Friday 27th December
Daily Blog NO.27.
Branding…What is it and why do it? This can be performed in many different ways and for many different reasons.
It can be done through physical action EG: a shown tattoo/invisible tattoo or a burn mark/mental branding.
It all depends on the personal situation the branded is in.
When it comes to being owned by the mistress you show undying loyalty to, you both have to come to an understanding which is going to be convenient for both of you.
If the branded is in a relationship then a visible tattoo is not going to work. Yet a temporary/invisible tattoo or a mental branding will work.
A temporary tattoo is drawn on with lipstick, lipliner or eyebrow pencil can easily be wiped off with a wet wipe at the end of the session.
An invisible tattoo is permanently drawn on in white or light ink in a place that is not visible on a regular place. If you were to have it on your arm and although it is not visible without a tan when you go on holiday and catch some colour in a hot country then it may show up more than you imagine it to.
Mental branding is a verbal agreement that is not legal but stays between the mistress and sub.
No one is marked in any way but your mistress will say things to you that if you do not do as you are told there will be consequences.
To some of the more extremists a burn brand or a visible tattoo with an appropriate image that signifies your bond between the mistress and sub can be very possible.
I have also seen examples of piecings as a brand. You have to be very true to your loyal choice to have this done as this is more painful than a tattoo.
There are many more extreme ways to brand your body but to extreme for me to mention.
Think before you act on any of these things as once done they will physically or mentally scare you if taken away…
Monday 23rd December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.23.
As I sit here in my office at home with my array of Christmas goodies on my side plate and my vegan oat coffee I look over my emails and come across this particular one which basically asks ‘How serious are you about your career in Mistressing?’
I was a little shocked by this question as I was briefing over my emails, not fully taking anything in seriously as they were mostly junk mail from companies trying to sell me something.
So had to double back on the email and read it through again.
They wanted to know how I can take it seriously as its pathetic how men dress as women etc… “Oh dear,” I said to myself as I could see I would need to blog about this topic to put things straight with anyone else that thought this.
So just to clear this up once and for all so everyone knows what I am all about.
I am a down to earth person that doesn’t take any crap from no one but on the other hand, I am trustworthy and never judge a human being whatever their colour, creed, age or appearance.
Now if you are disrespectful to me in a very disrespectful way then that’s a different matter. My punishment to you will be personal because you have chosen it to be that way, not me.
If a guy has a fetish of dressing in silky knickers and stockings or wants to have a full transformation I will be very serious and embrace his fetish the way he requests.
Unlike some Mistresses who will take your money, titivate with you and then send you on your way on the dot when your time is up.
I am completely different…As I could make a lot more money than I do but then I would then be in the category of a conveyor belt mistress, which I definitely am not.
I concentrate on quality over quantity. I prefer to get to know you first then I am able to give you much more of a customized service.
Sorry for sounding so formal but this is the only way I know how to explain this to you without sounding shabby if you know what I mean.
I have taken many on journeys of transformations in many different fetishes. Doesn’t matter to me how mild or extreme you are, you are all welcome.
I do like to stick to one ruling though and that is my age preference of over 35 years old.
The reason being is that younger guys in my experience don’t take the fetish world seriously. To them, if they are paying for a service it has to include a partially naked or naked mistress that will perform personal services with them or to them during the time that they have booked.
I am not that type of Mistress. I turn away at least 3-4 or more phone calls or texts a day because of this.
For the amount of polite and pleasant potential and regular clients I receive, overrules the young pathetic inquiries.
As we say in the industry “It comes with the job” which is very true…
If you would like to a customized journey with a genuine, non-judgemental and down to earth mistress then i would love for you to contact me in your own convenient time.
If it is out of my hours then please email me and I will pick up my correspondence at the nearest possible time.
Sunday 22nd December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.22.
You may think the title of this blog is strange but it’s true. Marmite is an acquired taste, you either love it or you hate it. The same with tattoos.
Over the decade’s tattoos have become a personal thing to the one wearing them or it can be a tribal or gang-related mark that was not your choice.
Either way, the ink that is drawn upon you is permanent and should not be taken lightly when performed.
Many have had drunken holidays when they were younger and when they come back to reality, they regretted the art piece that they had chosen.
Like the numerous tattoo fixing television programs that can make you laugh and think “Reeeeeally” or situations that bring a tear to your eye because they want a permanent reminder of a past love one.
Either way, when deciding on your first piece of ink do your homework on your artist before you choose them for sure.
Like Pinterest or facebook, you have probably seen bad tattoos and amazing tattoos. Not all experienced artists are fantastic in their work.
I looked around for at least 6 months before having my first tattoo over 10 years ago. It’s not fantastic now like it was back then but my views have changed on what I would like it to look like.
I will get it re-inked and have the design made much better and clearer but I will never change the actual subject that I had in my mind for it.
Every tattoo I have has a meaning close to my heart and will stay with me forever.
We can never turn back time and when we have an experience in our life that we decide on keeping with us, what better way than to have a memory on your body which we have the option of keeping in sight or out of sight of others.
Once we start we can’t stop. It’s an addiction that I am proud to reveal. Urges are far and few between these days to get more work done but I will continue at some point in the near future.
Tattoos are mind-blowing when down well. So don’t fall into the trap of a bad artist because ink removal is costly and very painful.
It does not permanently take it away because you are then left with a nasty burn mark from the laser afterward.
What would you prefer? A Fabulous tattoo that you are proud to show off to the world or a nasty laser burn mark that you are embarrassed to expose to anyone that may see it by mistake.
It’s your choice…
If you have a tattoo fetish then i would love for you to contact me and we can talk about this further…..
Saturday 21st December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.21.
To anyone that doesn’t know about corsets, they come in female as well as male versions.
A corset is worn outside the clothing and is normally a plain material either cotton, PVC, Leather or faux leather.
A basque is for under the clothing. They are lace or a prettier material that underwear is normally made of.
The reason I say they will change your life is that they will change your look as well as your stature in every way.
If you don’t have a waist that is noticeable then you definitely will with a corset or basque.
It will take away your relaxed spin and make you stand, sit and walk with much more control.
Your breathing will slightly change EG: You will be much more aware of how you are taking each breath instead of taking it for granted.
I have dressed many guys in corsets and they are astounded about how they make them feel when laced in one.
It doesn’t have to be for a male to female transformation.
It can be for fetish play or whatever you choose the reason to be.
One thing I will say is when a guy is laced in a heavily boned corset they actually say that their admiration for ladies that wear them becomes greater than before.
Knowledge is powerful and fun at the same time.
So if you fancy experiencing being laced in one of my corsets then do contact me and we can converse much more.
You never know…You don’t know if you will like it til you try it. I will look forward to your inquiries…
Friday 20th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.20.
As a child, I would be taken to the local hairdressers every 6 weeks and have the page boy haircut. This was something like Joanna Lumley in the Avengers (for those who can remember that far back).
I didn’t know any different so I didn’t mind. It was the local trend at the time and it suited me so I stayed with it.
George was my regular hairdresser for at least 10 years and I would change my style as and when I was able to look after it myself better.
The one-length bob was my favorite style for a good while, Mary Quant fashion hairstyle.
As there are so many variations of it in so many different ways I would always find a look I liked.
I would get up 1 hour earlier than normal to blowdry my hair before school as if it wasn’t dried properly it would not sit right throughout the day.
When I left school I decided to go short as the other children at school would make fun of my ears as they protruded out further than anyone else.
This was the reason I kept my hair long to cover them. So when I started work I decided to go for a whole different look to make me look older.
My first real job was in a hair salon so I could have any style I wanted and it would go with the workplace.
Throughout my hairdressing career, I have been anything from black lopsided bob to short bleach-blonde crop.
The blonde I couldn’t keep for more than 2 recolors as I was very dark and it would take a lot to bring it to the nice ashy soft blonde that I wanted.
The last straw to the blonde phase was when I woke with a lot of hair on my pillow where it had broken off one morning.
Hence the 1/2 to a bolding fade haircut. This was the easiest hairstyle to manage but the fiercest hairstyle to carry off.
I knew I could carry any style off but its whether the people I worked with could look at me with it.
When your used to seeing someone with hair and then all of a sudden they don’t have any yes it is a shock to the system.
I was more shocked the next morning when I woke and scratched my head. Very worried at first then when I had surfaced from my deep sleep and looked at myself in the mirror I then realized that it wasn’t a dream.
Throughout the years, I have gone from long to short and over 2 – 3 more times in conjunction with changing my hair color.
To change your hair colour too often is not good for your hair. Eventually, it will give in and break off or go a strange candy floss texture and frizz up to something you won’t be happy with.
To find a hairdresser to cut my hair these days is a nightmare. They either are fantastic for 2 – 3 haircuts and then the 4th cut its like they go phyco on me and do as they please or just do a really bad cut that I have to redo myself and shorter.
So now I just do it myself. It’s a little difficult at first. With getting the hand mirror at the right angle but after 6 months of constant practice, I have it to a tee now.
I do have a long term client that has a short fetish so every now and again I will let him have a play with a longer clipper guard which doesn’t take much or any hair off at all.
Cutting my hair myself keeps me on the straight and narrow of emotions towards hairdressers. As now I don’t have to be annoyed at them anymore.
At least if I feel like a long hair day at any time I have plenty of wigs that I can choose from.
Just be careful of any salon hairdressers or barbers. Don’t fall under the spell-like I did and have to walk around with a horrible haircut until it grew out.
I have 30 years’ experience, so don’t worry your hair will be safe with me.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries. Do contact me and we can converse about this topic or others in greater detail.
Thursday 19th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.19.
Whatever your fetish might be it is always unique to you. Starting your journey to introduce your personal fetish to another human being is a big step.
You may not be interested in the other things we talk about but I have planted the seed that you will never forget.
You may dismiss it and think you’re not interested in that particular subject but over time you will carry on in your everyday life and something will come up in conversation at some point that will remind you of what we have conversed about.
It plays with your mind like a catchy tune of an annoying advert.
You can’t stop thinking about me for whatever reason you feel that you are attracted to me.
Even now there was something that drew you to my website. My boyish looks or my dominating stature. Whatever it is you won’t forget about me.
Maybe in a week, month or year or more you will return to take another look at my intriguing persona that only I can perform at its best.
I am unique in every way, I have done that on purpose.
No one else can give you what you want because I am the only one that can give you it the Mistress Lucy way…….
I will look forward to receiving your messages. You will contact me.….I know you will because you have read all the way through this blog to the last line of my content.
I’m waiting for you……
Wednesday 18th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.18.
The Hair Fetish has been around since the year dot but is only brought to people’s notice when a mistress offers that service openly.
Since I have noticed the inquiries I have been getting for some time have been because I have short hair.
Each appointment can vary from domination because they like my look or giving me a head massage to have the opportunity to feel my hair.
Either way, I am happy as short hair always falls back into place when finished being touched.
A woman’s hair can show a lot about her personality. Many females are frightened to cut too much off their hair because they feel it is their strength and to cut it would turn the opposite sex off them.
All I say is if your with a partner that only likes you for your hair and not you then your with the wrong person.
I am just me in general. No airs and graces and if a client thinks my look is too butch or masculine for them then, no worries just pass on by and thank you for taking the time to look at my website or profile.
Power is in confidence and if you don’t feel confident with short hair then don’t have it.
The reason I particularly like short hair on me is that I feel it suits my features and it is so much better and easier to handle.
I used to have long hair when I was younger but now I don’t have the patience to grow it.
That is why I love wigs or all colour and style. I can wake up one day and feel like being a black bob style or another day a blonde, style.
Isn’t the freedom to do as you please with your style amazing???
If you feel the need to be in the presence of a short-haired Mistress then contact me and we can converse some more…….
Sunday 15th December 2019
When a client inquires about Breath Control they nearly always ask about smothering and facesitting. To an experienced player in the BDSM world, they will understand that facesitting has nothing to do with a sexual act of oral.
I do ask if the client is good at underwater swimming. This shows that they can hold their breathe for a quiet a while.
To perform a session of breathe control it’s not just sitting on their face and watching television.
Like any bespoke fetish, there is an art to it.
Smothering is also a form of breathe control but it is much more intense.
it is completely covering the head to make you feel totally intoxicated with the situation.
It can be performed with any part of the body that will cover the nose or mouth or both.
In some extreme sessions, it can include the neck and airways. I have to be careful how I say this for acceptable wording but you know what I mean.
Everyone has their own particular way they like their fetishes to be performed.
The items of clothing can make a big difference also. EG: In a cotton shirt/skirt/trousers or jeans can very breathable but PVC or Latex is not.
So if you would like me to test your airways contact me and we can converse about this topic and more…
Saturday 14th December 2019
Good morning everyone,
This is a bit of a different blog today as I’m a day behind even though this blog is dated yesterday.
Sorry, I did not update my blog when I had decided to pack up from upholstering my BDSM furniture last night/this morning but it was gone 2 am and I was very tired.
I started at 12noon and (still not quite finished now) worked on it until the early hours of the morning. I’m a perfectionist (to best of my ability), that’s why it takes me so long and also upholstering, is not my profession.
So for those who have been following my blogs even before December, your know that I have been looking for a carpenter to make me a spanking bench of which I was hoping for a customized one so that I could have it just the way I want it.
Time after time people who were so-called carpenters would contact me and say “Yes sure I can do that for you” and in the end fail to produce.
I think I had roughly 8 carpenters that were complete fails.
In business, if you do a good job then your client ( hence myself) will advertise your good name and then you will get more work.
People don’t seem to think this way. Still, I didn’t get exactly what I have wanted but it will look just as good and will do the job that I want very well.
One day I was looking on eBay at some other things and came across this advertisement for a carpenters bench. Very chunky and not really what I was looking for, so dismissed it.
As a few days passed I was still looking for a bench but everything looked commercialized.
Anyone that knows me knows that I am not commercialized and like to be uniquely different.
I went through my checklist of what I was expecting my ideal bench to perform for me and funny enough this bench ticked all my boxes.
The things I wanted for my bench were the following:
- To be able to take any size and weight of person I have for any appointment.
- So that I have one piece of furniture to accommodate my BDSM and Massage clients.
- If I wanted to have attachments to it I could EG: Gyno supports, Stocks, St Andrews Cross (but my version), etc…
- If I wanted to have a cage underneath the table part then I could.
When having a piece of furniture made out of wood it is very versatile to do as I please with it.
Although metal is great and it really looks the part all I can do is hang things off of it and attach this to it (as I do not have welding skills) but I feel that it is not as sturdy as a solid wood frame.
To have anything like A St Andrews Cross or Stocks etc attached with wood I can attach with sturdy bolts and take off if I require.
I do like to put my own twist on things on many occasions.
So as you can see from the images I have attached to this blog the end result I like Is unique but clean cut.
Sometimes when having so much equipment it is difficult to be clean-cut in the design of my entertainment room but in my furniture, I will be this way.
Having many pieces of furniture will clutter up the floor space. Being compact will give more space to move around in.
I use my entertainment room as a photographic studio also. With backdrops for the male to female transformational photos as well as other things.
So I hope you enjoyed this update and when I have received the next delivery of spray glue I can start on the larger bench.
As the bench I did yesterday is the kneeling stool to the spanking part of the bench.
Big and bulky is the best type of multi-use furniture so it can take anything I want to do on it.
So do contact me and we can converse more. I will be looking forward to receiving your inquiries on any service that I offer……
Friday 13th December 2019
When anyone looks at a person in uniform it shows that they admire the authority that they could put upon you.
It depends on the type of uniform as to how much authority they have but a female in uniform shows a different type of authority.
Female supremacy is the correct title she is worthy of.
The power has to be within her otherwise she will blend into the surroundings and no one will take a blind bit of notice.
She must stand proud of your sexuality as a woman, a proud powerful woman that if she wishes she could have any man at her beck and call.
To do what she wants him to do when she wants him to do it. He would/could be her sub, slave, and servant and he will love to do anything she wishes of him.
Now a uniform doesn’t have to be anything of recognition. It could be just the way she decides to put her attire together.
Too many media minds think heels are the top desire to see a woman in to look powerful but this is not always the case.
If a dominate female ozzes power within herself then she could be in leisurewear and trainers and the sub will still kneel at her feet and worship her because he is assured of her power and stature by the way she controls him.
Any mistress of recognition would not be in leisurewear and trainers if not at the gym. These garments have a time and place to worn and its not within session time.
If you like a powerful female in uniform contact me and we can converse some more….