but not all high street salons will accept this kind of behaviour.
Only if all hairdressers knew what a big thing the hair fetish Is….
So if you have a hairdressing fetish contact me and we can converse about the topic a little more…
Saturday 29th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.91.
When looking online and see the inventions that have been successful over the years I begin to wonder whether people are just inventing things that have been invented before and putting their own twist on it…and why not if your not stepping on anyone’s toes.
I enjoy all my appointments but I really enjoy my hairdressing combination appointments.
Before the Hair Shaft Removal
As It has been my trade for 30 years or more I can practically do a haircut with my eyes closed (in a manners of speaking).
So lately I have been getting a lot of clients asking for haircuts and BDSM in the same appointment.
I wanted to give my procedure a twist and make it like no other appointment.
Shorn And Happy
So recently I have been giving the lay down haircut on the BDSM bench whilst conducting either handcuffed tease or apparatus to different parts of the body with vibration and stimulation of the other kind.
It helps the time be used more efficiently and keeps the client occupied whilst the haircutting procedure is taking place.
It seems to be very enjoyable as I have had no complaints yet.
Obviously I take another look at the haircut in a upright potion in the barbers chair before they leave.
I wouldn’t want my reputation to take a nose dive by being cutting corner about anything, now would I.
So if you would like a Mistress Lucy’s BDSM way of amputation of the hair shafts then contact me and we can converse some more.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries.
Friday 28th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.90.
Like every month that I have been in the industry I am always busy 2-3 weeks and the 3rd week is where money is tight and clients are then waiting for pay day to come around again.
It has taken me a while to work this out but when you realise this pattern is a regular thing every month then you have to know how to handle your money out etc…
I have a lot less stress these days when the phone doesn’t ringing because I know it will next week. I gives me more of an opportunity to catch p on the list of things that accumulates on the busy weeks.
So this week has been a fabulously busy week to my liking. Considering that the beginning of the month I always pay my bills so they are out of the way.
So when the end of the month comes around like this week it means I can afford to have a self indulgent shopping spread of the things I need or want.
So I decided to spruce up my finger and toe nails and buy some different varnishes and bits and pieces as I have had quiet a few foot and hand fetish clients contact me.
As my nails have not been in good shape or what I would like them to be I have said no and turned them away or said not at the moment.
As soon as they are looking the way I want to I will let you know so all you nail kinksters can have you wicked way with my beautiful hands and feet.
I also got some new items of clothing and underwear for my dress up wardrobe for all you cross dressers. Collecting different sizes in the underwear, clothing and footwear is very costly so I have to do it on a monthly bases.
The collection is getting there but still need some more larger sizes in footwear to add as it is difficult to purchase anything higher than a 10 in a male/female shoe and if you can get it it is way over a average price.
Its all good but as I say budget is a much unless I win the lottery. Finger’s crossed everyone.
Thursday 27th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.89.
To go out with friends and have fun is one thing but to go out with friends gambling and loosing the bet is another.
I have a client who had a bet on the horses and lost. The forfeit is when he comes to see me to let me do whatever I want to him.
So when he messaged me to say his friend was going to contact me with the things he wanted done to him. I was think “oh what fun”.
Loosing A Bet Can Be More Heart Breaking Than Loosing Your Underwear…
Leaving a mistress in total control… is that wise and one that is not afraid to do anything, I mean anything.
So I received the message and the things that wee mentioned weren’t anything out of the normal as my client was a bit extreme anyway in our normal sessions.
So as the day drew closer I would get the odd nervous text to beg not to do anything outrageous because he had very important meetings the next day.
I wouldn’t reply to keep him guessing. As that’s what loosing a bet is all about. Its not supposed to be comfortable.
On the morning of the appointment (which was at 4:30pm) I had a very seriously worried man that was that nervous like he was about to do a buggee jump with a rope.
At that point I replied with “Don’t worry. Trust me”. I had only met him 2 times so saying that didn’t ease things but I found it hilarious.
When he turned up he approached my door like a sorry naughty dog with his tail between his legs. As he stepped into my hallway from the door way he didn’t say a word.
I put my hand out for him to place the tribute into it and then looked at the stairs for him to go up them to my entertinment floor.
As he stood at the top of the stairs waiting for me to join him he said in a very timid voice “what are you going to do to me?”
I looked into his eyes and said nothing and just ignored him. I walked straight pasted him as if he wasn’t there.
When I decided to speak I told him to get undressed apart from his under pants. Then i said “take them off and pass them to me”. This made him puzzled and a little confused.
As I held them in front of him. I got my scissors and cut them down the middle. “no” he said with a begging tone to his voice. “Why” I said “don’t you have another pair with you?”
He was booked into a hotel close by as he had a meeting for the next couple of days in the next town.
I walked to my widow, opened it and threw them out. “Now you don’t have any knickers, do you!!!”
From then on he knew what I said I meant in every way possible…
So if you fancy loosing our bet then contact me and see what happens…